Embarrassment Orgasm

[eroticspank]

When it happens to me it involves ejaculation. I don’t see how it’s not an orgasm.

I think because it is spontaneous and happens quickly. You see and feel the ejaculation but there is minimal pleasure, it is more like a release of tension. Great thread! I like all the different views on this.
ES

 

[eroticspank]

I was thankful for this thread because it did give me a chance to relate an experience of mine and lets face it, this is about the only place one could 'talk' about it. I think it is indeed rare to have a spontaneous orgasm....and I can vouch that it is a thing. Mine was not caused by embarrassment and there was very minimal contact, as our bodies barely touched. There was an older woman who I had been very attracted to for years. We flirted a great deal. Sometimes I would even give her a shoulder massage and she was kind (or unkind) enough to press her derriere into me. It was an erotic dance I guess you could say that went on for years. Then one day, we were in her basement together and I bent my head forward and kissed her gently on her lips. Bingo! I didn't even know what was happening. I actually thought for a second that I might have wet myself. Then a moment later, I was even more mortified to realize I had ejaculated. No contact, only the lips and I was not 18 years old.....I was forty. I flushed and stammered and was just standing there absolutely perplexed. So can it happen.....yep. But I do think it is very rare and let's face it, most men would never want it to be known that they were so keyed up that they lost it in the pants before even getting started.

This^ is a great description and proves that it can happen at any age, 18, 40, or older. It was a build-up of sexual tension over the years that led to spontaneous ejaculation. There are so many things happening you don't realize what is going on until after it happens.
ES

 

[CurtGiles46]

I have another weird one that fits into this category.

I’m not proud of this, but one time I was at my aunt’s house and I opened her lingerie drawer while she was downstairs. I just looked at the lingerie moving it around with my hands.

I think it was a sensory overload: the nice smell of the clean lingerie, the shock of realizing what I was doing, the risk of getting caught, how the sexiness of each component of lingerie was triggering me: bras, panties, pantyhose, half-slips. How soft the lingerie felt against my hands and fingers.

I was still sitting in front of the lingerie drawer when I had a sudden feeling in my penis and testicles that I was about to cum. I immediately knew I had to disengage from the situation by closing my aunt’s lingerie drawer and leaving the room.

But if I had touched that lingerie for another minute I would have surely cum.

 

[Gbeard11]

Wow. I never experienced this, but I think I've had feelings close to it. I can believe that this happens to some people

 

[CurtGiles46]

Wow. I never experienced this, but I think I've had feelings close to it. I can believe that this happens to some people

I researched this issue and found psychology/medical journal articles on it as far back as 1951.

For a lot of people, the sensation starts with a nervous feeling in the groin which feels like needing to pee and if the embarrassment or anxiety continues long enough, it results in orgasm.

What’s really interesting is how it impacts both men and women equally.

 

[ImiGirrst]

I think I'm with you on this. I have experienced spontaneous ejaculations many times, but would not refer to that as an orgasm.

Greetings, my dear friend. Long time no see. I hope you are well.

 

[Stromer]

I think I'm with you on this. I have experienced spontaneous ejaculations many times, but would not refer to that as an orgasm.

When it happens to me it involves ejaculation. I don’t see how it’s not an orgasm.

I've never had a stress/anxiety orgasm, but I have had a few spontaneous ejaculations without an orgasm. Every time it happened was from some visual stimuli that instantly turned me on (first pantiless upskirt and braless downblouses). I felt a little tingle in my groin, totally different from an orgasm, and then a little surge of fluid into my pants. It was never even close to the amount of a regular orgasm and had the consistency and color of precum rather then the seman from an orgasm.
Definitely not a "Oh F*ck I'm cumming" moment , but there was some sensation and a little ejaculation of seminal fluids.

 

[petes478]

I've never had a stress/anxiety orgasm, but I have had a few spontaneous ejaculations without an orgasm. Every time it happened was from some visual stimuli that instantly turned me on (first pantiless upskirt and braless downblouses). I felt a little tingle in my groin, totally different from an orgasm, and then a little surge of fluid into my pants. It was never even close to the amount of a regular orgasm and had the consistency and color of precum rather then the seman from an orgasm.
Definitely not a "Oh F*ck I'm cumming" moment , but there was some sensation and a little ejaculation of seminal fluids.

I have had this happen.

 

[magicalmoments]

Interesting story, but what a stupid ariline. Making 200 customers angry in order to please one makes no sense at all.

Think it through. What if he had an IED in his checked in baggage and then not boarded the plane. If he hadn't been found they would have unloaded all the baggage to find his and remove it. I for one, am happy to have these security checks in place.

