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Do you get/give enough eye contact during sex?
I love eye contact. Love looking up when I’m giving head. Love making intense eye contact when he first pushes in…
HOWEVER, I’m also a bit shy 🙈. Sometimes the eye contact is almost too intense and I look away. I like being firmly told to maintain eye contact, or my face/neck being held to encourage it.

What is it that makes it appealing?

Is it something visual or is it something visceral?
So sometimes there’s just a really good looking cock. It’s not common, but it is a thing. I won’t be turned on just by looking at it but it can pique my interest and make me wonder what it might feel like.

But, generally I’d concur with Indie.. it’s about seeing the effect I’ve had on it. Knowing it’s hard because of me, that’s what’s really sexy.
 
Caught “up” in the moment

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So thinking about @Lmizzler ’s question about visual vs. visceral, it got me wondering, can a hardon be contagious? People pick up on the energy in a room. Sometimes being around an angry person can make you angry, a silly person makes you silly, but can an erect guy make you erect too?

Regardless of your sexual proclivities:

If a flaccid penis is around a bunch of erect penises will it become erect too?
 
What a great question @hotwords229_A you are not only sexy and intelligent but a deep thinker as well!

I wonder how we would approach this scientifically?

Three rooms in total darkness. A naked guy walks into all three, one room is empty, one room with flaccid guys and one room with erect guys, then he reports which room got him hard? 🤷‍♂️

But then, wouldn’t the spectacle of the experiment and the potential exhibitionist proclivity contaminate the science?
 
What a great question @hotwords229_A you are not only sexy and intelligent but a deep thinker as well!

I wonder how we would approach this scientifically?

Three rooms in total darkness. A naked guy walks into all three, one room is empty, one room with flaccid guys and one room with erect guys, then he reports which room got him hard? 🤷‍♂️

But then, wouldn’t the spectacle of the experiment and the potential exhibitionist proclivity contaminate the science?
Isn’t this referred to as Big Dick Energy?
 
As someone sans penis, I'm not sure I'm qualified to respond.

I'm gonna anyway. Its never stopped anyone with a penis.

I would say it probably varies person to person. I mean. I'd get hot and aroused when surrounded by other hot and aroused people doing hot and arousing things.

But if I just walked in a room and was surrounded by erect nipples and wet pussies.... hmm. Maybe I'm not the best to answer this....
 
As someone sans penis, I'm not sure I'm qualified to respond.

I'm gonna anyway. Its never stopped anyone with a penis.

I would say it probably varies person to person. I mean. I'd get hot and aroused when surrounded by other hot and aroused people doing hot and arousing things.

But if I just walked in a room and was surrounded by erect nipples and wet pussies.... hmm. Maybe I'm not the best to answer this....
I wonder this as well. If women can sync their menstrual cycles, why not their sexy cycles? I mean, it’s really the same thing, right?

There has to be some kind of arousal pheromones in play—we know there are for couples who are attracted to each other, but can it work just as a general sexual energy?

We need to hear from a guy who was in a situation where other guys were aroused and hear about his reaction. Unfortunately, probably no guy is going to answer this! 🤣
 
As someone sans penis, I'm not sure I'm qualified to respond.

I'm gonna anyway. Its never stopped anyone with a penis.

I would say it probably varies person to person. I mean. I'd get hot and aroused when surrounded by other hot and aroused people doing hot and arousing things.

But if I just walked in a room and was surrounded by erect nipples and wet pussies.... hmm. Maybe I'm not the best to answer this....
 
Caught “up” in the moment

https://64.media.tumblr.com/47e7f958d427ef83f3af73ab010876c9/9d1ea4c9efc611c6-65/s400x600/b1ff566fd26410e89336cc16509ba682cb897190.gif
So thinking about @Lmizzler ’s question about visual vs. visceral, it got me wondering, can a hardon be contagious? People pick up on the energy in a room. Sometimes being around an angry person can make you angry, a silly person makes you silly, but can an erect guy make you erect too?

Regardless of your sexual proclivities:

If a flaccid penis is around a bunch of erect penises will it become erect too?
There may be a competitive aspect as well. If other males are erect, a flaccid male may instinctively feel that he should also be ready for sex and that stimulates him to become erect.
 
I wonder this as well. If women can sync their menstrual cycles, why not their sexy cycles? I mean, it’s really the same thing, right?

There has to be some kind of arousal pheromones in play—we know there are for couples who are attracted to each other, but can it work just as a general sexual energy?

