Adult onset bisexuality

[Travler99921]

Herr is my story. What is yours?.

I was 50 when I first got the desire ro have sex with another man. I resisted i
the urge for several years. Finally I could no longer resist. I came out to my wife before my first time. After many discussions she helped be clarify that my primary interest was in sucking cocks. She was OK with that and was even a bit excited about it.

We found out neither of us were really all that happy with penis in vagina sex. She wanted more cunnilingus and then wanted to help me masturbate or just watch me masturbate. I was OK with that.

Within a month I sucked cock for the first time. It was better than I expected. My homosexuality did not replace my heterosexuality. It was an addon.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

You are a very lucky man. When I told my wife, she went berserk. Well, she definitely wasn't happy about it. Took quite a while to get our marriage back on track.

 

[J1biboi]

You are a very lucky man. When I told my wife, she went berserk. Well, she definitely wasn't happy about it. Took quite a while to get our marriage back on track.

I can imagine.

 

[ChrissyCD64]

Back a few years ago my wife helped several of her girlfriends who were in their 40's and 50's turn their husbands bi so they could be my lovers. It was a natural thing for her since her grandpa (her mom's dad) had turned to men for sex after her grandma cut him off, and he had turned her dad bi after her mom married him.

 

[IARainman]

Back a few years ago my wife helped several of her girlfriends who were in their 40's and 50's turn their husbands bi so they could be my lovers. It was a natural thing for her since her grandpa (her mom's dad) had turned to men for sex after her grandma cut him off, and he had turned her dad bi after her mom married him.

Lots of info in that short post. How did your wife know these things about them?

 

[ChrissyCD64]

Lots of info in that short post. How did your wife know these things about them?

About her girlfriends husbands? She brought them home to play and they saw me dressed in sexy lingerie or a baby-doll and said they wished their husbands would dress like that so she helped convert them. As far as her grandpa and her dad, how would she not know having grown up around them and seeing them with their friends.

 

[FeelingLikeMyself]

Back a few years ago my wife helped several of her girlfriends who were in their 40's and 50's turn their husbands bi so they could be my lovers. It was a natural thing for her since her grandpa (her mom's dad) had turned to men for sex after her grandma cut him off, and he had turned her dad bi after her mom married him.

Your wife and in laws sound wild. You're a lucky guy. I bet you guys are fun to play with.

 

[Escierto]

About her girlfriends husbands? She brought them home to play and they saw me dressed in sexy lingerie or a baby-doll and said they wished their husbands would dress like that so she helped convert them. As far as her grandpa and her dad, how would she not know having grown up around them and seeing them with their friends.

They must have been quite open about their relationships. A lot of people might have done the same thing but on the DL.

 

[IARainman]

About her girlfriends husbands? She brought them home to play and they saw me dressed in sexy lingerie or a baby-doll and said they wished their husbands would dress like that so she helped convert them. As far as her grandpa and her dad, how would she not know having grown up around them and seeing them with their friends.

Makes my head swirl

 

[richdon03]

It was a "bucket list" thing for me. I didn't want to be curious anymore. The availability of male sex was a bit jarring and (for a few weeks) unbelievably intoxicating. It is also kind of dangerous. After body #4 (in about the same number of weeks - two in the same weekend, the other two in the same week - and one of the most exhilarating experiences of my life (with someone less than 1/3 my age, who is anxious to meet up again), I brought it all to a screeching halt, until I can work out how I will experience this new-found liberation safely and responsibly. I found that really young men like thick ebony "daddy" cock. So do the older ones.

Not everyone is careful and so many crave cock so much that they'll do it anywhere and any time. I'm rather happy I never experienced this, when I was younger.

 

[ChrissyCD64]

Your wife and in laws sound wild. You're a lucky guy. I bet you guys are fun to play with.

I didn't mention that my wife's dad introduced me to him after I gave him a blow job under the table at my dad's poker party where I was serving as hostess in a sexy mini-dress. He said that she didn't like boys but thought she might like me since we both like to dress the same way. He was right, we hit it off immediately and were married a couple months later.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

It's not at all uncommon. I think as a guy ages he becomes a bit more open minded, or just doesn't care what others think as much as he did when he was younger. Or, the desire just becomes overwhelming after years of repression.

I've been with several middle aged guys that just figured out it was easier to have sex with other guys. Slutty bottoms like me are always willing to suck or fuck, we take little effort and we are zero drama. We will get you off, then leave.

 

[Crios]

For me, it was a realization brought on by exposure to many different sexualities and cultures over the years. Realized when I was younger (and, sad to say, homophobic) that I was hurting not only others but also hurting myself. My wife is unaware of this and, as a very "traditional" person, she would never understand or accept my new "outlook." She's not homophobic...she just fell in love with a married a man (me) that she fully expected a heterosexual, monogamous lifetime with. Bisexuality of any kind doesn't do anything for her.

 

[richdon03]

For me, it was a realization brought on by exposure to many different sexualities and cultures over the years. Realized when I was younger (and, sad to say, homophobic) that I was hurting not only others but also hurting myself. My wife is unaware of this and, as a very "traditional" person, she would never understand or accept my new "outlook." She's not homophobic...she just fell in love with a married a man (me) that she fully expected a heterosexual, monogamous lifetime with. Bisexuality of any kind doesn't do anything for her.

