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People have asked me who I wear my lingerie for and I always respond it's for me. And it is but sometimes I like to take the sexy, powerful, lusty confidence it gives me and focus it on my partner.

I want my person sitting on the bed as I walk in. Unable to take their eyes off me, wanting to pull me towards them but knowing its not time. Their need building. Their desire making them squirm as I lean close, gently suck on their earlobe, and then blow a cool stream of air across their wet skin.
Their intake of breath audible and their shallow breathing becoming more frantic as I tell them to lie back and gently push against their chest.

Climbing up their body I say, “Relax lover. Tonight we focus on chasing our pleasure. Fulfilling our bodies needs and not stopping until we are both complet
Anyone lucky to be graced by you in lingerie is surely to have their eyes transfixed and heart pounding. Hopefully they get to savor it 😍🤤
 
Lingerie holds a certain power and you described it well. Lingerie, to me, always say "savor". There are certain cultures where, if you give them a wrapped present - they won't open it for several days, just so they can savor it in the wrapping. That is how I think of lingerie, LOL, though the several days to unwrap thing might be a little tough.
 
So I hit my 20,000 post (this will be 20,001) its ironic as fuck that my 20K post was me musing if I should send someone a PM.
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I decided against it but shit does it suck that he’s still in my mind. I don’t hide that it’s been hard for me but I try to do it in my threads and I avoid him actively. Why would he seek me out and taunt me by posting where he knows I’ll see it? I hope today is the last time I cry over him.

P.S. if this is too sad or too mean for you then please stop following me. I share openly and honestly be that my smile, my tits, my ass or my feelings. Everyone uses lit in their own way and I don’t think we have to curate and lie about how we are feeling.
If you see this and think it’s about you-it’s not. If you see this and know it’s about you, thanks for teaching me not to fully trust anyone on here ever again. I won’t ever get hurt like this because I won’t let them in.
 
So I hit my 20,000 post (this will be 20,001) its ironic as fuck that my 20K post was me musing if I should send someone a PM.
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I decided against it but shit does it suck that he’s still in my mind. I don’t hide that it’s been hard for me but I try to do it in my threads and I avoid him actively. Why would he seek me out and taunt me by posting where he knows I’ll see it? I hope today is the last time I cry over him.

P.S. if this is too sad or too mean for you then please stop following me. I share openly and honestly be that my smile, my tits, my ass or my feelings. Everyone uses lit in their own way and I don’t think we have to curate and lie about how we are feeling.
If you see this and think it’s about you-it’s not. If you see this and know it’s about you, thanks for teaching me not to fully trust anyone on here ever again. I won’t ever get hurt like this because I won’t let them in.
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So I hit my 20,000 post (this will be 20,001) its ironic as fuck that my 20K post was me musing if I should send someone a PM.
View attachment 2306915

I decided against it but shit does it suck that he’s still in my mind. I don’t hide that it’s been hard for me but I try to do it in my threads and I avoid him actively. Why would he seek me out and taunt me by posting where he knows I’ll see it? I hope today is the last time I cry over him.

P.S. if this is too sad or too mean for you then please stop following me. I share openly and honestly be that my smile, my tits, my ass or my feelings. Everyone uses lit in their own way and I don’t think we have to curate and lie about how we are feeling.
If you see this and think it’s about you-it’s not. If you see this and know it’s about you, thanks for teaching me not to fully trust anyone on here ever again. I won’t ever get hurt like this because I won’t let them in.
It's not my job and I'm not trying to teach you any lesson, but if you want to know how I do it: My door is always open, knowing the risks that this move has. I don't think it's our responsibility or something we should be concerned about if some people try to trick us. Our job is to shield ourselves and be ready for any eventuality. Without our lives being defined by protection or precautionary measures, because in this way we significantly limit the pleasures. That's all! Publicly, but with a lot of love, since you are one of my very favorite users of this site.
 
Thank you so much to the folks that reached out. I honestly didn’t post yesterday looking for advice, support, or sympathy but yall offered it and it was seen and felt.

Lit is a funny spot. It can bring so much fun and laughter into our lives but it can also bring hurt. This has shocked me. I came to lit thinking it was just a sex site but found a community of fantastic people-creative, smart, learned, highly intelligent, fun folks that also enjoyed flirting, talking about sex, their feelings and sharing on lots of levels 😈
I made some true friends, found some sexy fun folks, had lots of fun and got hurt.

