**Confessions of a Wife**

[MrMikelobe1952]

Absolutely,

The crazy thing is I haven't felt like this in years. That excitement, the thrill, the feeling in the pit of the stomach, the urge.....

I haven't been able to stop thinking about it.

I find myself day dreaming.

I will of course complete the story at some point.

Also thanks for the tips about this site to everyone. Xx

We will be looking forward to reading the rest of your story.

 

[munch2much]

Thanks for your post. I'm sorry you feel this way .

I think this was an exceptionally dignified reply.

 

[Malbec_Girl]

I think this was an exceptionally dignified reply.

I'm here to express myself and a lot of people will disagree. I'm not here to make enemies

 

[Malbec_Girl]

There does not seem to be a verification bit here?

Other sites I have been on ask for this...

 

[LizVegas79]

Don't beat yourself up for having desires Malbec Girl. We all do and it's perfectly natural. If you're in an unsatisfying relationship it usually makes those desires more profound and immediate. That's all. Just go at your own speed. You'll find your way. You seem smart and emotionally intelligent to me just from what little bit you've shared here. You will find a balance. Whether it's with your husband or someone else.

2024 is an 8 year, a year of taking steps and putting into motion what's been brewing for the last couple of years. Take your time. Take on new things and new feelings or emotions at your own pace and don't worry about what others might or might not think of you. Be the best version of yourself that you can be and you WILL find happiness.

 

[Stromer]

There does not seem to be a verification bit here?

Other sites I have been on ask for this...

I joined here under my first username back in 2000 and all I had to do was click on a button that said I was over 18. That's all I have ever had to do. There is some language in the rules saying you have be over 18, but no other verification that I have seen.

 

[Malbec_Girl]

I joined here under my first username back in 2000 and all I had to do was click on a button that said I was over 18. That's all I have ever had to do. There is some language in the rules saying you have be over 18, but no other verification that I have seen.

Thanks. X

 

[Malbec_Girl]

Don't beat yourself up for having desires Malbec Girl. We all do and it's perfectly natural. If you're in an unsatisfying relationship it usually makes those desires more profound and immediate. That's all. Just go at your own speed. You'll find your way. You seem smart and emotionally intelligent to me just from what little bit you've shared here. You will find a balance. Whether it's with your husband or someone else.

2024 is an 8 year, a year of taking steps and putting into motion what's been brewing for the last couple of years. Take your time. Take on new things and new feelings or emotions at your own pace and don't worry about what others might or might not think of you. Be the best version of yourself that you can be and you WILL find happiness.

Thanks for this.

I really appreciate it .

Absolutely, I know it's much easier to cheat now with everything being so much smaller and tight knit. There are so many more opportunities.

I never thought of myself as being the one to cheat.

Of course I have no idea what my husband has been up to throughout the years but he hasn't given me any reason to think otherwise.

 

[Stromer]

And thank you for choosing Lit to share your story with us. We have all been tempted in our lives and from what I have read so far, there is a lot more to your story than one night of lust.

 

[Malbec_Girl]

Thanks to jack for the suggestion x

 

[Malbec_Girl]

And thank you for choosing Lit to share your story with us. We have all been tempted in our lives and from what I read so far, there is a lot more to your story than one night of lust.

Thanks, it has been an amazing 'day on here

 

[Jingling_Geordie]

You married very young, possibly too young. Most of us have a list of sexual fantasies we try to fulfil. Some prior to our first marriage, some during, some after. The saddest things I read is those who never achieve any due to one sexless or sexually boring relationship/marriage. I hope you find everything you want and need.

 

[Stromer]

You married very young, possibly too young. Most of us have a list of sexual fantasies we try to fulfil. Some prior to our first marriage, some during, some after. The saddest things I read is those who never achieve any due to one sexless or sexually boring relationship/marriage. I hope you find everything you want and need.

Well said. The best thing that happened to my sex life was my first wife walking out the door.