I went through something of an evolution, too. I didn't speak to my first gay brother (I have two) for 20 years, because I "just couldn't agree" with his lifestyle. . . like I had any dog in that hunt, in the first place. It was about a 40-year process, for me.

 

[storypost603]

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Several years back I started to have a lot of thoughts and my past. I started to crossdress when I could till i finally told my wife about it. I just told her I had something to show her and went and got dressed up and walked out. She took it very well and encouraged it. as time went on i got her to pegged me and that went great. I showed her stories i had wrote about sex. I know she knows I really want to suck a guy and have anal sex with a guy but that has not been talked about yet.

 

[Crios]

Edited by moderator. Several years back I started to have a lot of thoughts and my past. I started to crossdress when I could till i finally told my wife about it. I just told her I had something to show her and went and got dressed up and walked out. She took it very well and encouraged it. as time went on i got her to pegged me and that went great. I showed her stories i had wrote about sex. I know she knows I really want to suck a guy and have anal sex with a guy but that has not been talked about yet.

That's a great story! I love to wear women's underwear but the missus would never understand that. She does peg me though

 

[Wag_that_tail86]

The desire is certainly strong, I wish I had the actual experience to match. It's taken me some time, too long perhaps, to be more open and accepting about life, love and my own sexuality. I'm ok with the fact that maybe I'm not (or no longer) straight. It's also comforting to know that there are so many others with the same questions.

 

[la_ruche]

Started for me at 23 while doing military service.
Before I considered myself gay but for service (15 months) I hired my female cousin (she knew I was gay) as a “GF”. She picked me up at barracks, we smooched in public, she wrote hot letters and sent me pictures (this is late 90s) to keep in my pocket and show my room-mates. All for the sake of being straight. But she was very flirty with my room-mates and seeing how she affected them I started nursing the idea of being attracted by girls.

After service I studied at the university but the gay community there was too outspoken and flamboyant and I couldn’t relate or take part. So I started dating what could be call tomboys instead. Settled for the sportier type (soccer and floorball) and spent my university years flipping between guys and girls that attracted me.

 

[Oshkosh60]

I was straight as could be, mainly because liking men was not a good option when I was growing up. However, in my mid thirties, I was going through a period with my crossdressing (long time wearer of panties and other undergarments) where I just had to show someone that I wore them. This led to trips to an ABS. At first I would just let them see me and I would jack off. Then one day, I let an older man suck me....followed by another, and another and another......still felt shameful about it. Love women, everything about them. Can't look at a guy and say, "Man, I'd like to be in bed with him." But three years ago, at age sixty, I thought of being with another man. First, letting him suck me, then perhaps making the man wear panties when he sucked me.....then the fantasies turned to sucking him and maybe fucking him. All these fantasy partners were older men. Then I met a younger mid-twenties couple who were a bit kinky....so I started fantasizing about them (they later broke up). But yeah, I have the fear of STD's. If I didn't, I would find a cock to suck tomorrow. But I am always looking and wondering. (Yeah, ran into an older man last week. Hope to run into him again and see if I can detect a vibe.)

 

[bijedi]

One day my wife told me she really gets turned on by the thought of sharing a cock with me. One thing leads to another and soon I am on my back with another man's cock in my ass, moaning in ecstasy while watching them kiss passionately.

 

[stiv837]

As I have gotten older I find myself becoming more interested in sucking cock . It's almost becoming an obsession and I am doing my best to not go to a local adult boutique and try to find someone. My wife doesn't have a clue of my desire and I hope to keep it that way.

 

[KinkStevens]

Herr is my story. What is yours?.

I was 50 when I first got the desire ro have sex with another man. I resisted i
the urge for several years. Finally I could no longer resist. I came out to my wife before my first time. After many discussions she helped be clarify that my primary interest was in sucking cocks. She was OK with that and was even a bit excited about it.

We found out neither of us were really all that happy with penis in vagina sex. She wanted more cunnilingus and then wanted to help me masturbate or just watch me masturbate. I was OK with that.

Within a month I sucked cock for the first time. It was better than I expected. My homosexuality did not replace my heterosexuality. It was an addon.

I’m equally a misogynist and sissy faggot. I have 80% more experience w women, but love tranny sex and dressing. Go figure

 

[haventdonethat]

I had the desire for years and never acted on it. Partially because of the stigma of being called out, partially because there wasn’t anyone that I thought would reciprocate.
I had more than my share of circle jerks that were strictly no touching anyone else. But then one friend and I started jerking each other. I would have done more but he wouldn’t.
Never sucked a cock until 30 or so and then it was a woman who nudged me.
A good jerk off / suck off buddy would be great in my life now but I’m not looking. GF is a hard no and I will not take a chance on losing her.

I say I am not looking but I am fantasizing

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Same here. If my wife found out, that would be that. So I fantasise too.

 

[ibz1320]

I’m 42 with every year that passes I fantasise about sucking cock more and more it’s the only thing that gets me hard.