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PornStache75 said:
Anyone else with this problem?
I have a high sex drive and the wife doesn't.
Looking for others with this problem, and possibly helping fill our needs.
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I am currently going through this issue, although, my wife is going through a medical problem which causes penetrative sex to be painful.
 
Sexless here for last few years. Sex was “ok” and occasional before marriage. Got married. Had sex exactly twice since then. Smh. All of the intimacy (hugging, kissing, cuddling) is gone too. She changes into PJ’s in her closet. I don’t see her naked, generally. Non-existent. I feel very deceived. Very unhappy. We’ve discussed it. She says she’s not good at sex, so has no interest. Asexual. Well…I’m not. Smh. And now there are health problems preventing it for foreseeable future. I expect we are headed towards a mutual separation here in 2024. She’s unable or unwilling to communicate on any substantive issues.
 
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Sexless marriage for 9 yes. Why I come here to see other guys gf, wife's, an ladies that like to post. When I get some alone time I go to the bathroom an let my hand take ahold of my cock an releave my cum thinking of Lit ladies
 
Paulwilson57 said:
My partner and I have been together for 22 years now. At the beginning we had sex often however in the last 4 years I'm lucky to have sex with her 3 to 4 times in a year.

Her want for sex seems to have become nonexistent. We are both currently on antidepressants with myself on a much higher dose than hers.

My sex drive has been effected but I could still have sex at least once a day. I have never cheated on her. I do find myself daily watching porn. She found my porn collection early in our time together and told me she felt betrayed and that I had cheated on her.

She is unhappy with her weight and I have tried to make her see she is still beautiful and sexy but she doesn't listen.

When we have sex I make her orgasm every time with my tongue mostly and sometimes with my fingers. She on the other hand does not like giving oral and wants me to do all the work.

I'm at a loss for what to do and have held it inside for so long. I'm waiting to see a therapist to talk me down off the ledge.
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I understand this
 
This is a VERY long thread. So I'll just start with my story. I'm a 69 YO male in a sexless marriage since 2016. It was NEVER great but tolerable. My marriage has deteriorated to my becoming a caregiver for her because of her long term alcoholism and the multiple related health issues. Hell, I even saved her life by giving her CPR back in October. I feel like if I were honest with her and tried to leave, she would drink herself to death in months if not weeks.

I've had a couple of long term affairs, one of which she knew about but with both of them, my affair partners grew tired of waiting for me. I was heart broken when they left but I don't blame them. I feel trapped. What to do?
 
Hapril said:
I know how difficult it is. I feel for you. I'm sure our circumstances are different but I'm sure some of the feelings are similar.
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The only time I let my lady down was while under family stress (mine, not the outlaws) and she spent the day fussing about some nonsense to change the subject from the issue that was incomplete between us.
Woke up the next morning to "you don't want to fuck?". Followed by more complete bullshit, "you don't think I'm pretty"....
Not sexless but it takes more time to build up. She get really frustrated because I don't fight. Completely ignore it all if she raises her voice.
I guess my point is all our circumstances are different. Mine makes me think I could have something on the side. I'm still horny when she's completely turned me off.
Or I could say the mind/erection connection breaks down if there is an obstacle course or heavy lifting required.
 
Hapril said:
I've been reading through the responses and wondering if there are other women that are in sexless marriages. No I'm not bi or asking for my inbox to fill up. Just wanting to see if I'm on an island by myself.
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whiskeycowgirl23 said:
You have company on that island! Been sexless for 9 months now and no ending in sight.
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justxinnocencex said:
Def not alone! But I understand how difficult it can be
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Is there an airport and nice hotel on this island? Reckon you ladies would be overwhelmed by guys - as you can probably tell from the thread!

Personally been in a desert since 2007 although I do bear some of the blame but still don't understand why my wife put a ban on sex when she knew it might only encourage me to look elsewhere again (For the record, it hasn't happened but I live in hope)
 
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