Lootequiette: Pmann's Totally Original/Unaffiliated Thread

[LadyLascivious1]

I miss all the fun

 

[hotwords229_A]

I seriously thought you were going to miss them.

That would have been a shame

Soooooooo glad I didn’t!

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I miss all the fun

Fine

For you

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Fine

For you

Dear lord, you are

 

[ydahecnot]

Fine

For you

Man, hotwords, you are smoooooth. And well played, TPH and aussiegeeky.

 

[Wand3rlust]

If you had the ability or option to change the way Lit interacts, what would you change? What would you like to see go away? What would you like to see more of? Do you miss the “old days” of Lit that people talk about? Do you like it as is?

I don't remember the old days. Probably like all nostalgia, there is truth in it but also forgetting of the bits that were just as shit as now. I posted either side of 'Allia' - I think that was her name. When I first joined, her threads were strong, and then I left for a while, came back and lots had happened that noone really talked about.

I think there should be an update thread, detailing all the drama and beef that has gone on for those in different timezones, and who might have missed it. Not need for 100% accuracy, obvs - just a biased version from each side would do.

Thread limits were good. I miss those.

I do like the discussion threads. Although I can't always be arsed to type so much. But the playground etc has a good mix.

Blocking instead of ignoring. Yes. Although, I have noone on ignore. So. I'm not sure whom I would block. Maybe you. But not you.

I agree somewhat about people having power over their own threads, but my God we have seen what a little power can do to someone. I'd be worried about that. Maybe they have to nominate an oppo to counter mod, so as to have balance. On second thoughts, the current system probably works perfectly well.

 

[Apisto42]

These are the good ol’ days. We’re alive and posting stupid shit and entertaining each other. Enjoy it, for this too shall pass.

 

[ydahecnot]

I don't remember the old days. Probably like all nostalgia, there is truth in it but also forgetting of the bits that were just as shit as now. I posted either side of 'Allia' - I think that was her name. When I first joined, her threads were strong, and then I left for a while, came back and lots had happened that noone really talked about.

I think there should be an update thread, detailing all the drama and beef that has gone on for those in different timezones, and who might have missed it. Not need for 100% accuracy, obvs - just a biased version from each side would do.

Thread limits were good. I miss those.

I do like the discussion threads. Although I can't always be arsed to type so much. But the playground etc has a good mix.

Blocking instead of ignoring. Yes. Although, I have noone on ignore. So. I'm not sure whom I would block. Maybe you. But not you.

I agree somewhat about people having power over their own threads, but my God we have seen what a little power can do to someone. I'd be worried about that. Maybe they have to nominate an oppo to counter mod, so as to have balance. On second thoughts, the current system probably works perfectly well.

Allia was going to expose pedophilia on Lit

 

[Wand3rlust]

These are the good ol’ days. We’re alive and posting stupid shit and entertaining each other. Enjoy it, for this too shall pass.

Deep, man.

 

[Wand3rlust]

Allia was going to expose pedophilia on Lit

See. That's the shit I'm talking about.

 

[Apisto42]

Deep, man.

I do love plumbing the depths with my dipstick.

 

[Wand3rlust]

I do love plumbing the depths with my dipstick.

I'd heard that.

 

[Apisto42]

I'd heard that.

Surprised she could talk, thought I had her sealed up tight…

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I just went searching for Nevyn's Legends thread and it's gone

There were some great tales from throughout the years in that one

 

[Wand3rlust]

That's another thing. Threads being nuked when someone leaves. That's a sad thing.

 

[Donotrustanybody]

Well good evening to all here. What a day. This thread seems to have died down a bit and normal interaction has resumed. Shame on those who derailed the thread yesterday.

There was some talk about cliques and the effect that the new Lit format has on interactions. I do think the thread limit slowed chaotic posting in some way. I think the ability to like and react to posts is a very useful tool, though I like it at times. I think the constant notifications is probably the worst addition, even if it does offer a way to keep track of threads you might otherwise forget about.

If you had the ability or option to change the way Lit interacts, what would you change?

Would like a block feature that makes it, as if the poster does not exist. Otherwise nothing, it's not the format that is to blame, it's the people

What would you like to see go away?

