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A thread to discuss, agree, agree to disagree about all non-straight, non-cisgender, predilections, preferences, predispositions, dysphoric, choices, attractions, or repulsions. What's your take on things?

First, I'm fascinated by transgenders but not attracted to them. I have many friends of the trans persuasion, both MTF and FTM. Obviously, I like lesbian sex and don't do the other. What about you guys?
 
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My influence early in life was looking at a porno mag where this hot chic shows off a penis under her skirt. I masturbated heavily to those images. I pushed the guilt down because years ago that was considered perverse. Later in life when I could purchase my own porn i gravitated towards the “shemale tranny, CD and sissy porn. I know it wasn't politically correct terms but call it for what was depicted at these adult stores. I respect all humans, race,color, sex etc. but im not going to deny my attraction to all of this. It finally got me to realize Im aroused at a stiff hard throbbing cock, tits, nice Ass and an open sexual person who isnt afraid to flaunt their bodies. It was hard to find what I was looking for until I discovered crossdressing and sex with men. I can understand a man wanting to become woman or vice versa. I certainly love playing a more Fem role with men. However i enjoy being a man and desire the female body. In the end, as you get older, you just need a heartbeat and a warm body.
 
Not sure how relevant it is.

But I’ve sometimes just fucked guys. Not zero emotional connection, but low. Just about the sex*.

But I don’t think I’ve ever had “just sex” with a woman. It’s always had an emotional angle. Perhaps the closest to the guy experience was one girl I only hooked up with a few times before she dumped me (didn’t like attachments). But even that was kinda emotional.

YMMV

Em

* I have also had wonderful emotional sex with guys - not saying this is impossible at all
 
One of the interesting things about transgenders MTF is how their boy parts react to the drugs is all over the place. If they don't take Testron blockers, some still shrivele. Some who take T-Blockers don't shrivel. Some want their penis gone (of course, the surgery is in the hundreds of thousands of dollars range), and many can't afford that. Some enjoy topping and have fully functioning cocks. Some with fully functioning equipment prefer the bottom or to switch. Many are bottom. Some get it up, no problem. Some get semi-hard, others can't get it up at all. And that's just those going from male to female and not all the ways they ae wired, either.
 
It’s semantics, but trans isn’t a persuasion. 😉
I can’t imagine anyone choosing this. I’ve been dealing with dysphoria since I was six. It has manifested as just ‘playing dress up’ to fill on cross dressing to experimenting with my sexuality, which was and is a lot of fun. So many options…

I can best describe it as living in a costume you can’t take off. Even though I see a fairly good looking man that I honestly like in the mirror, everything inside me says he’s wrong. That’s not who I am. I want the girl I know is in there. I want to be pretty, to be soft and feminine.
The saddest part is, I will never have that, so I write my stories and fantasize about a life I never had and never will.

Now that I’ve got you all depressed..
I like my women smaller than me and slightly aggressive. My men larger than me and very aggressive. Oral is so much fun all around, giving and receiving. I loved(past tense) fucking a horny woman, Whats not to love about that?
But with another man, I am a complete sub bottom. Fuck me and fuck me hard.

From my own experience and from the other trans women I have talked to, sexuality is pretty diverse. Some of us are bi and some gay. I’ll let you decide what a trans woman being gay means. 😜
 
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A thread to discuss, agree, agree to disagree about all non-straight, non-cisgender, predilections, preferences, predispositions, choices, attractions, or repulsions. What's your take on things?
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What you have is a predisposition. The definition is pre·dis·po·si·tion /ˌprēdispəˈziSH(ə)n/ noun a liability or tendency to suffer from a particular condition, hold a particular attitude, or act in a particular way. It is out of your control, it's who are and want to be.
ShelbyDawn57 said:
It’s semantics, but trans isn’t a persuasion. 😉
I can’t imagine anyone choosing this. I’ve been dealing with dysphoria since I was six. It has manifested as just ‘playing dress up’ to fill on cross dressing to experimenting with my sexuality, which was and is a lot of fun. So many options…

I can best describe it as living in a costume you can’t take off. Even though I see a fairly good looking man that I honestly like in the mirror, everything inside me says he’s wrong. That’s not who I am. I want the girl I know is in there. I want to be pretty, to be soft and feminine.
The saddest part is, I will never have that, so I write my stories and fantasize about a life I never had and never will.

