Anyone from the UK?

[Wriggle]

Is Dom-boy a new term that I've missed in my senior years? Or just a derogatory term for any dominant?

I just wrote it - it was meant as pejorative term and I'm glad it came up as such.
I nearly went with the alternative spelling of BOI.

Oh mate... I'll bring bandages for when she sees this...

 

[Daisy_Love]

But not 'a very good dom'

Sadly, no haha

It's the same when anyone describes themselves as "goddess"...

Honey, you don't get to make that judgement...

Oh that’s too funny!!!
Ego’s be huuuuuge on Lit sometimes

 

[RosewoodTulip]

Sadly, no haha

Oh that’s too funny!!!
Ego’s be huuuuuge on Lit sometimes

Right? We all like to be noticed but it's like they're talking through a loudspeaker in a library. Yeah you're getting attention but we all think you're a dick

 

[Wriggle]

Honestly I can happily hold me hands up and say I'm actually a terrible Dom-Boi

 

[justanotherguy80]

I’d make a terrible dom.

‘Suck my dick, you little slut. Please. And by the way, I don’t really think you’re a slut. I have maximum respect for women and their sexual choices and you should do you. No judgment. I can put that in writing if you’d like?’

 

[LucieLou007]

I’d make a terrible dom.

‘Suck my dick, you little slut. Please. And by the way, I don’t really think you’re a slut. I have maximum respect for women and their sexual choices and you should do you. No judgment. I can put that in writing if you’d like?’

at least you say sorry

 

[AWonkyDonkey]

I’d make a terrible dom.

‘Suck my dick, you little slut. Please. And by the way, I don’t really think you’re a slut. I have maximum respect for women and their sexual choices and you should do you. No judgment. I can put that in writing if you’d like?’

A long time ago, 18-year old Wonky met a woman online who was from America. To cut a long story short, we hit it off and she was coming over here to visiting family in Cumbria and we arranged to meet.

We met, had dinner and a great day and she suggested accompanying me to my hotel. Now during one play session online, she told me liked to be called a whore when she had sex.

So what did Wonky do? I called her a whore.

I never talked to her again.

Moral of the story is I have to make sure a woman really likes something before I do it.

 

[Tigertiger55]

I love my car, and the thing I love most is I can set it to pre warm and defrost

can I guess, Tesla or JLR?

 

[Wand3rlust]

Morning.

*looks round at everyone*
*stares hard @Wriggleitlady *

 

[Saltfountain]

I just wrote it - it was meant as pejorative term and I'm glad it came up as such.
I nearly went with the alternative spelling of BOI.

I guess I have an issue if it's just a pejorative term for a dominant...

I think people are submissive or dominant in the same way they are straight or gay or whatever. We don't choose our sexuality and people who actually are dominant or submissive don't choose to be that. They just are.

The ones where the problem really lies with is the guys (and it's mainly guys) who like to exert control but are just bullies, who think that makes them a Dom and all submissive women are there to be chosen from.

 

[justanotherguy80]

A long time ago, 18-year old Wonky met a woman online who was from America. To cut a long story short, we hit it off and she was coming over here to visiting family in Cumbria and we arranged to meet.

We met, had dinner and a great day and she suggested accompanying me to my hotel. Now during one play session online, she told me liked to be called a whore when she had sex.

So what did Wonky do? I called her a whore.

I never talked to her again.

Moral of the story is I have to make sure a woman really likes something before I do it.

It’s a tightrope I ain’t prepared to walk.

 

[Saltfountain]

@Tigertiger55 Cupra Born

 

[Saltfountain]

A long time ago, 18-year old Wonky met a woman online who was from America. To cut a long story short, we hit it off and she was coming over here to visiting family in Cumbria and we arranged to meet.

We met, had dinner and a great day and she suggested accompanying me to my hotel. Now during one play session online, she told me liked to be called a whore when she had sex.

So what did Wonky do? I called her a whore.

I never talked to her again.

Moral of the story is I have to make sure a woman really likes something before I do it.

Moral of the story is that you weren't at fault there.


Unless you called her a whore in front of her family or over dinner...

 

[RosewoodTulip]

I guess I have an issue if it's just a pejorative term for a dominant...

I think people are submissive or dominant in the same way they are straight or gay or whatever. We don't choose our sexuality and people who actually are dominant or submissive don't choose to be that. They just are.

The ones where the problem really lies with is the guys (and it's mainly guys) who like to exert control but are just bullies, who think that makes them a Dom and all submissive women are there to be chosen from.

Yeah I have been affectionately called the subbiest of subs but I'm not doing anything unless I want to.
Someone hitting my DMs with that nonsense is gonna get ignored or laughed at and then ignored.
There are some great genuine dominant people here that I've spoken to that all understand that communication and consent are the most important things. Not just a quick power trip

 

[Tigertiger55]

@Tigertiger55 Cupra Born

Good choice, Sir!

 

[AWonkyDonkey]

Moral of the story is that you weren't at fault there.


Unless you called her a whore in front of her family or over dinner...

Nope. I was a gentleman all day and at the time of the incident, we were in a hotel room in York.

So I guess now I have a woman fill out a questionnaire and sign a waiver, saying that if I call her something she said she liked previously, she won't kill me if I do end up actually saying it.

 

[Saltfountain]

Nope. I was a gentleman all day and at the time of the incident, we were in a hotel room in York.

So I guess now I have a woman fill out a questionnaire and sign a waiver, saying that if I call her something she said she liked previously, she won't kill me if I do end up actually saying it.

That's her issue. She told you she liked it. If there were riders on when she liked it she should have said

 

[AWonkyDonkey]

That's her issue. She told you she liked it. If there were riders on when she liked it she should have said

Indeedy. Oh well. She seemed a bit of a fruitcake anyway.

 

[NorthernCardinal]

Honestly I can happily hold me hands up and say I'm actually a terrible Dom-Boi

More of a Sk8rBoi?

 

[Hodes101]

Morning. Hope your day is as good as mine. On the school run with a puncture FML.

 

[Saltfountain]

Yeah I have been affectionately called the subbiest of subs but I'm not doing anything unless I want to.
Someone hitting my DMs with that nonsense is gonna get ignored or laughed at and then ignored.
There are some great genuine dominant people here that I've spoken to that all understand that communication and consent are the most important things. Not just a quick power trip

The key word is 'submit', not 'take'

 

[AWonkyDonkey]

Right chaps and chapesses, time for me to get some kip.

Be good.

Oh fuck it.

No, don't be good.

 

[Wriggle]

More of a Sk8rBoi?

Ice sk8raboi, maybe

 

[Wriggle]

I guess I have an issue if it's just a pejorative term for a dominant..

No
I meant it as a negative towards these guys

The ones where the problem really lies with is the guys (and it's mainly guys) who like to exert control but are just bullies, who think that makes them a Dom and all submissive women are there to be chosen from.

Andrew Tate really pissed me off last week with that shit.

 

[Saltfountain]

No
I meant it as a negative towards these guys


Andrew Tate really pissed me off last week with that shit.

Andrew Tate is an odious piece of shit and a danger to women.

Nothing more