Prudes and thirst buckets

What would you like to see more of?

Individuals, not crews of similair people

Do you miss the “old days” of Lit that people talk about?

No, the good ol days of lit was both good and bad. I had all the women I wanted, but the crews got on my last nerve, even though pissing them off was fun. It's not something, I would like to do now.

Do you like it as is?

Not bad now, enjoying it.

 

[ydahecnot]

I just went searching for Nevyn's Legends thread and it's gone

There were some great tales from throughout the years in that one

I think Nevyn nuked. I searched for him the other day

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I think Nevyn nuked. I searched for him the other day

Yeah. I followed him and he's no longer on my profile

 

[ydahecnot]

Yeah. I followed him and he's no longer on my profile

He always threatened to leave the board, and sometimes the world.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

He always threatened to leave the board, and sometimes the world.

That's actually what I'm worried about.
He's a good egg. Misunderstood by many. I know I'll miss him

 

[TigerLilly4U]

Shall I tell the whole story so it doesn’t look like I’m some evil man taking advantage of some poor pitiful girl? I will.

Since you’ve taken a number of jabs on me on the forum since we stopped talking, I don’t think you mind airing it in public. You’ve talked about it openly. I normally don’t air my own drama, but this hung on a while. And I normally bite my tongue when you post these things, but I won’t anymore. People can make their own decisions on who the daft one is. But I won’t continue to allow you to paint me as someone with lack of care for your feelings without telling my side.

You messaged me initially based on a music post I made. We talked a fair amount, as we seemed to have a decent back and forth. I explained to you that I didn’t want anything exclusive (not assuming you were even interested, just that it wasn’t something I would do again). You said you would never develop feelings or anything like that and there was no issue with it, as your marriage was great and your life is amazing. You said you wouldn’t even exchange pics and I’d never see your face.

After a lot of talking and everything, you offered pics and often said, “I can’t believe I’m sending this or that.” I didn’t ask for these things. You sent them. I received them happily and was more than welcoming (and reciprocated), but I never pushed it. I told you time and time again I wouldn’t ask for it, as you told me that you wouldn’t send stuff. It was always you. When you wanted to see my dick, you asked for it. I didn’t offer it. You asked and even said, “I cant believe I’m doing this.” Once you got more comfortable, it was obvious your rules relaxed.

There was the conversation that you would send your boobs if I won a coin toss. I didn’t push you for that or pressure you. You never asserted I did. You know there’s a 50/50 shot you’re gonna show boobs. I told you, “If it’s heads I win, tails you lose.” It ended up being heads. You showed them to me. Then when I told you the semantics game I played, you were annoyed. If it was tails, you would’ve obviously fought back (assuming you wanted to keep up the front that you didn’t want to show your tits). I would’ve had zero ability to hold you to that, nor would I have expected it. And since you showed them to me numerous times afterwards in various mediums, I suspect it wasn’t the biggest of deals. You were even upset when there were times you could not do stuff. However, I did apologize if it came off as mean, as it was just a joke and I wasn’t genuinely trying to trick you. I didn’t need to trick you for anything. Plus, you’re a smart person who told me numerous times how you can handle guys with ease, so how could I possibly trick you?

Again, throughout our time talking, I mentioned numerous times I am not exclusive and I won’t do that and checked with you every step of the way that you were okay with anything we did. You always assured me you were. It would’ve been condescending to assume otherwise.

Then, you wanted to meet me. I did not agree to meet you. There are a few reasons for it. Some of those reasons are my own and some of them were to protect you. The main reason regarding you was that I didn’t want you to do something you regret. You were really keen. It’s easy to get caught up in lust and emotions and everything. I knew you weren’t thinking clearly.

Around this time, you realized that I meant what I was saying this whole time that I didn’t want to be exclusive. When the penny dropped for you, you freaked out. I offered to call, I spoke with you and tried to help you. By your own admission, you said I was clear and I mentioned it numerous times, you just didn’t realize that I meant I was actually not exclusive with you. You got carried away. I even apologized if there was any way I was unclear, to which you replied I wasn’t and none of this was my fault. To quote you, this was your mistake and you didn’t expect to catch feelings (even though I told you how possible it was, making sure you understood the realities of this site). I talked to you for quite a while, trying to make better whatever I could. You said it was simply a matter of having time.