 

[littlecordelera]

Think it through. What if he had an IED in his checked in baggage and then not boarded the plane. If he hadn't been found they would have unloaded all the baggage to find his and remove it. I for one, am happy to have these security checks in place.

I don't really understand what you're trying to say, but it doesn't really matter. I didn't want to call out the OP in my initial reply, but I'm with Bongogal. I don't buy the whole story. Too much of it does not make sense.

 

[Ingenue844]

I have not actually orgasmed but have been very, very close to it just from arguments or any heightened emotional state.

 

[Paradox]

I've never had a stress/anxiety orgasm, but I have had a few spontaneous ejaculations without an orgasm. Every time it happened was from some visual stimuli that instantly turned me on (first pantiless upskirt and braless downblouses). I felt a little tingle in my groin, totally different from an orgasm, and then a little surge of fluid into my pants. It was never even close to the amount of a regular orgasm and had the consistency and color of precum rather then the seman from an orgasm.
Definitely not a "Oh F*ck I'm cumming" moment , but there was some sensation and a little ejaculation of seminal fluids.

That has been my experience, too.

 

[bijedi]

I have not experienced this, but I have experienced it's close cousin the coregasm, otherwise known as exercise-induced orgasm. I can see someone who has high anxiety, or embarrasses easily have this happen to them. I know I have read some stories on here in E&V where this happens.

 

[NancyPan]

I have had 3 spontaneous orgasms in my life, all surprised me, all from intense sexual arousal with no touching (first when I was 13, again when I was 16, not again until I was over 40). The last was solely from an erotically humiliating comment made to me by an attractive woman. And to those who doubt that these ejaculations were orgasms … each one was one of the most impactful sexual experiences of my life and greatly influenced my fetishes.

 

[CurtGiles46]

I have had 3 spontaneous orgasms in my life, all surprised me, all from intense sexual arousal with no touching (first when I was 13, again when I was 16, not again until I was over 40). The last was solely from an erotically humiliating comment made to me by an attractive woman. And to those who doubt that these ejaculations were orgasms … each one was one of the most impactful sexual experiences of my life and greatly influenced my fetishes.

What humiliating comment did the attractive woman say to you?

 

[NancyPan]

What humiliating comment did the attractive woman say to you?

The comment must be understood in the contest of the situation and setting in which it was made. It is a long story, and I am going to refrain from explaining it. The first two are more simple: The first time I put on a pair of women’s panties (my mother’s) and looked at myself in the mirror, I spurted. The first time I smelled pussy (put my nose in my girlfriend’s crotch), I came in my pants.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

Used to go to a church retreat In Tennessee In the summer for a couple or three years when I was young. Was sitting beside a long legged blond who I had the hots for. She knew it and toyed with me like a cat bats a mouse. Well it was missionary night and all the people were giving speeches and boring us to tears.

Thats when she and I start playing grab ass. We‘re sitting beside each other and you couldn’t have slipped the church bulletin between us. We start playing patty fingers and rubbing legs and my dick was ready to cut diamonds! I’m thinking we’re going to get out of church and find a quiet place to swap some spit. It was a night service.

As this went on, my virginal brain is going into overload and without her touching my crotch at least, I blew my load!
I was mortified! Not only did I lose it, I had to walk out of that place with hundreds of people looking at my crotch! What kind of pervert gets off in church!?

I‘m not sure how I got out of there but believe it or not I made it out and dashed back to the dorms unnoticed. I didn’t get no luv’n from my girl, I missed the big Ice cream bash, but I made it out with half my dignity intact!

Pretty sure I’m going to burn in the fiery flames for perving in church! !

 

[eroticspank]

Some great posts on here lately. I really believe our biggest sex organ is our mind. This is true for both women and men but we are talking about men mainly in this thread. @HumpDayHoratio that post reminds me of a scene that happened to me years ago. However, I didn't realize that some people might think I made a mistake pulling up my pants too early in the men's bathroom. I was thinking everyone would know I came in my pants but when not many people noticed or were shocked, I slipped home without a word. I had a lot of embarrassing thoughts and worries in my head to no avail.

I really believe that there are some times we are brought to orgasm with stimulation of the mind. If done correctly, it is your mind that brings you over the threshold. My theory is men are not typically used to being erotic stimulated over a period of time. Some of it is physical but a great portion of the stimulation is mental. This kind of stimulation is foreign or unusual and causes us to feel things we have not felt before or maybe in a different way. You don't feel the build-up to orgasm and before you realize it, your orgasm happens. It can happen at any age, but typically it happens when you are much younger and not aware of it.