I have found navigating through these feelings extra challenging because there is no one non Lit related I can share this with. The fun sexy feelings are easy and don’t need to be shared in the same way. The hurt and pain is much harder. How do you explain to your family or friends that you’re sad because you hurt someone or someone hurt you on an online sex site? You can’t exactly tell your partner you’re moody due to interactions with folks on Lit. 😂 (Well I can’t lol)

Clearly I’ve been trying to figure out how to navigate both. You can put people on ignore, you can take a break or step back and I’ve been doing all of that but I miss the fun playful way I used to navigate Lit. I really want this to be how I feel again and I am getting there-even though you may not be able to tell yet 😂🤣)

Basically, I’ve chosen to process through some of this on Lit. It’s a little messy and comes in cycles but that is just how grief and processing loss is. I’ve kept my biggest feelings on threads that I started and that are not visited by tons of folks.

I’ve also not put anyone on blast as that isn’t something I want to do. I know my feelings are my own and that some folks (many) will say I’m taking Lit way too seriously and while I don’t completely disagree that doesn’t change how I feel.

I’ve said before that Lit doesn’t like a sad girl. Folks come here to escape the challenges they find in their day to day in person life and when it’s not an upbeat place to be it loses its luster. I get that but I think that denying how we feel and that folks and connections we make online are real is akin to calling in person interactions “real life.” Lit is real life even if it’s online and in life we feel a spectrum of emotions and often need to process them. Maybe I should get a journal or start a sad tumblr but I’m truly hoping I can work through these feelings and let go of the pain sooner than that. 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

For anyone still reading-thanks. You don’t have to agree with me but thanks for reading.

Edited to add-to my ride or die BFF you have listened and comforted and consoled and I appreciate you more than you know. It’s taking a lot longer than I want and I love you always no matter what. ♥️

Edit #2-not every sad post I make is about someone on lit. 😂
My “poetry” is a way to process lots of feelings safe swxy, playful. So please don’t think it’s all about one person or situation. 🤣😂🤣



And since that was a lot of words and this is AM pics…IMG_6623.jpeg
 
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You’re real life. And so’s that post.

Thank you. Be well. I’m glad you’re here. But watch it: that gull looks like he’s about to release.
 
Thank you so much to the folks that reached out. I honestly didn’t post yesterday looking for advice, support, or sympathy but yall offered it and it was seen and felt.

Lit is a funny spot. It can bring so much fun and laughter into our lives but it can also bring hurt. This has shocked me. I came to lit thinking it was just a sex site but found a community of fantastic people-creative, smart, learned, highly intelligent, fun folks that also enjoyed flirting, talking about sex, their feelings and sharing on lots of levels 😈
I made some true friends, found some sexy fun folks, had lots of fun and got hurt. I have found navigating through these feelings extra challenging because there is no one non Lit related I can share this with. The fun sexy feelings are easy and don’t need to be shared in the same way. The hurt and pain is much harder. How do you explain to your family or friends that you’re sad because you hurt someone or someone hurt you on an online sex site? You can’t exactly tell your partner you’re moody due to interactions with folks on Lit. 😂 (Well I can’t lol)

Clearly I’ve been trying to figure out how to navigate both. You can put people on ignore, you can take a break or step back and I’ve been doing all of that but I miss the fun playful way I used to navigate Lit. I really want this to be how I feel again and I am getting there-even though you may not be able to tell yet 😂🤣)

Basically, I’ve chosen to process through some of this on Lit. It’s a little messy and comes in cycles but that is just how grief and processing loss is. I’ve kept my biggest feelings on threads that I started and that are not visited by tons of folks. I’ve also not put anyone on blast as that isn’t something I want to do. I know my feelings are my own and that some folks (many) will say I’m taking Lit way too seriously and while I don’t completely disagree that doesn’t change how I feel.

I’ve said before that Lit doesn’t like a sad girl. Folks come here to escape the challenges they find in their day to day in person life and when it’s not an upbeat place to be it loses its luster. I get that but I think that denying how we feel and that folks and connections we make online are real is akin to calling in person interactions “real life.” Lit is real life even if it’s online and in life we feel a spectrum of emotions and often need to process them. Maybe I should get a journal or start a sad tumblr but I’m truly hoping I can work through these feelings and let go of the pain sooner than that. 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

For anyone still reading-thanks. You don’t have to agree with me but thanks for reading.
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Yeah, to all of this. I know I’m new but I’m confident saying we’re here for you however you do or don’t need us.
 
I just want to add that lit (and other site) connections are indeed real connections. They don’t get the attention they deserve, but they’re real. Or at least they can be real. I’ve made many multi-year connections here and it always stings a bit when they dissipate, but I’ve stopped wondering why they sting. I now know why. Because they are real. Hang in there. Mourn it like any other “real” connection.
 
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Thank you so much to the folks that reached out. I honestly didn’t post yesterday looking for advice, support, or sympathy but yall offered it and it was seen and felt.

