Eat It Like You Mean It Part 3

So, lemme ask, because I like to learn about other people.

Do you have any sense of how much time you spend going down/being eaten out? My ex and long time lover go down on me as long as it would take me to have an orgasm. Sometimes not long at all, like 5 minutes. Other times, that I tend to feel really guilty about, like 45 minutes or more. And I'd feel really guilty about it, because my body just wasn't responding. For my ex, he was stubborn about it, I think he felt like he was losing and I think he felt like that was the day's price for getting laid.

For my long time lover, he's stubborn in a different way - he 'knows what's in there' and he doesn't let me get away with faking it. Don't get me wrong, it's not like a fake it on a regular basis. But sometimes, I feel bad because I know I'm taking a long time. I'll get close and then my O will skitter away. Or I'll get overstimulated. And I know I can get tired after a while of giving too. It's not very often I can convince him that it's okay if I don't (I know now my hormones were working against both of us).

Conversely, since getting divorced, I've had partners who tell me that they love eating pussy, but then they stop. I'm like, you gotta be kidding?

I guess that's why I'm asking. We often talk about eating or being eaten 'forever'. What does that really mean? Have I been incredibly spoiled by these two men in my life? Or are my new partners just ill-informed about what 'forever' truly means? I'd like to know if I need to adjust expectations and if so, how?
Recently I've enjoyed dating women that would be happy if I brought lunch with me. I've never timed how long I've given oral pleasure, but I'd guess about 30 minutes. I love to experience my gf's climax and I've almost had my nose broken on a few occasions. Btw, rimming is fun too.
 
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well reeses candy did this a few years ago and wanted to know how people ate their reeses. my reply was simply honest. i said the only way is the right way. eat it like you want it. i put it in my mouth and start to enjoy. i love to eat, suck pussy. especially shaved smooth and of course so very clean. put it in my mouth and hold on because white knuckles time is now. i have dentures i remove of course and had them 11 years. my dental team, husband and wife, have both told me i have the strongest muscle in my body is in my mouth. with my ex and lovers since she would orgasm 4-5 times during oral sex.
 
Recently I've enjoyed dating women that would be happy if I brought lunch with me. I've never timed how long I've given oral pleasure, but I'd guess about 30 minutes. I love to experience my gf's climax and I've almost had my nose broken on a few occasions. Btw, rimming is fun too.
i'd have to say i would eat out my lover and the next ones for about an hour.
 
I've ruled out that something might be tasting weird. I've also been wondering if the group that has been short has potentially been so turned on they haven't been able to wait. And I've considered that maybe there are partners in there that really didn't like muff diving, and removed those. But if someone says that like eating out their partner and only spend a couple of 5 minutes or so, that seems like a real mixed message.

How's your feedback? Do you tell them what you like, where you need it? Push/pull they're head for directions?

I get no feedback and end up getting bored I'm not desperately hungry. Sometimes she'll move my head with her leg, but I get no vocal indication I'm in the right spot, no matter where I go so after a bit I lose focus and realize my back is getting sore or I'm sitting on my leg funny and it's starting to go to sleep. By that point I've lost my erection and have to go wake it up again. Asking for a little feedback gets nowhere 😕
 
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