mollylonglegs2020
Literotica Guru
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OK, I had considered this settled, and thought there was no need to endlessly litigate it. Oh well.Ms. Longlegs, I doubt that I patronize you. I've already said you are one of the coolest chicks on this site. Yeah, I prefer a shaved mons, but so what? Beggars can't be choosy.
Please note that a communication can be received as patronizing or insulting even if you don't intend it that way. You don't think you patronized me with your comment, but in fact you did, and the proof of that is that I felt patronized. That's the measure of the thing.
Try turning it around. Suppose I say something insulting to you, calling you a racial slur for example. I don't get away from consequences by saying I didn't mean to insult because in this context, you're the person who decides if an offense has been given. The best thing for me to do is to apologise and try not to do it again. It would certainly be poor form for me to argue that there was no offense because I'm not qualified to say if you have been offended. Get it?
So once again I challenge you to get through a whole day without patronizing anyone. This will mean paying attention to the way people react to you, and not arguing with them or telling them anything. Especially not saying that you're not patronizing people when you quite clearly are continuing to do so.