Lit is a funny spot. It can bring so much fun and laughter into our lives but it can also bring hurt. This has shocked me. I came to lit thinking it was just a sex site but found a community of fantastic people-creative, smart, learned, highly intelligent, fun folks that also enjoyed flirting, talking about sex, their feelings and sharing on lots of levels 😈
I made some true friends, found some sexy fun folks, had lots of fun and got hurt.

I have found navigating through these feelings extra challenging because there is no one non Lit related I can share this with. The fun sexy feelings are easy and don’t need to be shared in the same way. The hurt and pain is much harder. How do you explain to your family or friends that you’re sad because you hurt someone or someone hurt you on an online sex site? You can’t exactly tell your partner you’re moody due to interactions with folks on Lit. 😂 (Well I can’t lol)

Clearly I’ve been trying to figure out how to navigate both. You can put people on ignore, you can take a break or step back and I’ve been doing all of that but I miss the fun playful way I used to navigate Lit. I really want this to be how I feel again and I am getting there-even though you may not be able to tell yet 😂🤣)

Basically, I’ve chosen to process through some of this on Lit. It’s a little messy and comes in cycles but that is just how grief and processing loss is. I’ve kept my biggest feelings on threads that I started and that are not visited by tons of folks.

I’ve also not put anyone on blast as that isn’t something I want to do. I know my feelings are my own and that some folks (many) will say I’m taking Lit way too seriously and while I don’t completely disagree that doesn’t change how I feel.

I’ve said before that Lit doesn’t like a sad girl. Folks come here to escape the challenges they find in their day to day in person life and when it’s not an upbeat place to be it loses its luster. I get that but I think that denying how we feel and that folks and connections we make online are real is akin to calling in person interactions “real life.” Lit is real life even if it’s online and in life we feel a spectrum of emotions and often need to process them. Maybe I should get a journal or start a sad tumblr but I’m truly hoping I can work through these feelings and let go of the pain sooner than that. 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

For anyone still reading-thanks. You don’t have to agree with me but thanks for reading.

Edited to add-to my ride or die BFF you have listened and comforted and consoled and I appreciate you more than you know. It’s taking a lot longer than I want and I love you always no matter what. ♥️

Edit #2-not every sad post I make is about someone on lit. 😂
My “poetry” is a way to process lots of feelings safe swxy, playful. So please don’t think it’s all about one person or situation. 🤣😂🤣



And since that was a lot of words and this is AM pics…View attachment 2307032
I feel like I say this every time (even if it’s just in my own head and feels): thank you for sharing. You’re one of my best friends here, and I love how open you are about your feelings. That’s not easy to be. That takes tremendous strength and courage and self-confidence, and you have all that in spades.
 
If you get messages like that send them to me. I will let them sit in my inbox. All jokes a side, two things come to mind.

We will never make everyone happy 100% of the time. I would like to think that we do the things we do with the best of intentions and sometimes they are misunderstood.

The second thing is, communicating over text. We are missing the body language, you know. Sometimes we miss the context.
 
So I hit my 20,000 post (this will be 20,001) its ironic as fuck that my 20K post was me musing if I should send someone a PM.
View attachment 2306915

I decided against it but shit does it suck that he’s still in my mind. I don’t hide that it’s been hard for me but I try to do it in my threads and I avoid him actively. Why would he seek me out and taunt me by posting where he knows I’ll see it? I hope today is the last time I cry over him.

P.S. if this is too sad or too mean for you then please stop following me. I share openly and honestly be that my smile, my tits, my ass or my feelings. Everyone uses lit in their own way and I don’t think we have to curate and lie about how we are feeling.
If you see this and think it’s about you-it’s not. If you see this and know it’s about you, thanks for teaching me not to fully trust anyone on here ever again. I won’t ever get hurt like this because I won’t let them in.
Oh, friend. I’ve had connections here that have gone completely wrong. I haven’t had to block those people since they usually ghost me, but I understand how much it hurts. And yeah, there’s someone I find myself thinking about more than I should.
 
Thank you so much to the folks that reached out. I honestly didn’t post yesterday looking for advice, support, or sympathy but yall offered it and it was seen and felt.

Lit is a funny spot. It can bring so much fun and laughter into our lives but it can also bring hurt. This has shocked me. I came to lit thinking it was just a sex site but found a community of fantastic people-creative, smart, learned, highly intelligent, fun folks that also enjoyed flirting, talking about sex, their feelings and sharing on lots of levels 😈
I made some true friends, found some sexy fun folks, had lots of fun and got hurt.

