Meeting Married Men

I believe the same! I am a married crossdresser who wants a safe married man. Most of them chicken out at the last minute, I used to have a married friend who I had a lot of fun with until he had to relocate to another state. We would play once in a while and I always felt safe. I didn't have to worry about catching anything from him, and he didn't have to worry about me. Finding a new friend is not only hard, it is almost unaproachable. Ads are hard to believe, most of them just send a dick pic from their bathroom. I'm looking for a regular guy who wants to play exclusively, and not play games. I've tried kik and every thing else out there, all the same. Sooner or later I hope to get laid again!
The safe, local, exclusive regular friend is the unicorn a lot of us are hoping to find
 
It has been a long time since I had to search out married men that want their cock sucked. I had a regular friend for about 3 or so years but that ended when I moved to a small town about 5 years ago. Since then I have not found a new friend,
i seem now to be unable to read the signs and because of this I have not had the pleasure of sucking a nice hard cock in a long long time. What do I need to look for, what’s the obvious and less obvious signs. Tired of only eating my own cum.
A couple of people have mentioned Doublelist and Reddit. I’ve spent a little time searching via those websites, without any luck.

The one that has been useful for me is Silverdaddies. I’ve had some good connections, even though I border on being ultra cautious. Contacts lead to an exchange of messages to establish mutual interests, which leads to meeting face to face for coffee or something. Not necessarily quick, but it’s led to some great times.

Silverdaddies has a free basic connection which has given me plenty of access.

Best of luck!
 
I had been on a gay dating site for a few years with some luck in finding partners. I was chatting with another married guy and found after some correspondence that we lived fairly close to each other. We agreed to meet at a local park and chat in the parking lot. We told each other what we would be driving and set a time. I have done this b4 with plenty of no shows so I wasn't expecting much . I saw his white suv pull into the parking lot and as I got closer I realized it was a neighbor of mine. Well we both were married and taking the same chance so what the hell. i got in his car and we chatted for a while and soon I was sucking him right there. He lived in the same gated community as me and we soon were going to each others home as friends and lovers. Neither wife suspected we were more than just friends and we even golfed together sometimes. So it does happen
 
I believe the same! I am a married crossdresser who wants a safe married man. Most of them chicken out at the last minute, I used to have a married friend who I had a lot of fun with until he had to relocate to another state. We would play once in a while and I always felt safe. I didn't have to worry about catching anything from him, and he didn't have to worry about me. Finding a new friend is not only hard, it is almost unaproachable. Ads are hard to believe, most of them just send a dick pic from their bathroom. I'm looking for a regular guy who wants to play exclusively, and not play games. I've tried kik and every thing else out there, all the same. Sooner or later I hope to get laid again!
I would had gotten embarrassed if I saw my neighbor sitting there, waiting but it was a good decision on your part!!

How convenient for the both of you to had a cock to suck on that was so close and without any suspicion from either wives.
I had been on a gay dating site for a few years with some luck in finding partners. I was chatting with another married guy and found after some correspondence that we lived fairly close to each other. We agreed to meet at a local park and chat in the parking lot. We told each other what we would be driving and set a time. I have done this b4 with plenty of no shows so I wasn't expecting much . I saw his white suv pull into the parking lot and as I got closer I realized it was a neighbor of mine. Well we both were married and taking the same chance so what the hell. i got in his car and we chatted for a while and soon I was sucking him right there. He lived in the same gated community as me and we soon were going to each others home as friends and lovers. Neither wife suspected we were more than just friends and we even golfed together sometimes. So it does happen
I would had gotten embarrassed if I saw my neighbor sitting there, waiting but it was a good decision on your part!!



How convenient for the both of you to had a cock to suck on that was so close and without any suspicion from either wives.

I'd prefer to find someone close by but not neighbors. It'll be too tempting to sneak out each time he tells me he's got a hardon and he needed his cock sucked hmmmm.
 
A couple of people have mentioned Doublelist and Reddit. I’ve spent a little time searching via those websites, without any luck.

The one that has been useful for me is Silverdaddies. I’ve had some good connections, even though I border on being ultra cautious. Contacts lead to an exchange of messages to establish mutual interests, which leads to meeting face to face for coffee or something. Not necessarily quick, but it’s led to some great times.