That is why the first time smelling pussy or putting on a pair of panties(your mother's) @NancyPan would cause your eruption. I think it is all the thoughts going through your head at once.

ES

 

[CurtGiles46]

Some great posts on here lately. I really believe our biggest sex organ is our mind. This is true for both women and men but we are talking about men mainly in this thread. @HumpDayHoratio that post reminds me of a scene that happened to me years ago. However, I didn't realize that some people might think I made a mistake pulling up my pants too early in the men's bathroom. I was thinking everyone would know I came in my pants but when not many people noticed or were shocked, I slipped home without a word. I had a lot of embarrassing thoughts and worries in my head to no avail.

I really believe that there are some times we are brought to orgasm with stimulation of the mind. If done correctly, it is your mind that brings you over the threshold. My theory is men are not typically used to being erotic stimulated over a period of time. Some of it is physical but a great portion of the stimulation is mental. This kind of stimulation is foreign or unusual and causes us to feel things we have not felt before or maybe in a different way. You don't feel the build-up to orgasm and before you realize it, your orgasm happens. It can happen at any age, but typically it happens when you are much younger and not aware of it.

That is why the first time smelling pussy or putting on a pair of panties(your mother's) @NancyPan would cause your eruption. I think it is all the thoughts going through your head at once.

ES

I think that generally the males who have these sudden orgasm experiences will have already had the same situations in dreams. I had a dream where just touching the fabric of a black bra in a lingerie store gave me an orgasm.

 

[NancyPan]

I think that generally the males who have these sudden orgasm experiences will have already had the same situations in dreams. I had a dream where just touching the fabric of a black bra in a lingerie store gave me an orgasm.

It was a long, long time ago, but I doubt that dreams have anything to do with it — nighttime dreams anyway. I am sure that I had daydreamed many times about slipping on a pair of my mom’s panties before I did it. I know I daydreamed about pussy (constantly) before I had the opportunity to actually in reality smell a real live pussy.

Thing is: Now, I remain vey much “addicted” to panties (wear 24/7), and pussy worship (love the scent and taste). Question is: Did those early experiences influence my fetishes or were those triggers already “pre-loaded” thus producing the spontaneous orgasms?

 

[eroticspank]

Thing is: Now, I remain vey much “addicted” to panties (wear 24/7), and pussy worship (love the scent and taste). Question is: Did those early experiences influence my fetishes or were those triggers already “pre-loaded” thus producing the spontaneous orgasms?

I would say your addiction is related to your earlier experiences and the spontaneous orgasms for sure. I am not sure about your pre-loaded comment. I do think your mind records everything you experience and do. They may have been things in your past that were erotic and triggered your interest in lingerie and panties.
ES

 

[Goldenfinger]

I’ve never been so embarrassed that I had an orgasm. But my first 3sum was very exciting. Very exciting, and That was kinda embarrassing.

 

[CurtGiles46]

I think people are getting confused here, there’s a difference between a spontaneous anxiety/embarrassment orgasm and a sudden “oh my God that’s too arousing” orgasm.

 

[CuttingEdge]

Interesting story, but what a stupid ariline. Making 200 customers angry in order to please one makes no sense at all.

Oh no, this happens all the time!

I have a different job now, but at one time I was flown to emergency situations. My secretary would make the flight literally an hour before the plane was to take off, and I was to be on it!

More importantly, I WOULD be on it.

They delay the plane because my tickets were the equivalent of 20 regular fares and I most likely was booting someone else off. You hear it all the time when they say they are in a "oversold situation". It is people like me who cause that. They look for volunteers because the extra money they pay for that low priced fare, even with a thrown in perk or two is NOTHING compared to what my company was paying. But I HAD to be there and the cost was justified. Because it happened so often, this was not just a $4000 ticket to the airline, this was a company who routinely paid $4000 a ticket.

I was just surprised he went to the back of the plane. I always flew first class and the glowering look of hatred was especially acute because passengers thought I was some rich big shot, but I was not. I literally had to be where I was going as fast as I could.

 

[GoingBackToBed]

I don't buy this. I know that it is not at all uncommon for young guys to get hard in odd situations, but I have to think that guys just don't have unexpected or spontaneous orgasms. No erection, no sexual stimulation...they just have an orgasm? I'm pretty sure that if that were an even vaguely common thing to have happen, it would be general knowledge. Everyone has heard about wet dreams and sprouting boners while giving an oral report. But just having an orgasm out of the blue? Nope.

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