Now that I’ve got you all depressed..
I like my women smaller than me and slightly aggressive. My men larger than me and very aggressive. Oral is so much fun all around, giving and receiving. I loved(past tense) fucking a horny woman, Whats not to love about that?
But with another man, I am a complete sub bottom. Fuck me and fuck me hard.

From my own experience and from the other trans women I have talked to, sexuality is pretty diverse. Some of us are bi and some gay. I’ll let you decide what a trans woman being gay means. 😜
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I should have included dysphoria in the opening statement. And I'm going to edit so it is included.
 
MillieDynamite said:
One of the interesting things about transgenders MTF is how their boy parts react to the drugs is all over the place. If they don't take Testron blockers, some still shrivele. Some who take T-Blockers don't shrivel. Some want their penis gone (of course, the surgery is in the hundreds of thousands of dollars range), and many can't afford that. Some enjoy topping and have fully functioning cocks. Some with fully functioning equipment prefer the bottom or to switch. Many are bottom. Some get it up, no problem. Some get semi-hard, others can't get it up at all. And that's just those going from male to female and not all the ways they ae wired, either.
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I’ve found more than anything they mitigate the severity of my dysphoria. Sure, I don’t remember my last erection, but I’m not all maudlin all the time. Oh, did I mention the boobs? Boobs are wonderful. Call me sick, but I LOVE having or getting to wear bras.
I do present in public primarily as male mostly because my family and friends, including two sons, would never understand. So, I’m just a guy in’s bra and panties, with moderate gymecomastia and a killer manicure.
 
The word "predisposition" doesn't come remotely close to meaning what "identity" means.
 
LOL, I'm sorry for you, or rather, empathize with you. I was terrified to tell my adoptive parents I was gay. But here I am, 15 years old, and tell my father, "I don't think I like guys at all." He said, "Understandable, giving your life before we got you. So, you're a lesbian then, right?" "Yes, sir. Are you ashamed of me?" He looked me in my eyes and took my hand, "Never in a million years would I be ashamed of you."
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I’ve found more than anything they mitigate the severity of my dysphoria. Sure, I don’t remember my last erection, but I’m not all maudlin all the time. Oh, did I mention the boobs? Boobs are wonderful. Call me sick, but I LOVE having or getting to wear bras.
I do present in public primarily as male mostly because my family and friends, including two sons, would never understand. So, I’m just a guy in’s bra and panties, with moderate gymecomastia and a killer manicure.
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So I suppose I'll be the first straight CIS male to chime in only to say I think the thread is a good idea, and hopefully can be used to clear up a lot of misconceptions about people of all genders, sexual identities and preferences.

As a middle aged guy, I still tend to think in two dimensions when it comes to all that. Male, female. Straight, gay.

Obviously, it's a lot more complicated. Especially for the transgender community.

There are of course all those questions we have but are afraid to ask sometimes, for fear of coming off rude or insensitive.

I will say this: I don't care what you have between your legs. You need a place to pee, my bathroom is always open.
 
Djmac1031 said:
So I suppose I'll be the first straight CIS male to chime in only to say I think the thread is a good idea, and hopefully can be used to clear up a lot of misconceptions about people of all genders, sexual identities and preferences.

As a middle aged guy, I still tend to think in two dimensions when it comes to all that. Male, female. Straight, gay.

Obviously, it's a lot more complicated. Especially for the transgender community.

There are of course all those questions we have but are afraid to ask sometimes, for fear of coming off rude or insensitive.

I will say this: I don't care what you have between your legs. You need a place to pee, my bathroom is always open.
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The tough thing about being trans is that at its base, gender is binary. When you're born, with extremely rare exception, you get issued a vagina or a penis.

The problem is the psychology.

As I mentioned before, I actually like the man I see in the mirror. I'm proud of what and who he is.

Somehow, for reasons I don't' think I'll ever understand, he's just not the me I see and feel when I close my eyes, when I look in my heart, my dreams, ambitions, and desires. That person is a tall leggy red head with nice tits, and bright green eyes, wearing killer six inch Jimmy Choos. Read some of my stories, you'll get that reference. :)
 
ShelbyDawn57 said:
I can’t imagine anyone choosing this.
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I am so sorry, Shelby. I applaud you for having the incredible strength speaking so openly about your experiences.

I have a friend that I grew up with. Born male. Pushed in that direction very strictly by their parents. They (preferred pronoun) suffered tremendously. One day during our late teens, they came and asked me, loosely translated from Swedish: "Do you think I should start living as a woman? Do you think I should cross that threshold to the other side?"