Silverdaddies has a free basic connection which has given me plenty of access.

Best of luck!
Just recommended this site to someone on here also
 
I had been on a gay dating site for a few years with some luck in finding partners. I was chatting with another married guy and found after some correspondence that we lived fairly close to each other. We agreed to meet at a local park and chat in the parking lot. We told each other what we would be driving and set a time. I have done this b4 with plenty of no shows so I wasn't expecting much . I saw his white suv pull into the parking lot and as I got closer I realized it was a neighbor of mine. Well we both were married and taking the same chance so what the hell. i got in his car and we chatted for a while and soon I was sucking him right there. He lived in the same gated community as me and we soon were going to each others home as friends and lovers. Neither wife suspected we were more than just friends and we even golfed together sometimes. So it does happen
Now that's the luck I need, and like a good neighbor here I am.
 
Hell I'm a married man whose wife has given me the go ahead to find a man to have sex with and I still can't get anyone to go past the talking online stage. Most talk a good game and then ghost me or come up with some idiotic excuse like 2 hours is too long to drive when I said I would drive to meet them. Honestly I think the vast majority of men here on lit are pretenders.
Lucky man to have an understanding wife
 
I find married men that are looking for a bj and/or to top a bottom on double list.
 
I believe the same! I am a married crossdresser who wants a safe married man. Most of them chicken out at the last minute, I used to have a married friend who I had a lot of fun with until he had to relocate to another state. We would play once in a while and I always felt safe. I didn't have to worry about catching anything from him, and he didn't have to worry about me. Finding a new friend is not only hard, it is almost unaproachable. Ads are hard to believe, most of them just send a dick pic from their bathroom. I'm looking for a regular guy who wants to play exclusively, and not play games. I've tried kik and every thing else out there, all the same. Sooner or later I hope to get laid again!
Looking for similar here in the UK and have the same frustration. I want to suck cock and probably more for the right man.
 
I had been on a gay dating site for a few years with some luck in finding partners. I was chatting with another married guy and found after some correspondence that we lived fairly close to each other. We agreed to meet at a local park and chat in the parking lot. We told each other what we would be driving and set a time. I have done this b4 with plenty of no shows so I wasn't expecting much . I saw his white suv pull into the parking lot and as I got closer I realized it was a neighbor of mine. Well we both were married and taking the same chance so what the hell. i got in his car and we chatted for a while and soon I was sucking him right there. He lived in the same gated community as me and we soon were going to each others home as friends and lovers. Neither wife suspected we were more than just friends and we even golfed together sometimes. So it does happen
Oh for a lucky strike like that!! If only.
 
I’m a married guy in the uk, and I’ve met a few men over the years through Squirt and Fabguys… not always perfect experiences, but the last man a year ago was great - a lovely naked session, he fucked me and came in my mouth. Best of all I’m seeing him again next week, and I’m hoping to wear panties for him this time. It’ll be the first time I’ve met someone twice - though sadly he lives a long way from me. Would love a more regular buddy x
 
A couple of people have mentioned Doublelist and Reddit. I’ve spent a little time searching via those websites, without any luck.

The one that has been useful for me is Silverdaddies. I’ve had some good connections, even though I border on being ultra cautious. Contacts lead to an exchange of messages to establish mutual interests, which leads to meeting face to face for coffee or something. Not necessarily quick, but it’s led to some great times.

Silverdaddies has a free basic connection which has given me plenty of access.

Best of luck!
Be very careful on sugar daddy’s. One guy tried to blackmail me.
 
I have no idea how to find men. I've used some websites and had success with one guy. Some of the other sites were unpleasant or rather the guys on them were unpleasant. Many of them are also hopping from night to night with different guys. I don't want to get into that because I'd lose the discretion I need. Not to mention that is an unclean environment.

I prefer a guy I can talk to or interact with. I don't want to jump into a car, suck his cock and then quickly leave. The 'blow & go' is not something I want to do.

Good luck.
Although, the more I get to know about somebody, in a conventional sense, the more it feels a little awkward slipping into fantasy mode.
 
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