 

[Malbec_Girl]

You married very young, possibly too young. Most of us have a list of sexual fantasies we try to fulfil. Some prior to our first marriage, some during, some after. The saddest things I read is those who never achieve any due to one sexless or sexually boring relationship/marriage. I hope you find everything you want and need.

Yes maybe, but I felt ready,, the world was at our feet and we have hopes, goals and dreams.

We did realise some of these, at a cost to our marriage.

 

[Hornyhusband2017]

Thanks to jack for the suggestion x

You are absolutely gorgeous!!

 

[Malbec_Girl]

You are absolutely gorgeous!!

Thanks for the lovely message

 

[Jingling_Geordie]

Yes maybe, but I felt ready,, the world was at our feet and we have hopes, goals and dreams.

We did realise some of these, at a cost to our marriage.

I married when I was 25 years old, and felt ready and properly matched as well as in love. It wasn’t until after we had divorced, her choice not mine, that I realised I’d been with the wrong person for years. Sex with my ex was boring missionary, when it happened at all. I’ve experienced so much since that relationship ended that I wouldn’t have if we’d stayed together.

I’m not saying your marriage is doomed or should end, only you and your husband can decide that… what I am saying is that you can be sexually fulfilled. It’s up to you how you achieve it. I’m happy to chat about anything you want or need to.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Thanks to jack for the suggestion x

Wow. Someone already wrote “absolutely gorgeous.” Exactly the words that came to my mind.

 

[Justfantasies]

Thanks for the story and the gorgeous pic. I don't think you cheated, you just flirted and you shouldn't be bothered about it. From my experience many married women like to flirt, perhaps most. It's just a game really but one that can get your panties wet

 

[Malbec_Girl]

Thanks for all the replies

The first day here was a lovely day so thanks to all of you.

I am spending the day in London to catch a couple of shows so will check in when I can x

 

[Malbec_Girl]

I married when I was 25 years old, and felt ready and properly matched as well as in love. It wasn’t until after we had divorced, her choice not mine, that I realised I’d been with the wrong person for years. Sex with my ex was boring missionary, when it happened at all. I’ve experienced so much since that relationship ended that I wouldn’t have if we’d stayed together.

I’m not saying your marriage is doomed or should end, only you and your husband can decide that… what I am saying is that you can be sexually fulfilled. It’s up to you how you achieve it. I’m happy to chat about anything you want or need to.

Yes I understand that. It's easy to get into a routine, however I do think that could be the case for most if not all.

It's hard. I've never even come close to cheating in the past. It's not something that was on the agenda. For some people, there is a thought process, for some it just happens

 

[Malbec_Girl]

Thanks for the story and the gorgeous pic. I don't think you cheated, you just flirted and you shouldn't be bothered about it. From my experience many married women like to flirt, perhaps most. It's just a game really but one that can get your panties wet

That's not the end, there is more, I will update once I get a chance.

 

[soflabbwlvr]

Thanks to jack for the suggestion x

Wow! Stunning picture. Thank you for sharing.

 

[Justfantasies]

That's not the end, there is more, I will update once I get a chance.

A girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do. The reality of marriage is that after a few years, husband and wife makes the arrangements best suited to the marriage

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

Thanks for your post.

I'm not sure if I'm looking for confirmation of validation. Maybe more just somewhere to share my feelings without the stigma of being judge?

After all, I know no one here and no one knows me, so I can be free and open.

My wife and I went through something like this over the last five years. I’ve been an open book on these Forums so I wont bore everyone with the details again, nor hijack your thread. I found Lit and it was the perfect place to sort out feelings with like minded people…people I didn’t have in my real world orbit to help me deal with emotions and feelings.

There is a wealth of info on here. I’ll add there are a ton of cheerleaders also. Nothing wrong with that, but there are some very serious people who’ve walked this path before and would be good sources of info for you.

Feel free to send me a PM and I can pass those names on.