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Evening everyone, I just saw this thread so as a 50 year old i thought I should add a reply to it, I’m a single guy that’s been that way for pretty much my whole life, mainly down to shyness and illness, and then as time creeps on you just get used to it. I tend to spend my life just counting down the days to the next holiday so I have stuff to look forward to (46 days now 😂), then I can go back to find more of what my profile picture shows. Always happy to chat, assuming I see a notification I have a message or reply ☺️
 
It's not aimed at jslem because of the Temple Mount....hazard strip is where the atrocities are being committed. I am just after Ashdon, but we have a flat in ashkelon. She will be OK.
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Dammit… I just realized in a month I’ll be 61, which somehow feels much older than 60. That’ll be another year past without sex, too. It’s already feeling depressing, and I’m already dealing with depression as it is.

I need a woman to touch me and make me feel like a sexual being again! I’m tired of feeling like I don’t matter, that my role for the rest of my life is taking care of everything and everybody but I can’t take care of me.

And so it goes, this is the road I’m stuck on, who knows which birthday will be the last? I survived a burst aneurysm in my head despite the overwhelming odds against it, last spring t got appendicitis and if I’d gone to get checked out an hour later it would have burst. I’m on medications for high blood pressure that the dose is being increased again, after it was just increased two months ago, plus other medications for this and that, and if the new dose doesn’t work I’ll have to take another pill too.

I just had my depression medication changed because the old one kept making it harder and harder just to get an orgasm, and I didn’t bother telling the doc my only outlet was jerking it… sometimes two hours or so before giving up for the day, and every time i tried something different that got me there it only worked once or twice and not again. Ive used prostate massager, other toys… tonight I didn’t even try..

Sleeping gets more challenging, and the doc thinks I may have sleep apnea so there’s that fun to look forward to.

Sometimes I doubt I’ll live to see 70, one more aneurysm and that’s probably going to be it for me, and that’s assuming something else doesn’t happen first.

The bright spot right now? A young woman I’ve messeaged back and forth with who says she’s in Florida and has a fetish for older men and teachers… but for all I know they could be a 41 year old man in his moms basement doing this with all kinds of other guys. Even if she’s real there’s no chance of meeting. It’s fun while chatting, at least.

Don’t worry that I’m thinking about ending my life, friends, I’m too damn stubborn to even try, because I still think something better is going to happen to make all this worth it.

Anyway, that’s my annual whining and complaining a month ahead of my birthday. I’d imagine some of you are dealing with wise shit than I am.
 
Dammit… I just realized in a month I’ll be 61, which somehow feels much older than 60. That’ll be another year past without sex, too. It’s already feeling depressing, and I’m already dealing with depression as it is.

I need a woman to touch me and make me feel like a sexual being again! I’m tired of feeling like I don’t matter, that my role for the rest of my life is taking care of everything and everybody but I can’t take care of me.

And so it goes, this is the road I’m stuck on, who knows which birthday will be the last? I survived a burst aneurysm in my head despite the overwhelming odds against it, last spring t got appendicitis and if I’d gone to get checked out an hour later it would have burst. I’m on medications for high blood pressure that the dose is being increased again, after it was just increased two months ago, plus other medications for this and that, and if the new dose doesn’t work I’ll have to take another pill too.

I just had my depression medication changed because the old one kept making it harder and harder just to get an orgasm, and I didn’t bother telling the doc my only outlet was jerking it… sometimes two hours or so before giving up for the day, and every time i tried something different that got me there it only worked once or twice and not again. Ive used prostate massager, other toys… tonight I didn’t even try..

Sleeping gets more challenging, and the doc thinks I may have sleep apnea so there’s that fun to look forward to.

Sometimes I doubt I’ll live to see 70, one more aneurysm and that’s probably going to be it for me, and that’s assuming something else doesn’t happen first.

The bright spot right now? A young woman I’ve messeaged back and forth with who says she’s in Florida and has a fetish for older men and teachers… but for all I know they could be a 41 year old man in his moms basement doing this with all kinds of other guys. Even if she’s real there’s no chance of meeting. It’s fun while chatting, at least.