And I told them no. I said; "As long as you have to ask people if it is what you should or should not do, I am not sure if you're fully ready to face the consequences yet." Of course they knew I'd support them either way, but for a year or two afterwards, I felt quite guilty about what I had said. Why should they prolong their suffering, and not just rip the band-aid off? There was a near non-existent chance they'd change their mind.

But after they had gone through with it, and came out identifying as a woman - which took another 3-4 years - they said that was the best advice anyone gave them. Because of the hardship involved. It wasn't like the suffering ended because they went through with it. Not even close. They faced incredible prejudice. And they said they wouldn't have been emotionally able to handle it when they first brought up the question to me - and that if they'd gone through with it then, they might not have been with us anymore.

Today, my friend is happy. But it took them a long time. Difficult years. I wouldn't wish that sort of pain upon anyone.
 
Is there anywhere you can live out your dreams safely away from your family? Far be it from me to suggest anyone stay in the closet. It's dark and lonely there. But, if you can at least have some fun, now and again, that would be wonderful for you as well.
ShelbyDawn57 said:
The tough thing about being trans is that at its base, gender is binary. When you're born, with extremely rare exception, you get issued a vagina or a penis.

The problem is the psychology.

As I mentioned before, I actually like the man I see in the mirror. I'm proud of what and who he is.

Somehow, for reasons I don't' think I'll ever understand, he's just not the me I see and feel when I close my eyes, when I look in my heart, my dreams, ambitions, and desires. That person is a tall leggy red head with nice tits, and bright green eyes, wearing killer six inch Jimmy Choos. Read some of my stories, you'll get that reference. :)
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MillieDynamite said:
LOL, I'm sorry for you, or rather, empathize with you. I was terrified to tell my adoptive parents I was gay. But here I am, 15 years old, and tell my father, "I don't think I like guys at all." He said, "Understandable, giving your life before we got you. So, you're a lesbian then, right?" "Yes, sir. Are you ashamed of me?" He looked me in my eyes and took my hand, "Never in a million years would I be ashamed of you."
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So glad your dad was so accepting.
It's kind of funny. I used to steal my sister's panties all the time. One morning, I got out of the shower and went to get dressed. Every pair of tighty-whities I had were gone. In their place, men's bikini briefs in various pastel colors. Pretty sure my mom knew, but she never said a word. Of course, I till stole my sister's panties because, well, they were panties. :)
 
MillieDynamite said:
Is there anywhere you can live out your dreams safely away from your family? Far be it from me to suggest anyone stay in the closet. It's dark and lonely there. But, if you can at least have some fun, now and again, that would be wonderful for you as well.
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I work 100% remote and live alone. Girl, I dress everyday. Part of the issue is I'll never pass without massive surgery, so I make do with what I have. Now if I could get my time machine working and go back to being 18, Yeah, I'd be all girl all the time.
 
ShelbyDawn57 said:
The tough thing about being trans is that at its base, gender is binary. When you're born, with extremely rare exception, you get issued a vagina or a penis
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But gender isn’t binary. Humans created gender, it’s a social construct. Your reproductive organs aren’t even fully binary because plenty of people are born with variations. It’s not as rare as we are made to think.

Gender, like sexuality, is a spectrum and you and fall anywhere in that spectrum and that can change over time.

(I created my lit profile when I still identified with the gender I was assigned at birth but have since realized I am nonbinary and potentially genderfluid. I just don’t feel like creating a new one)
 
shytennisgirl said:
But gender isn’t binary. Humans created gender, it’s a social construct. Your reproductive organs aren’t even fully binary because plenty of people are born with variations. It’s not as rare as we are made to think.

Gender, like sexuality, is a spectrum and you and fall anywhere in that spectrum and that can change over time.

(I created my lit profile when I still identified with the gender I was assigned at birth but have since realized I am nonbinary and potentially genderfluid. I just don’t feel like creating a new one)
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Sorry girlfriend, we are going to just have to agree to disagree. I don't want to debate this or it will destroy this thread, so let's just leave this right here, ok? Thanks.
 
ShelbyDawn57 said:
Sorry girlfriend, we are going to just have to agree to disagree. I don't want to debate this or it will destroy this thread, so let's just leave this right here, ok? Thanks.
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First, if you want to agree to disagree, at least be respectful. Because immediately using a gendered term for someone who outright said they do not identify with said gender, even if hou don’t believe gender is fluid, ain’t it.

Second, I’m genuinely curious if you are trans how you see gender as still being only binary? Or are you strictly referring to “biological” matters?
 
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