Doo you miss your old sex life

Do I miss my old sex life?

10 years of battling heart disease, 9 surgeries, permanent heart damage, multiple meds to maintain health. Cancer from 7 years ago returned in April, just finished 6 weeks of radiation following surgery (again). Mid 70’s.

I barely remember what my sex life was like back in the good old days, but still hang around here.

Yes, I miss it.
 
That's my problem.

But Tab 'P' isn't as sturdy or firm as it used to be and Tab 'V' isn't as well lubricated or snug.
 
If you're getting a shot at Tab 'V' you're doing better than me! I'm just left with the less sturdy and firm 'P'!🤣
 
My sex life has been a roller coaster.
Virgin until dating my future husband. I had given one uneducated hand job in the dark prior.

Within 2 years ear of marriage, intercourse was so painful I would cry in the bathroom until I knew he was asleep. Surgery, hormones, pregnancy, surgery. All in the next 6 years. We had a spark of greatness, then my hysterectomy.

Our best sex was 2013 to 2017. We felt good, we were closer than ever due to bad extended family experiences. We had a few 3somes, enjoyed strip clubs and xxx movie theaters during travel.

2017 we had my best 3some and he couldn't handle it. Sex dried up, he mentally explored his bisexual, feminine side. The more he learned, the less aroused he got. Turning limp as he tried to enter me. I couldn't finish him. He only came in his own hand. 2020 we separated.

I have a decent sex-life now. Younger guys. Submission. FWB for almost 2 yrs., etc.
I miss the partnership, of the old sex life, but the sex itself is the best of my life.
 
I had old girlfriend that I still stroke to often wondering what she would be like now ! Back then she was awesome and adventurous loved to have sex and try new things !
Good lord. I have 4 ex-gf's I still stroke to. What does that make me???
 
I tried PIV once just to make sure. I can see the attraction but it wasn't me, so I had it chopped off. I can choose to have a lesbian or het relationship now, which is perfect. So 'No' I don't miss my old sex life :)
 
I tried PIV once just to make sure. I can see the attraction but it wasn't me, so I had it chopped off. I can choose to have a lesbian or het relationship now, which is perfect. So 'No' I don't miss my old sex life :)
The fact that you took time and considered your options is very important. That you mad a tough choice and have found happiness is all that is important. I am truly happy that you have a much happier and better sex life!
 
The fact that you took time and considered your options is very important. That you mad a tough choice and have found happiness is all that is important. I am truly happy that you have a much happier and better sex life!
Thanks, but for me there was no choice... and I'm still alive, so it turned out fine. Sex and orgasms afterward weren't guaranteed but a bonus. Happily enjoying that bonus :) 👍 😈
 
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