Don’t worry that I’m thinking about ending my life, friends, I’m too damn stubborn to even try, because I still think something better is going to happen to make all this worth it.

Anyway, that’s my annual whining and complaining a month ahead of my birthday. I’d imagine some of you are dealing with wise shit than I am.
Hang on in there
 
I'm in the silver fox club. Not as crazy as I was in my younger days, but still occassionally find time to sneak out to my truck in the driveway and smoke a cigar butt-ass naked at 4 in the morning. I know, I know... not so daring. Somehow, it still gets the adrenaline flowing. (I miss those old truth or dare games)
 
Dammit… I just realized in a month I’ll be 61, which somehow feels much older than 60. That’ll be another year past without sex, too. It’s already feeling depressing, and I’m already dealing with depression as it is.
Don't know if that helps, but I already made it to 67, after surviving prostate cancer at 55. Decided not to wait for my pension but moved to a tropical country where I can live from $500 per month. (Almost died of a tropical disease, but still here). Just before I left my home country, at the age of 60, had my first sexual experience with a man. Living life now like it will be over tomorrow. (O, and I look for friendly old men instead of young woman. Bigger chance that they really are who they say they are :cool:).
 
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Dammit… I just realized in a month I’ll be 61, which somehow feels much older than 60. That’ll be another year past without sex, too. It’s already feeling depressing, and I’m already dealing with depression as it is.

I need a woman to touch me and make me feel like a sexual being again! I’m tired of feeling like I don’t matter, that my role for the rest of my life is taking care of everything and everybody but I can’t take care of me.

And so it goes, this is the road I’m stuck on, who knows which birthday will be the last? I survived a burst aneurysm in my head despite the overwhelming odds against it, last spring t got appendicitis and if I’d gone to get checked out an hour later it would have burst. I’m on medications for high blood pressure that the dose is being increased again, after it was just increased two months ago, plus other medications for this and that, and if the new dose doesn’t work I’ll have to take another pill too.

I just had my depression medication changed because the old one kept making it harder and harder just to get an orgasm, and I didn’t bother telling the doc my only outlet was jerking it… sometimes two hours or so before giving up for the day, and every time i tried something different that got me there it only worked once or twice and not again. Ive used prostate massager, other toys… tonight I didn’t even try..

Sleeping gets more challenging, and the doc thinks I may have sleep apnea so there’s that fun to look forward to.

Sometimes I doubt I’ll live to see 70, one more aneurysm and that’s probably going to be it for me, and that’s assuming something else doesn’t happen first.

The bright spot right now? A young woman I’ve messeaged back and forth with who says she’s in Florida and has a fetish for older men and teachers… but for all I know they could be a 41 year old man in his moms basement doing this with all kinds of other guys. Even if she’s real there’s no chance of meeting. It’s fun while chatting, at least.

Don’t worry that I’m thinking about ending my life, friends, I’m too damn stubborn to even try, because I still think something better is going to happen to make all this worth it.

Anyway, that’s my annual whining and complaining a month ahead of my birthday. I’d imagine some of you are dealing with wise shit than I am.
At our 50 and above age a lot of us are asking ourselves " is it actually all downhill from here it? " it seems? I know I do. Not often but sometimes.

I've had my fair share of health issues as well. This December will be my 2 year anniversary from having had open heart surgery. I'm on half a dozen medications and whatnot?!

I really hope something comes your way that'll create some kind of spark in your life where you'll want to continue and enjoy each moment. No promises but one can hope. Good luck!
 
So any of you who might have been wondering if I was going to be all right, I am feeling better today, and a large part was because a lady from lit responded to my last message with some very hot photos of herself! Those definitely boosted my mood for a while (although they also made me wish I was where she is, but I digres).

Yeah, as dark as I was feeling last night and it just took some tits and ass to put me right again. If I could find a regular sex partner I could probably not need the medication and therapy I’m getting!
 
54 M. Straight. Colorado. Extremely active, muscular but not ripped ( who the fuck has the time for all that cardio) but not fat either. 5’10 and some change, 221lbs. White and black hair ( yeah!!! Still have hair). Still play 4-6 rugby matches per year, play shit ton of golf and fly fishing when the flows are good.
 
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