Who still makes out with their partner?

[ZfrkS62]

Been with my wife for 20 years come December, Married for 10 and a half. When we were dating, and long distance, we'd make out heavily when we were together. It was part of foreplay, which was never great from her if in honest.

I can't pinpoint when it happened, but she stopped French kissing me entirely, and barely kisses me at all really. Until this past November even the sex had evaporated, but side then that at least has come back in it's basic form.

She reasons that she wasn't raised in an affectionate household (1st gen Chinese American), and that we were dating and it was new so she was trying. It almost sounds like she thinks it's something you grow out of.

She's also cooled off on what was her kinky side and says she is fine being boring. We've gone opposite directions in the curiosity and passion department.

So, my question is, especially for those of you, let's say 35 and up in long marriages, who still regularly makes out with the partners

 

[fingerman075]

I'm not married but have been ya I know what you mean too. but I was never a nighttime fucker always daylight or off in the car . walking out in the malled she look at other guys. I got married too truck stop cashier I wasn't a trucker but reg there getting gas she was big and ugly just the kind I'd never have too fight too keep pH my wife dyed 6 years ago . I rember 3 years in stoped kissing. but still reg sex not the way you probably do it. I did oral on her reg. she was a divorcee. he quits after there second child like 18 years with out sex . he fuck her so fast never orgasmed when I came along I'd give her 10 or more in a row flooding the bed or floor

 

[Ched21]

Married for 12 years and together for over 20, still make out regularly at least twice a week

 

[live4thebj]

We haven’t truly kissed passionately in years. It’s usually she lays back and wants me to do my thing to get her aroused and then cum. Then after I get my BJ and fuck. In that order.

 

[tnhardon]

Been with my wife for 20 years come December, Married for 10 and a half. When we were dating, and long distance, we'd make out heavily when we were together. It was part of foreplay, which was never great from her if in honest.

I can't pinpoint when it happened, but she stopped French kissing me entirely, and barely kisses me at all really. Until this past November even the sex had evaporated, but side then that at least has come back in it's basic form.

She reasons that she wasn't raised in an affectionate household (1st gen Chinese American), and that we were dating and it was new so she was trying. It almost sounds like she thinks it's something you grow out of.

She's also cooled off on what was her kinky side and says she is fine being boring. We've gone opposite directions in the curiosity and passion department.

So, my question is, especially for those of you, let's say 35 and up in long marriages, who still regularly makes out with the partners

Been married for 8 and we don’t make out hardly ever, but we didn’t honestly much even before we got married.

I enjoy making out, but she’s never really seemed into it. I do have to say we don’t really have the time to make out anymore. Only time would be as foreplay, which again, she isn’t super into to start out with.

 

[Willywin]

All the time, mostly just playfully messing about, but it is a favourite thing of ours when my wife comes back from a date and she says she's too 'tender' for me to make love to her so we cuddle, make out, she promises the world to me and then the next day we do more than make out and I hold my wife her to her promises.

 

[13Fantasies]

Nope. Been years for passionate kissing and sex

 

[Easyvirtue]

We do at least once a week, we get naked and pretend we’re teenagers! LOL

 

[Dunes_et_Soleil]

We haven’t truly kissed passionately in years. It’s usually she lays back and wants me to do my thing to get her aroused and then cum. Then after I get my BJ and fuck. In that order.

Sounds very familiar to me, it had become almost ritualistic. For her, even the order is important and what seems to work for her, apparently doesn't work for me.
But this was about passionate kisses: I wouldn't call it 'making out', it's more a sign of affection, a simple kiss that is slightly drawn out.

 

[TandT69]

Oh fuck yes we make out! LOTS! Like teenagers!

https://www.***********/s/v7w6wn03xai325w/PXL_20230416_032222452.TS.mp4?dl=0

 

[canopy]

Been with my wife for 20 years come December, Married for 10 and a half. When we were dating, and long distance, we'd make out heavily when we were together. It was part of foreplay, which was never great from her if in honest.

I can't pinpoint when it happened, but she stopped French kissing me entirely, and barely kisses me at all really. Until this past November even the sex had evaporated, but side then that at least has come back in it's basic form.

She reasons that she wasn't raised in an affectionate household (1st gen Chinese American), and that we were dating and it was new so she was trying. It almost sounds like she thinks it's something you grow out of.

She's also cooled off on what was her kinky side and says she is fine being boring. We've gone opposite directions in the curiosity and passion department.

So, my question is, especially for those of you, let's say 35 and up in long marriages, who still regularly makes out with the partners

We're no where close to your 20 years of being together, but I makeout with my husband everyday. I have oral obsession so it's easier for me but I know he luvs it just as much. My kisses involve tongue even if it's a quick one. I luv tasting tongue. Bonus points if the guy makes it sloppy and drooling

 

[Rob_Royale]

Oh yes. After 32 years it's still fun to do. We've never accepted that it's okay for things to cool down. Sex isn't as frequent anymore, maybe twice a month, there's more to being intimate than that. We show each other that we are still "in" love as often as we can. Anywhere, anytime. To stop doing so is a choice people make at some point and it's a detriment to the relationship.
My wife and I have discussed this and we're on the same page. We will never be roommates. We are lovers. Period.

