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Hello!Hello Gerilyyn
Mr. Tomgurl , the peacockFifty three recent empty nester, kinky CD (not a sissy) in a menopausal monogamous relationship. It’s rough but I’m resourceful with an extensive kinky closet.. Being nonbinary and pansexual I can be my own porn, but I would so love someone to play with.
I’m waiting it out - waiting for my wife to hit her second sexual wind, she hit fifty and is determined - making great progress to get in shape and feel better. She wants it for herself and for us and I believe in her, so for now I’m a do-it-yourselfer.
Far from vanilla, I’ve had and loved many flavors in many kinds of relationships, often fantasizing now about being some smart, kind, and handsome guy’s best friend - go do guy stuff with gender-queer benefits, with me mostly as the little spoon, but I’d also have a lot of fun when it’s my turn on top.![]()
I'm Dee, known here as Marriedpervs. Straight but bi when it suits me living in Australia. Started playing on the internet years ago on VW. I reckon if OF was around back then I might have given it a go, but too old now.Greetings all, I thought I’d try starting a thread for the Litsers who have passed the half-century mark so we’d have a special spot to talk about things that affect us. I hope we’ll find lots of people to post!
Maybe with your first post, a brief intro like so:
I’m mpeters, male, straight, 60 years old. I live in western Washington state. I’m married with four adopted children and work as a high school substitute teacher.
Once you’ve introduced yourself, then go on and talk about what’s on your mind!
In my case, my wife and I haven’t had sex in over 10 years, so I’ve had to handle things myself. I’ve considered trying to find a FWB, but as my students would say, I’ve got no game. I suspect that this kind of arrangement is hard to manage at my age, but I could be wrong. Trying to get something started that I could make work with my schedule would be a challenge too!
You can't be posting on this threadGood to know.![]()
You are too young to be hereAnd why is that sir?
Them twins have the richness of a much younger bustYou are entirely too kind…but I’m now 51 and almost a grown up.![]()
Lol you seem grown upYou are entirely too kind…but I’m now 51 and almost a grown up.![]()
Nick! How are you you old bugger?Mind if I join you all?
Horlicks please Nick, caffeine in tea keeps me awake…and I need to feed the cats & make tea…
<offstage voice: You must be old & British!>
<Looking into the wings>: Why yes! How did you guess?
Ok all, I’ve put my Barbie’s to bed and now I must follow. It’s been fun! Until next time….take care, stay sweet and remember to put your Legos away. Nite Nite!
I am snuggling with a teddy I share with a very very special friend. Goodnight Busty and everyone elseOk all, I’ve put my Barbie’s to bed and now I must follow. It’s been fun! Until next time….take care, stay sweet and remember to put your Legos away. Nite Nite!
RubbingStill knocking about…’hinges’ still creaking but Turmeric helps![]()
Watching the morning news this morning and thinking about you , we’ve crossed paths in the playground thread before. I hope this quote finds you in a good place and a safe environment.Hi I'm 71, and still going strong,
Haaaaa we're just about the same demographically with the exception of my wife being about 45 yo but definitely asian as well hmmmmmI’m 57 and my wife is 43yo asian, I would love to chat,text,or talk about her with another guy
Thank you so much. My family is safe so far.Watching the morning news this morning and thinking about you , we’ve crossed paths in the playground thread before. I hope this quote finds you in a good place and a safe environment.
Im terrible at small talk ,but I do remember posters that leave a mark with their input in threads and comments that are constructive and encouraging. Or maybe I should have used the term pleasant and engaging.
Be safe
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Wow Anny, this kind of hurt my heart for you. The love of your life eventually finds you. I truly believe that. Mine found me. Only for 13 years, but they were wonderful.Age. Plain and simple. From the female perspective - middle age + guys just don't seem to be looking for an actual relationship. They are simply looking for FB, someone they can call up when they are horny for sex. Nothing wrong with that in & off itself but some of us are looking for more and it has been impossible. In my observation this is because of one of two things. One - the guy is recently out of a long term relationship and isn't looking for or ready for something more that sex. Two - they are life long bachelors and don't want to change that, they simply are too stuck in their single life ways to want to make accommodations for another person in their lives.
I fall in the life long bachelorette category. I am honestly not even sure if I could make the necessary accommodations needed to be in a successful relationship. I too have become accustomed to doing things my way, when I want, how I want. But I also would have enjoyed the chance to try. But haven't several years of actively trying and being unsuccessful, I have accepted that it just isn't going to happen for me. Contrary to popular belief, I do not believe that there is someone for everyone and some people, like me, don't get a love of their life.
Wow Anny, this kind of hurt my heart for you. The love of your life eventually finds you. I truly believe that. Mine found me. Only for 13 years, but they were wonderful. I'm third year widow. Returning to the world ready for fun, new friends, and a little naughty to go around!!!Wow Anny, this kind of hurt my heart for you. The love of your life eventually finds you. I truly believe that. Mine found me. Only for 13 years, but they were wonderful.
Hi Silky, Welcome to the club. Thinking of you after seeing today's headlinesHi I'm 71, and still going strong, although it also appears to be after a hysterectomy due to illness during the prior years. Hubby also has prostate issues, which we believe cause lowered testosterone, plus infrequent sex. About once a month. I do not like younger men, and will only chat with men who are over 57. Btw there is a long thread about sexless marriages, which is quite enlightening! Not promoting it, just saying. I'm glad someone made a thread for older people, sometimes I feel like we should just lay down and die lol.
Not sure if that's you in the avatar, but its a really nice pic!52 year old woman here in an unsatisfactory marriage. One child left at home. Not on here much but happy to chat when I am