We need to hear from a guy who was in a situation where other guys were aroused and hear about his reaction. Unfortunately, probably no guy is going to answer this! 🤣
When our menstrual cycles sync, so do our sexy cycles...sort of. Many women are horniest and are the most receptive to sexual advances just before & during ovulation. I have a filthy mind most of the time, but it's an absolute gutter for 5 predictable days a month.
 
When our menstrual cycles sync, so do our sexy cycles...sort of. Many women are horniest and are the most receptive to sexual advances just before & during ovulation. I have a filthy mind most of the time, but it's an absolute gutter for 5 predictable days a month.
My sex drive is quite high, but the week before and during my cycle... whoa mama. Lock up.. well... maybe just run.
 
When our menstrual cycles sync, so do our sexy cycles...sort of. Many women are horniest and are the most receptive to sexual advances just before & during ovulation. I have a filthy mind most of the time, but it's an absolute gutter for 5 predictable days a month.

My sex drive is quite high, but the week before and during my cycle... whoa mama. Lock up.. well... maybe just run.
So the same. It is so good and also a wee bit dangerous 🤣
 
My sex drive is quite high, but the week before and during my cycle... whoa mama. Lock up.. well... maybe just run.
Yes, I'm a twice a day kind of lady, three if I can get it! When I'm ovulating, I swear to God everyone is attractive! It's a problem😒
So the same. It is so good and also a wee bit dangerous 🤣
I hear you! I have to be very careful particularly online, when my body is screaming to try procreate!

I feel like you ladies might enjoy my favorite comic on the topic. If you don't follow Awkward Yeti, for context, his brain is sensible and often tells stories his child like heart😁
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I love eye contact. Love looking up when I’m giving head. Love making intense eye contact when he first pushes in…
HOWEVER, I’m also a bit shy 🙈. Sometimes the eye contact is almost too intense and I look away. I like being firmly told to maintain eye contact, or my face/neck being held to encourage it.


So sometimes there’s just a really good looking cock. It’s not common, but it is a thing. I won’t be turned on just by looking at it but it can pique my interest and make me wonder what it might feel like.

But, generally I’d concur with Indie.. it’s about seeing the effect I’ve had on it. Knowing it’s hard because of me, that’s what’s really sexy.
Love these answers. Especially the eye contact! That sends me over the top!
 
There may be a competitive aspect as well. If other males are erect, a flaccid male may instinctively feel that he should also be ready for sex and that stimulates him to become erect.
I was thinking this too. There is no way one wants to be the limp noodle in a room full of rebar, no matter how 100% straight one is!
When I'm ovulating, I swear to God everyone is attractive! It's a problem😒
You and I define “problem” very differently.
 
I was thinking this too. There is no way one wants to be the limp noodle in a room full of rebar, no matter how 100% straight one is!
Guys will turn anything into a competition. No woman ever has been like, "she's wet, I need to be wet too!"😂
You and I define “problem” very differently.
It's difficult to be a woman with a high sex drive. Society says we should be the gate keepers, not the aggressors. Plus, if I acted on every thought that crossed my mind, especially when ovulating, I'd be careerless, homeless, and likely in jail for indecent exposure and/or sexual assault. I talk a good game, but I'm not tough enough for women's prison!
 
Guys will turn anything into a competition. No woman ever has been like, "she's wet, I need to be wet too!"😂

It's difficult to be a woman with a high sex drive. Society says we should be the gate keepers, not the aggressors. Plus, if I acted on every thought that crossed my mind, especially when ovulating, I'd be careerless, homeless, and likely in jail for indecent exposure and/or sexual assault. I talk a good game, but I'm not tough enough for women's prison!
I wonder how that place is for five days a month with synchronized days........ :oops:
 
Guys will turn anything into a competition. No woman ever has been like, "she's wet, I need to be wet too!"😂
Yeah, we’re awesome. 😜
It's difficult to be a woman with a high sex drive. Society says we should be the gate keepers, not the aggressors. Plus, if I acted on every thought that crossed my mind, especially when ovulating, I'd be careerless, homeless, and likely in jail for indecent exposure and/or sexual assault. I talk a good game, but I'm not tough enough for women's prison!
Society can say what it wants, but I like aggressive women. I like those subtle hints, like when she pushes her hand down the front of my pants, grabs my cock and sticks her tongue down my throat.
It’s at that point I start wondering if she’s into me.
 
When our menstrual cycles sync, so do our sexy cycles...sort of. Many women are horniest and are the most receptive to sexual advances just before & during ovulation. I have a filthy mind most of the time, but it's an absolute gutter for 5 predictable days a month.
It’s sooo true 😂 I become insatiable during ovulation. Nature knew what it was doing with that one.
 
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