I have found navigating through these feelings extra challenging because there is no one non Lit related I can share this with. The fun sexy feelings are easy and don’t need to be shared in the same way. The hurt and pain is much harder. How do you explain to your family or friends that you’re sad because you hurt someone or someone hurt you on an online sex site? You can’t exactly tell your partner you’re moody due to interactions with folks on Lit. 😂 (Well I can’t lol)

Clearly I’ve been trying to figure out how to navigate both. You can put people on ignore, you can take a break or step back and I’ve been doing all of that but I miss the fun playful way I used to navigate Lit. I really want this to be how I feel again and I am getting there-even though you may not be able to tell yet 😂🤣)

Basically, I’ve chosen to process through some of this on Lit. It’s a little messy and comes in cycles but that is just how grief and processing loss is. I’ve kept my biggest feelings on threads that I started and that are not visited by tons of folks.

I’ve also not put anyone on blast as that isn’t something I want to do. I know my feelings are my own and that some folks (many) will say I’m taking Lit way too seriously and while I don’t completely disagree that doesn’t change how I feel.

I’ve said before that Lit doesn’t like a sad girl. Folks come here to escape the challenges they find in their day to day in person life and when it’s not an upbeat place to be it loses its luster. I get that but I think that denying how we feel and that folks and connections we make online are real is akin to calling in person interactions “real life.” Lit is real life even if it’s online and in life we feel a spectrum of emotions and often need to process them. Maybe I should get a journal or start a sad tumblr but I’m truly hoping I can work through these feelings and let go of the pain sooner than that. 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

For anyone still reading-thanks. You don’t have to agree with me but thanks for reading.

Edited to add-to my ride or die BFF you have listened and comforted and consoled and I appreciate you more than you know. It’s taking a lot longer than I want and I love you always no matter what. ♥️

Edit #2-not every sad post I make is about someone on lit. 😂
My “poetry” is a way to process lots of feelings safe swxy, playful. So please don’t think it’s all about one person or situation. 🤣😂🤣



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This is simply beautifully written. I read it with my heart, while gazing at the sea. My very best wishes on the journey ahead. Your ability and willingness to express yourself here, in Lit, is one of the things that makes you, you. :heart:
 
Thank you so much to the folks that reached out. I honestly didn’t post yesterday looking for advice, support, or sympathy but yall offered it and it was seen and felt.

Lit is a funny spot. It can bring so much fun and laughter into our lives but it can also bring hurt. This has shocked me. I came to lit thinking it was just a sex site but found a community of fantastic people-creative, smart, learned, highly intelligent, fun folks that also enjoyed flirting, talking about sex, their feelings and sharing on lots of levels 😈
I made some true friends, found some sexy fun folks, had lots of fun and got hurt.

I have found navigating through these feelings extra challenging because there is no one non Lit related I can share this with. The fun sexy feelings are easy and don’t need to be shared in the same way. The hurt and pain is much harder. How do you explain to your family or friends that you’re sad because you hurt someone or someone hurt you on an online sex site? You can’t exactly tell your partner you’re moody due to interactions with folks on Lit. 😂 (Well I can’t lol)

Clearly I’ve been trying to figure out how to navigate both. You can put people on ignore, you can take a break or step back and I’ve been doing all of that but I miss the fun playful way I used to navigate Lit. I really want this to be how I feel again and I am getting there-even though you may not be able to tell yet 😂🤣)

Basically, I’ve chosen to process through some of this on Lit. It’s a little messy and comes in cycles but that is just how grief and processing loss is. I’ve kept my biggest feelings on threads that I started and that are not visited by tons of folks.

I’ve also not put anyone on blast as that isn’t something I want to do. I know my feelings are my own and that some folks (many) will say I’m taking Lit way too seriously and while I don’t completely disagree that doesn’t change how I feel.

I’ve said before that Lit doesn’t like a sad girl. Folks come here to escape the challenges they find in their day to day in person life and when it’s not an upbeat place to be it loses its luster. I get that but I think that denying how we feel and that folks and connections we make online are real is akin to calling in person interactions “real life.” Lit is real life even if it’s online and in life we feel a spectrum of emotions and often need to process them. Maybe I should get a journal or start a sad tumblr but I’m truly hoping I can work through these feelings and let go of the pain sooner than that. 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

For anyone still reading-thanks. You don’t have to agree with me but thanks for reading.

Edited to add-to my ride or die BFF you have listened and comforted and consoled and I appreciate you more than you know. It’s taking a lot longer than I want and I love you always no matter what. ♥️

Edit #2-not every sad post I make is about someone on lit. 😂
My “poetry” is a way to process lots of feelings safe swxy, playful. So please don’t think it’s all about one person or situation. 🤣😂🤣



And since that was a lot of words and this is AM pics…View attachment 2307032
Your feelings are what they are.

Online might not be face to face, but it is part of real life. Is he work you do via Zoom with people you have never seen not real life? 🤔

Don’t be so hard on yourself, it takes courage to face your feeling head on, you will get through this.

Hang on tighter, 🙌
 
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