 

[ZfrkS62]

Oh yes. After 32 years it's still fun to do. We've never accepted that it's okay for things to cool down. Sex isn't as frequent anymore, maybe twice a month, there's more to being intimate than that. We show each other that we are still "in" love as often as we can. Anywhere, anytime. To stop doing so is a choice people make at some point and it's a detriment to the relationship.
My wife and I have discussed this and we're on the same page. We will never be roommates. We are lovers. Period.

Wish that was us.

These past couple of weeks though, something has really gotten into her and she's barely given me a break from sex. Still hasn't kissed me though.

 

[canopy]

Sex isn't as frequent anymore, maybe twice a month, there's more to being intimate than that. We show each other that we are still "in" love as often as we can. Anywhere, anytime.

Can't stress how much I agree with this

 

[StrongMaster7]

Yes and no.

After over 40 years together, we rarely kiss passionately any more. After a quick peck, my wife is just done with kissing. We used to kiss and hold each other for hours.

However, in our weekly (or every other weekly) 11 minutes of sex, more than half that time is devoted to me kissing and suckling her breasts, which arouses her very (too) quickly. She will sometimes hold her breast to my mouth and caress my head and even put a finger in my ear as I suckle like a baby, my cock becoming so hard it hurts. But once she has had enough of this, it's time to fuck (and 'get it over with').

I can't even imagine us spending as much as hour in bed together touching each other. Sad.

 

[Travler99921]

I guess it depends on how you define making out. Our early marital sex was mostly missionary. Over time that evolved into her on top and her controlling the action. She admitted that she enjoyed cunnilingus more than intercourse and I admitted my best orgasms came after she came from cunnilingus and she helped me masturbate.

Soon it became uncommon for us to to have penetrative sex, but our foreplay became very intense and intimate. Almost every time we both had orgasms. Often she would have multiple orgasms, and my orgasms were very intense.

 

[Conquen69]

Married 33 years, wife stopped a few years back. I miss it
I often think back to the one day I came home from work. We started making out as soon as I got in the door. She slid her hand into my pants and jerked me off, the whole time we never stopped making out. I blew a load right in my pants. That had to be 20 years ago.

 

[J_Bone]

Married 22 years and yes, still do and both love it. Not like we just make out and that's it except for the rare kiss that might briefly turn into a more open-mouth kiss. But it's always an integral part of our foreplay and often part of the main event depending on position. One of the best is more tantric sex with me sitting up on a sofa or in bed against the headboard with her straddling me. It's so erotic being inside of her, our hands free to roam and caress and our tongues dance and dart, sometimes teasing, other times almost fighting each other as the tension builds, sometimes sucking each other's tongue, etc. I've had partners in the past who weren't as into it, but my wife has always said that a wet, soft French kiss and the feeling of my tongue in her mouth never fails to make her instantly drenched, so it almost always leads to more. And there's no secret what it does for me!

Sucks that some of y'all no longer have it and can definitely see how you would miss it. Seems to be somewhat of a lost art IMO.

 

[luckyseven]

https://goodguy.cyou/c2/img/suzanne-winters-sex-gif.gifWe have been married for nearly forty years and still have sex; why wouldn't we?

No longer sexual athletes, but we can enjoy ourselves. When the mood takes us, we enjoy ourselves and can still do most of the things we used to, albeit a little slower!

 

[curiouschattycouple]

All the time. It starts with the good morning kiss, a grope at the coffee pot in the kitchen, a reach around while dressing, an ass slap on the way out the door, holding hands like teenagers all the time, maybe a grab her and set her on the counter while making supper, her grabbing my ass when I am fixing something, it's all day every day. We don't have sex every day, but we have some kind of makeout all the time.

 

[Goldenfinger]

We have need married almost 30 years and make out all the time.

 

[haventdonethat]

Not married but do have a steady GF. She lives a couple hours away so we see each other every week or so. Our time is spent fondling, feeling, groping, kissing (with tongues) and sex talk. Then we go to bed.
Our kisses are ten minute kisses or more. I lift the sheets off her so I can stare lustfully at her body, stroking everywhere before I lick her everywhere.
So, yes, I would say we make out.
And the sex! And the sex!
When she leaves to go home I am sometimes relieved.

 

[lickmehere]

So first off I am sorry for your situation. My wife and I have been together for over 32 years and married for 31. Not only do we still kiss and make out passionately, but we are committed to try new things sexually..we have recently been experimenting with some light BDSM stuff, collars, flogging, crops, even started having her use a strap-on on me. I always feel sad when I read or hear of couples who have stopped having fun and playing with each other. I hope you and your wife can refind your passion.

 

[NorthernBel]

My hubby is the less of the affectionate of the two of us. I think it was just what he was kind of brought up on as far as being a man, you didn't hold hands, make out and you got right to business. So sometimes I have to remind him he can slow down, play, explore and have fun a bit. The same kind of comes for making out as I love it.

 

[SmoothAndSweet]

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