Girlfriend having sex with another man
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Back when I was dating I had a girlfriend who went to college, slept with other guys and told me all about it. I never quite got over it. At the same time it was an enormous turn on
But I don't want to ask her if she wants to have sex with another man. Hell, I'm even ashamed of lusting over this. I feel like I'm not good for her, having these kinds of thoughts.
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Maybe you need a girlfriend who does want sex with another man?
Do I break up with her?
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Maybe date both of them ... also you don't really know if your current girlfriend wants to fuck other men. Has she had many guys before you?
She had past relationships.
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Is she is cute she is going to have an affair eventually
She is cute. She gets asked many times. Obviously, she turns them down. But she isn't like that. She doesn't break commitments.
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Hmmm!
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Bump . . .
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It can be dangerous. When we were in college, Lynn and I agreed that she should be free to date others so that she could enjoy college life. I was at another college and only saw her once or twice a month. She dated other guys for two and a half years before we decided that she should stop. We married when she graduated. It worked for us. She told each guy that she was going out with them for fun and that she was committed to me. If the guy tried to get her to break up with me, she dropped him.
I suppose you are right cause eventually if she is good looking, guys will try to ask her out until she succumbs to some charming good looking bloke
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Just started reading your story! Sooo Hottt! Loving the pictures also!!! You are Gorgeous! Thanks for sharing!
This was my experience. My wife was adamant about fidelity. Which was fine, so was I. So when she cheated, I was crushed. But afterward I started getting aroused by her tryst. Secretly hoped she’d do it again. When she did, I confessed my desires. So now we’re in a semi open relationship where she has sex with other men. And we both love it.
My advice; let it play out naturally. Other men are going to hit on her. If she succumbs to one, you’ll know if it’s something you really want. Then tell her your desires.
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If she doesn't break commitments then why even think about her having sex with another man??
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Love that top in your photos April!
My live-in GF in college was a hostess at a restaurant. As such she would often work until closing and then go somewhere to fuck one of the bar tenders and then come home. I'm not sure just how long it took for me to catch on but I did. The proof was easy. She was using a diaphragm and all I had to do was open her purse only to find that the syringe had been used and not rinsed out. I supposed the actual diaphragm was often still in her pussy. I sent her packing.
Have you talked to her about it? Not straight out in a "do you want a threesome" clumsy sort of way, more talking about various other things first - maybe seeing something on TV that is close to it. Do you want sex with her and another man/woman/both? These scenarios can often present themselves so don't look for them.
The mixed feelings themselves are quite simple. You want you girl to be faithful but equally there are also feelings of:
1/ verification that you made a good choice in partner if other men want her
2/ you want her to be happy and open about sex to develop the relationship
3/ you're curious about watching her having sex with someone else but are concerned that she'll leave
As the song goes, nobody every said it was easy.
The mixed feelings themselves are quite simple. You want you girl to be faithful but equally there are also feelings of:
1/ verification that you made a good choice in partner if other men want her
2/ you want her to be happy and open about sex to develop the relationship
3/ you're curious about watching her having sex with someone else but are concerned that she'll leave
As the song goes, nobody every said it was easy.
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Maybe it's me but all the good looking women I went out with ended up in bed other guys. Kind of flattering in a perverse way
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Looks like outfits you don’t plan on keeping on for very long.
Very hot and sexy.
Probably not at all surprising. How often have you seen a friends girl and wondered what she is like or found her attractive. Plus woman do love the attention of other guys even if it wasn't intended to led to anything.
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