Serious advise

[Beks40]

Regret even posting here. Thanks for everyone's comments.

 

[Giftboy]

Well, for

I used to be quite involved in the BDSM lifestyle, I always thought I would try anything atleast once but now I'm suddenly divorced and I've lost complete interest in anything related to BDSM. Im not feeling like myself in many ways and it kind of freaks me out a bit because Im wondering how it's possible to change so drastically. Does anyone have any advise for me besides to give it time?

Well, for a start, you won't catch a bus if your not at the stop. Get yourself out there. Life’s too short. Get your best leather gear on, tart up your cock and balls. Get some cheap aftershave, like Hi Karate, on your skin. Get your arse in gear. Get down to the pub, mines is The Ratchet and Crank, if you're interested, find a tart or a Slut, and get into her pants. Your sure on a winner. That's how my Master wooed me. He walked up to me, when I was drinking with Senga McSporran, told her to “Fuck Off!” as he was wanting to rip my pants off where I stood. He bedazzled me with his patter and I dropped my pants and leaned over the pool table, awaiting his invasion of my puckered arse.

 

[Beks40]

Sounds like you already know the answer and just don’t like it.

Thats not really helpful but thanks for the reply

 

[Stewart_Pidd]

I used to be quite involved in the BDSM lifestyle, I always thought I would try anything atleast once but now I'm suddenly divorced and I've lost complete interest in anything related to BDSM. Im not feeling like myself in many ways and it kind of freaks me out a bit because Im wondering how it's possible to change so drastically. Does anyone have any advise for me besides to give it time?

Have you tried collecting stamp bro?

Stew

 

[Amy_K]

I used to be quite involved in the BDSM lifestyle, I always thought I would try anything atleast once but now I'm suddenly divorced and I've lost complete interest in anything related to BDSM. Im not feeling like myself in many ways and it kind of freaks me out a bit because Im wondering how it's possible to change so drastically. Does anyone have any advise for me besides to give it time?

Was BDSM his idea initially? That might explain your loss of interest. Maybe you weren't interested like you thought you were?

 

[Beks40]

It might actually be helpful if you were able to grow up enough to accept it. There isn’t always a quick, easy path to where you want to go. Welcome to the world.

Why be mean? What is the actual purpose? You don't know me or what I've been through so you have no right to judge me. I've been through stuff you you have no idea about.

 

[Noor]

Why be mean? What is the actual purpose? You don't know me or what I've been through so you have no right to judge me. I've been through stuff you you have no idea about.

Their always mean. I don’t know what they said exactly because I’ve blocked them, you might want to consider putting them on ignore.

In answer to your original post.
I found that what I like, within a relationship may not be the same as what I like, without being in that relationship. I remember after a break up I have a long-term relationship going to buy a table. I was standing there, testing the table to see how easily my ex could break it. If you put pressure diagonally on, it wouldn’t hurt the table? Same with chairs if you balanced on the 1 foot what would it do to the chair? This has been my reality for a good years, because I was in a relationship with a persons who destroyed furniture without even trying. So I was shopping for the new table and I suddenly had this ah ha moment that I could get any kind of table I wanted because he won’t be around to destroy it. I could even get one with dainty little Louis the 16th legs.
The point is that I was thinking about tables as the person I was within the relationship, but I didn’t need to out of it. And maybe that’s what you were doing with BDSM, or maybe BDSM would’ve offered you some thing that you needed to remain in the relationship and you don’t need it now Or possibly since the world is shyster at the moment, there are a lot of things you want to try and BDSM is not on the top of the list anymore