Regular looking people.

No, some people are stunning, some are pretty, some are cute, some are beautiful, some are combinations. To some degree, I hate acknowledging this fact, it feels awfully objectifying and judgey, but there is something biological. Something that just clicks in your brain when you see it. Of course that has something to do with your sexual attraction to the person, but for me, far less than what their mind comes up with and what they share with me. That's much more interesting, thought provoling and enticing.
Can we all just finally admit that some people are not physically attractive? I mean, based on a bell curve containing the entire US population, obviously most people are going to be in the 40 to 60% attractiveness range, meaning pretty average. Average to me means a woman who has an average body and a plain face. Nothing about her is particularly attractive or unattractive. Then you have people on either side of that bell curve. That means a certain percentage of women are above average looking, and an equal percentage are below average looking. Same with guys. I'm just tired of the political correctness that says we have to view every person as "beautiful", even though we all know there are some troglodytes out there...
 
I'm just tired of the political correctness that says we have to view every person as "beautiful", even though we all know there are some troglodytes out there...
I've known a few beautiful people who were plug-ugly. Their beauty came from their confidence, their intelligence, and their friendliness. But I'll concede that there are some plug-ugly people who lack confidence, intelligence, and friendliness.
 
I've known a few beautiful people who were plug-ugly. Their beauty came from their confidence, their intelligence, and their friendliness. But I'll concede that there are some plug-ugly people who lack confidence, intelligence, and friendliness.
Well said. "Owning" that which is not so attractive goes a long way. I have Peyronie's disease which has changed the way my cock looks. My cock never was huge but now it's even shorter and with a Peyronie's crook. I'm determined not to let that slow me down. Life's to short...
 
Can we all just finally admit that some people are not physically attractive? I mean, based on a bell curve containing the entire US population, obviously most people are going to be in the 40 to 60% attractiveness range, meaning pretty average. Average to me means a woman who has an average body and a plain face. Nothing about her is particularly attractive or unattractive. Then you have people on either side of that bell curve. That means a certain percentage of women are above average looking, and an equal percentage are below average looking. Same with guys. I'm just tired of the political correctness that says we have to view every person as "beautiful", even though we all know there are some troglodytes out there...
People all have different tastes, though. Your bell curve doesn't sort people the same way someone else's bell curve does. There is no such thing as "objectively beautiful" or "objectively ugly" that everyone will agree on.
 
People all have different tastes, though. Your bell curve doesn't sort people the same way someone else's bell curve does. There is no such thing as "objectively beautiful" or "objectively ugly" that everyone will agree on.
I do agree with that in general. I didn't say anything about "my" bell curve.
 
I've known a few beautiful people who were plug-ugly. Their beauty came from their confidence, their intelligence, and their friendliness. But I'll concede that there are some plug-ugly people who lack confidence, intelligence, and friendliness.
I was speaking from a purely physical attractiveness point of view. We all know that a lot of "beautiful" people are actually horrible people as well.
 
I do agree with that in general. I didn't say anything about "my" bell curve.
It just seemed to me like trying to get people to "all just finally admit that some people are not physically attractive" had an unspoken undertone of agreeing on who the unattractive people were.

And if people can't agree on who the unattractive ones are, or the attractive ones for that matter, then I guess I'm with the grand-poster who asked if everyone wasn't just "regular looking."
 
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