So to hear you say that I don’t recognize the feelings of a human on the other side of the screen… that’s just a bit rich, given how many times I checked in with you along the way. You got your feelings hurt because I didn’t feel the same way. And I hate that for you. I really do. It doesn’t feel good and we’ve all been there. We see things as one way and the other person has a different perception. From what you say, guys are always flirting and trying to get with you (your own words). Maybe when there was an inequity in feelings, it stung extra hard. I don’t know. I just know that very few guys would’ve been so understanding and checked with you every time you were about to do something you hadn’t done before. Most people would have just gone for it.

Then, after everything went down, you post this little number in the Dear Abby thread.


Post 137:

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/dear-chemgirl-abby.1595383/page-6#post-98149914

You left a lot of details out of the story. You’re happy to paint yourself as a victim who has since reclaimed herself after someone wronged you. I’ve never posted a thing to you until this thread in reference to this ordeal. You’ve posted numerous things about it and I haven’t said boo. I’ve given you space to heal and all that, but I’m a bit tired of the remarks. This one just painted such an unfair pic. So, above are the details.

In fairness, if there’s anything I posted that wasn’t 100% truthful, let me know and I’ll redact it or add it to the story.

Sincerely,

Deep Sea Angler Fish

Wow, just wow...there is SO MUCH that I could say, and even want to say...But I'll just leave it at, she has always been and will always be too good for you. Thank you for proving my point so effectively.

I can't believe I had to fucking listen to you sing because she liked you.

 

[TigerLilly4U]

I thought you'd already finished your doctorate, or is this dissertation a draft for your next PhD in how to be a supreme douche? Did you get it out of your system? Do you feel better now?

I'll not bullet point the key details you left out, no point or need to do so. As they say, there are three sides to every story: his, hers and the truth.

I should thank you for the ego boost though, as my inbox is now full of people who previously didn't know who you were saying "seriously, that's the guy you were hung up on!" Despite my responses in the threads that you apparently took personally, very few knew who they were about.

I'll leave you now, hopefully your handmaidens will come comfort and reassure their dear Lord Pmann that he's the most special boi on Lit.


Me too, I thought I knew him better, but as with all of it, I was wrong.

Girl! You may be better than replying to this shit, but bitch I'm not. I am down to get ALL KINDS OF CUNTY on here.

But let me just say. I love you...and isn't it amazing when people hang themselves with their own pertard. Mmmmm it feels all warm and fuzzy.

 

[Donotrustanybody]

Wow, just wow...there is SO MUCH that I could say, and even want to say...But I'll just leave it at, she has always been and will always be too good for you. Thank you for proving my point so effectively.

I can't believe I had to fucking listen to you sing because she liked you.

All of this bs is none of our business, the 2 parties need to handle this privately and move on. No one else should be chimming in, we do not know everything that happened between them.

 

[TigerLilly4U]

All of this bs is none of our business, the 2 parties need to handle this privately and move on. No one else should be chimming in, we do not know everything that happened between them.

You're right it is highly inappropriate to have posted all of that on here. I however already know the whole story because I am her best friend in the real world. So forgive me for enjoying the fact that the gentleman in question showed his true colors to everyone. And my dear friend has moved on. Believe me, if she hadn't I would know. Some boys just don't like being ignored.

 

[Donotrustanybody]

You're right it is highly inappropriate to have posted all of that on here. I however already know the whole story because I am her best friend in the real world. So forgive me for enjoying the fact that the gentleman in question showed his true colors to everyone. And my dear friend has moved on. Believe me, if she hadn't I would know. Some boys just don't like being ignored.

You know her side, you are biased due to the fact, she is your best friend. You were not there for all the conversations, believe me, you don't know everything. If his friends takes his word, they might feel she is in the wrong.

Trust me, as someone who had too many public break ups, both parties will look ridiculous for all to see and you can't erase people's memories.