What’s the most interesting thing you learned about your sexuality?

[CurtGiles46]

What’s the most interesting thing you learned about your sexuality?

For me, it was the strange shock of being more turned on sneaking around and messing in a woman’s underwear drawer than by having actual sexual contact with a woman.

Maybe it’s the taboo or the fear of getting caught, but there’s just something about getting into a woman’s lingerie drawer that is extremely arousing to me.

It’s a little scary knowing this about myself. I feel like it puts me into the dangerous criminal zone of peeping toms or public exhibitionists.

 

[Charlotte_Sin]

I learned that I get off the most on feeling cheap and dirty. My own physical orgasm isn't the main draw for me it's feeling like I am being totally depraved and slutty.

 

[Hitchiker69]

That I can arouse, enjoy, and satisfy another man.

 

[Justfantasies]

I have been polyamorous since losing my virginity

 

[PG564E]

That I desire to blow a man over fucking a sexy girl

 

[lil_jenni]

That I absolutely love seeing my Hubby fuck another woman, and that I'd love it if he came home and told he he had just done so before making me suck his cock...

 

[PG564E]

That I absolutely love seeing my Hubby fuck another woman, and that I'd love it if he came home and told he he had just done so before making me suck his cock...

Wow, that is so hot and very sexy!

 

[Jonjonjohnson]

That its ok to enjoy any sexual direction you wish, providing everyone involved is a consenting adult and no one is getting hurt. Sex is fun, so enjoy it with others who also enjoy it.

 

[Patsysub]

the most strange but i,m so proud about it,is when i could turn men on so much in my lingerie&high heels&skirt etc,getting nice comments from them i was so good giving head,sexier legs than the women they knew and that i let them cum with things they couldn,t get at home,and as a sissy what else can you ask for?

 

[RoanMtn]

I'd like to have sex with a transgender.

 

[magicalmoments]

The most interesting thing I learned was not what caused the greatest excitement, rather, it was the biggest disappointment on my journey of sexual discovery. I'd long held the fantasy of being part of an orgy. You know, the classic roomful of naked people all watching and being watched as they moved around the room switching partners and letting themselves go. Yet when I had the opportunity to participate in one it was an overwhelming disappointment to me to the extent that I couldn't get turned on. I'm OK with 3'sums, 4'sums, gangbangs, but an orgy just didn't do it. Ruined the fantasy forever.

 

[Britva415]

What's interesting to me is less what's commonly regarded as "our sexuality" or "my sexuality" in terms of preferences, kinks, identities, etc. I have these but I'm not that interested by the fact that I have them, the same way the fact that I have a dick just isn't that interesting. It's just there, it just is what is.

What's more interesting is what sex does to the body and what we can do sexually. Like - learning and practicing the skills of things like orgasmic control, no-hands arousal and escalation, prostate or nipple orgasms, ejaculation control, stuff like this.

Using sexual energy in a meditative application. Or meditative energy in a sexual application, whichever way you want to look at it.

Learning with a willing partner how to experience two nervous systems operating together as one. Awareness of their feelings in their body, feeling their awareness in mine. Using that energy and awareness to push and pull at each other's arousal.

Stuff like that. I suppose it could be regarded as kind of like sexual kung fu - in the broad sense, not in the martial-arts sense.

I'm keeping it brief here but if anyone's interested in more details of what's interesting about this kind of thing to me, I went on about one facet of this at length in a recent StoryIdeas thread where someone asked about hands-free orgasms for story research purposes.

 

[Wonderer67]

What's interesting to me is less what's commonly regarded as "our sexuality" or "my sexuality" in terms of preferences, kinks, identities, etc. I have these but I'm not that interested by the fact that I have them, the same way the fact that I have a dick just isn't that interesting. It's just there, it just is what is.

What's more interesting is what sex does to the body and what we can do sexually. Like - learning and practicing the skills of things like orgasmic control, no-hands arousal and escalation, prostate or nipple orgasms, ejaculation control, stuff like this.

Using sexual energy in a meditative application. Or meditative energy in a sexual application, whichever way you want to look at it.

Learning with a willing partner how to experience two nervous systems operating together as one. Awareness of their feelings in their body, feeling their awareness in mine. Using that energy and awareness to push and pull at each other's arousal.

Stuff like that. I suppose it could be regarded as kind of like sexual kung fu - in the broad sense, not in the martial-arts sense.

I'm keeping it brief here but if anyone's interested in more details of what's interesting about this kind of thing to me, I went on about one facet of this at length in a recent StoryIdeas thread where someone asked about hands-free orgasms for story research purposes.

Have to agree with what you said. There are so many ways to arouse oneself and also a partner. Sex has so many different facets. My wife and I have explored many things and in my time on the planet I’m sometimes surprised Ive felt new sensations. (Prostate play, nipple play, chastity, long edging sessions) just new and unique ways of pleasuring my wife and also myself…

I’ve also learned a lot about myself with respect to dominance and submission. Control, giving up control. I typically send message to my wife, but recently I have learned that I also like to take a dominant role. There’s something about control that I find fascinating in a sexual manner.

Lastly, sexual identity in a way. I’ve always considered myself hetero, whatever the last few years have had many bisexual fantasies. I haven’t gone there, faithfully married… but I would love to…

 

[Bisexguy70]

Ive learned that i love to be submissive and enjoy a more dominant man especially verbal. I start throbbing when i hear a guy say things like:
“thats it slut! Suck my big cock. You like that dick dont you!! Come on Bitch! Take it deep. “Lick those balls too whore!”


So i learned my auditory stimulation gets me off big time! I love guys who can express what their thinking and hearing them say it out loud gets me excited(the dirtier the better) . Its like those vibrations in the air stimulate my body.

 

[Twistedkink]

Not to let labels define you.

 

[falkor207]

That pleasure for pleasure's sake is ok and the myriad ways it can be experienced and given.

 

[Justfantasies]

That I love being in polyamorous and cuckolding relationships -- don't know why that is

 

[AppleCucumber]

I never imagined I would love to suck cock more than get mine sucked.
Later I learnt having my ass taken felt better than taking the ass of a hot girl.

 

[iago84]

I've realized I'm bi in the kart couple years. I had forgotten that I experimented as a kid. Then recently seeing guys suck other guys made me want them to suck me too.

 

[Mypssypls]

Figuring out how repressed I am in real life that if we lived in a world without disease, judgement and consequences that I would have sex with adults of all genders. Anywhere and anytime. With or without toys.
And how much I am into edging and being watched.

 

[iago84]

Figuring out how repressed I am in real life that if we lived in a world without disease, judgement and consequences that I would have sex with adults of all genders. Anywhere and anytime. With or without toys.
And how much I am into edging and being watched.

I feel that. I wish it wasn't an issue. I'd just fuck and eat most days.

 

[Katch123]

I thought my sex drive would decrease as I grew
older. Infact it's quite the opposite. Didn't see that coming.

 

[Katch123]

That I absolutely love seeing my Hubby fuck another woman, and that I'd love it if he came home and told he he had just done so before making me suck his cock...

Gotta love this Woman .

 

[StrongMaster7]

I've learned that as long as the woman is very passionate, very sexual, very forceful in her desire, I will enjoy pretty much anything she wants.

This includes doing things I might choose to do and not doing things I might want to do. But if she is driving, I'm along for the ride. It also includes being a sadist when she is a passionate, sexual, forceful masochist. My interest is directly proportional to her desire.

 

[gtnlynn]

Since I was so jealous of her dating other men in college, I was surprised to discover that I get totally turned on knowing she is being fucked dby another man or woman. I want to hear all about all of her sessions with others.