Humiliation or being embarrased

[chris313163]

Has any guy ever been in a situation, in the presence of their wife or girlfriend, where they should have been humiliated or embarrassed but actually enjoyed the experience? I'll start. Years ago when I was in my early 20's, I saw my girlfriend having sex with our apartment manager who was in his mid 70's. Watching the way she responded, the intense orgasm she had----I should have been angry, humiliated. For me, it was exciting to watch.

 

[Buffy47]

How did you catch them? Or did you know it was going to happen in advance? Why did your GF fuck the guy was it to reduce the rent?

 

[chris313163]

How did you catch them? Or did you know it was going to happen in advance? Why did your GF fuck the guy was it to reduce the rent?

Caught them totally by accident. Came home early and heard the obvious sounds of sex in the bedroom. When I peaked in I saw her bent over the bed taking the old guys cock in her pussy. He was in his mid-70's, scrawny but had a long, thick, uncut cock that my girlfriend was totally enjoying. At the moment I felt anger, and humiliation, but I also found myself getting aroused at the sight. Even though he was 50+years older than me, he was much more virile----never losing his erection as he satisfied my girlfriend multiple times----and this was years before Viagra was developed. My girlfriend would never give me oral sex, but she had no problem, and obviously enjoyed, sucking him. This is what I meant by being in a situation where I should have felt humiliated or embarrassed, but I actually enjoyed the experience.

 

[Buffy47]

Why do you think you wasn't humiliated? Was it because u wasn't meant to be watching and so not exactly cuckold just cheated on? Or was it because as a GF maybe wasn't enough true love to actually care

 

[threequel]

Not sure how similar it is, but an ex GF once confessed to me that she'd cheated on me with a guy in the same room as me at a party while I was crashed out. I remember the feelings of anger and jealousy etc, but all the energy was just manifesting as arousal at the thought of it!

 

[Mystories189]

Used my husband for foreplay then left and had sex woth someone else

 

[Buffy47]

Used my husband for foreplay then left and had sex woth someone else

Just out of curiosity but do u actually love your husband? I'm shocked at your posts and what you have said and I'm shocked lol

 

[Mystories189]

I do. But I like having fun too

 

[Buffy47]

I do. But I like having fun too

Lol OK

 

[nightowl75]

I had been trying to get my ex girlfriend back. We were still friends, but nothing else. I was visiting her at her workplace and talking about random stuff. Out of the blue, she begins talking about her first sexual partner and how he made her satisfied, so much so that she moaned during sex.This was at least 25 years after their time together. I believe she was subtly trying to make me jealous, but it had the opposite effect. I didn’t respond then, but wish I had played along. I never knew the guy, as it happened before we met.

 

[Buffy47]

I had been trying to get my ex girlfriend back. We were still friends, but nothing else. I was visiting her at her workplace and talking about random stuff. Out of the blue, she begins talking about her first sexual partner and how he made her satisfied, so much so that she moaned during sex.This was at least 25 years after their time together. I believe she was subtly trying to make me jealous, but it had the opposite effect. I didn’t respond then, but wish I had played along. I never knew the guy, as it happened before we met.

Play the same game and tell her that her Mom will always be your best fuck. That should give her something to moan about

 

[nightowl75]

Lol! Funny you mentioned her mom. I met her when my lady friend was actually married and separated from her husband for a time. Long story. But I posted a few days ago on another thread about how her mom walked in on her stroking me. She was staying at her parents’ house at the time.

 

[chris313163]

Why do you think you wasn't humiliated? Was it because u wasn't meant to be watching and so not exactly cuckold just cheated on? Or was it because as a GF maybe wasn't enough true love to actually care

Why do you think you wasn't humiliated? Was it because u wasn't meant to be watching and so not exactly cuckold just cheated on? Or was it because as a GF maybe wasn't enough true love to actually care

Probably all of the above. Hard to consider oneself being humiliated when they are aroused by watching what's going on. With her, it was a relationship based on liking each other; not love.

 

[chris313163]

Used my husband for foreplay then left and had sex woth someone else

Did he know? Did you tell the other person?

 

[Buffy47]

Probably all of the above. Hard to consider oneself being humiliated when they are aroused by watching what's going on. With her, it was a relationship based on liking each other; not love.

Liking and not love what ever that means these days could be a strong reason for why you felt way you did. Live porn is always going to be arousing even if angry about what is being watched, many people then use the angry to break the Horniness and confront the cheater instead of continuing to enjoy

 

[chris313163]

Liking and not love what ever that means these days could be a strong reason for why you felt way you did. Live porn is always going to be arousing even if angry about what is being watched, many people then use the angry to break the Horniness and confront the cheater instead of continuing to enjoy

There was a type of vicarious enjoyment seeing how she was satisfied. I was never angry. As you wrote, it was live porn. Also, had to give the old guy credit--had incredible virility.

 

[Buffy47]

There was a type of vicarious enjoyment seeing how she was satisfied. I was never angry. As you wrote, it was live porn. Also, had to give the old guy credit--had incredible virility.

Fair play to the Old Boy I hope he loved every moment. Shame you couldn't of gave him a high 5 at the end

 

[magicalmoments]

... so not exactly cuckold just cheated on? ...

A cuckold is a guy who is cheated on. They are not two different things.

 

[Buffy47]

A cuckold is a guy who is cheated on. They are not two different things.

I thought a cuckold watched

 

[magicalmoments]

I thought a cuckold watched

Some do, some don't. Some get off on being humiliated, some don't. A cuckold is a husband whose wife has cheated on him, with or without his consent.

 

[Buffy47]

Some do, some don't. Some get off on being humiliated, some don't. A cuckold is a husband whose wife has cheated on him, with or without his consent.

Thank you I appreciate the information I always thought of the usual man watches wife being fucked scene. I should of realised always more than one side to all kinks

 

[Ciceri]

I'd forgotten I had lingerie drying on a rack in my apartment when my girlfriend and I stopped by. No bra, just panties, thigh highs and a satin slip. I could not think quickly enough. I simply had to come clean. Totally embarrassing. I'd never said anything like that out loud: I'm a crossdresser

 

[Iwant2havefun]

I'd forgotten I had lingerie drying on a rack in my apartment when my girlfriend and I stopped by. No bra, just panties, thigh highs and a satin slip. I could not think quickly enough. I simply had to come clean. Totally embarrassing. I'd never said anything like that out loud: I'm a crossdresser

and? What happened next? What did she say?? we need to know!

 

[sazzyslut69]

Not a guy... but one of the hottest things I've ever experienced was being degraded in front of a few guys... I still think about it at times!

 

[Ciceri]

and? What happened next? What did she say?? we need to know!

She asked whose lingerie was drying in my apartment. I admitted the clothes were mine. She was just sure I was seeing someone else. I described ea item without looking and said I'd bought them - which was the truth. It was difficult to wear the panties in front of her. That was out of my comfort zone but I did a few times and she wasn't bothered by that. Felt good to grind against her wearing satin. We both wore satin and it felt awesome.