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My wife and I share the passwords and pin numbers on our e-mail accounts and cellphones to assure each other there are no secrets between us. It's the secrets which break the trust in a marriage. My wife always has my permission to go through my cellphone. And regardless of what some others might think, I will lose trust in her if she ever forbids me from looking at her's.Late last year after a night out with friends, my wife was extremely drunk, and quickly passed out, leaving her phone downstairs. My wife is a shy, conservative mom of 3 in her late 30s, and although she's a beautiful, naturally thin 5'10 brunette with long legs and amazingly big and perky boobs, she has never given me any reason to suspect her of cheating. Yet, just because I wonder how any guy who meets my wife wouldn't be interested in her because of her beauty, and I've always been curious about what she might be up to when she has time on her own (which isn't often), every once in a while I take a quick peak at her phone and email. Over my 11+ years with her, I had never seen anything remotely scandalous. However, my mind was about to be completely blown.
As I scrolled through a few of her photo albums on her phone, I thought I would check the deleted items folder before I went to bed. There were a few items there, and just as I was about to close her phone and go to bed, I noticed there were two videos. Before I could really process what I was looking at, up pops a video of my wife in a bra and underwear...and over the next few minutes, she proceeds to take off her bra, squeezing her large tits together, sucking on one of her nipples, and moaning...And the next video went a step further, with my wife standing there topless, with one hand down her pants masturbating, and the other squeezing her tit, moaning loudly with pleasure. It was almost an out of body experience for me - I felt like I was just looking at some random hot internet slut on a porn site who was performing for the camera - I couldn't believe this was actually my wife!
During those 20 minutes of watching the videos over and over again, and zooming in on every little detail, I experienced a range of emotions. I had so many questions swirling through my head. Part of me was incredibly upset, as she clearly did not film these videos for me, and I had no idea who she had sent them to, but the other part of me was incredibly turned on, despite my shock, as I saw my wife in a state of unfiltered pleasure that I rarely, if ever, have seen in our relationship. I found it impossible to sleep that night as I lay awake replaying my moaning, naked wife.
I did not say anything to my wife, and instead, I spent the next month digging through her email, social media, and text messages. It took me a while, but eventually. I was able to piece it all together. She had started to go to a local gym with a few of her friends two years before, and her friends became very friendly with the trainers who worked at the gym. One of the trainers clearly took a liking to my wife, and through my research, I was able to see the progression from him simply being her trainer, to beginning to complement her on her workout gains, to encouraging her to show off and "only wear spandex" to their sessions, to telling her that all the trainers talk about how hot she is, to eventually being bolder, and asking her about her intimate details with me, and how jealous he was of me in that regard.
At first, she seemed reluctant to participate in his banter, but the trainer was persistent over many months, as he attempted to disarm her with little flirty comments here and there, until she started to play along. My wife is naturally a shy and submissive type, and given the relationship in which he got to tell her what to do in their gym sessions, it was an easy transition for him to take on a similar presence as he pushed her to do other things for him, even if she resisted at first. It was clear that she often felt conflicted...she would make comments that she didn't feel like what she was doing was appropriate, but then it was also clear that she enjoyed receiving some extra attention that stay at home moms often do not receive.
The trainer kept pushing, and he told my wife that he was going to have a hard time resisting her for much longer. She made it clear that she wasn't going to sleep with him, despite his many advances, so he pushed her to send him sexy photos/videos of her, and he wouldn't take no for an answer. She kept brushing him off, but a few days before his birthday, he boldly asked if my wife would give him a special present, a video of her rubbing those big tits, and one of her pleasuring herself "thinking of all the nasty things he would do to her hot body." This time, she said she would think about it, and with a little more pushing from the trainer, she sent it to him.
It was clear that she was also very turned on in the videos, and he was clearly starting to have success in getting her to open up more. For the next several weeks, I found many messages between the two of them. He would mostly talk graphically about how hard he would bang her, how she "had the body of a porn star," and it was his goal to turn her into the "big titty milf slut that we all wanted her to be." It appears that she sent a few more photos and videos of herself, but they had been deleted before I could see them myself. Not surprisingly, he had also become more brazen during their sessions, referencing in messages that he enjoyed copping frequent feels when he was with her, and how much more fun their sessions were now that he could train her "hands on." She had never tried anal sex before or even expressed an interest, but he convinced her it would be hot to try this with him, and she even bought a butt plug, which he said she should start using to get ready for him....and sure enough, I found it in the closet, although still unopened in the box.
Just when it seemed that the situation was about to turn into a torrid physical affair, my wife started to have second thoughts on day when the trainer asked my wife to come back to his office after a training session, and tried to have intercourse with her there. She said that she felt too guilty to continue with him, and that he needed to back off. The trainer clearly thought this was just a moment of guilt, and she would change her mind, and he tried on numerous occasions over the next few months to sext, get nude photos, etc, but my wife held firm. She eventually left the gym and the trainer stopped bothering her.
Once I had gathered all of the evidence, I confronted my wife about it. I told her that I was upset, but I understood why she did it, and that part of me was turned on by how much it had aroused her. She felt embarrassed and guilty, and said she felt it was a huge mistake, but it was something she decided to try because things had gotten a bit stale in our relationship, and this was excitement that she hadn't felt in a while. Since then, she has told me on several occasions that she never wants to do this kind of thing again, but I continue to be turned on by what happened.
I'm curious what others think, and how they would feel if they were in my position? Feel free to message me if you want to discuss further!
100% agree with you.I will come at this from a woman's perspective, this stuff happens and it is a big ego boost to realize that someone other than your husband would like to have sex with you. Quite frankly I think most women would benefit from the occasional attention of another man. And yes it might well lead to her having sex which might also be good for her. It can also be good for the husband as a little self confidence and maybe a little guilt might cause her to be a bit more accommodating with you. To be upfront, I am not a fan of monogamy. I do not think it is natural for humans. I do not mean that she should be out every night screwing every man in sight but a discrete hookup a couple times a year could be really good for her.
Now my big hang up would be having someone go through my phone without my permission. That would be a major red flag for me. Now if you were to ask me, I would probably show you what I have been up to and we could discuss it.
Allow?????????? Your wife is not your property! Secrets sometimes help a marriage!My wife and I share the passwords and pin numbers on our e-mail accounts and cellphones to assure each other there are no secrets between us. It's the secrets which break the trust in a marriage. My wife always has my permission to go through my cellphone. And regardless of what some others might think, I will lose trust in her if she ever forbids me from looking at her's.
If you find your spouse has kept a secret from you, how many other secrets have you not found?
My wife knows that if she ever wants to fuck another guy, all she need do is to tell me about it, and I'd be okay with it. I would have no problems with her doing it. But she knows I won't allow double standards, and if she does it with another guy, I WILL fuck some other woman. That's the reason she'll never do it.
Wow, so quick to judge.Allow?????????? Your wife is not your property! Secrets sometimes help a marriage!
Yep, I know a lady that won't leave her husband because of the lifestyle he affords her. She's afraid to give up the AmExp Black Card and other accruements of the lavish lifestyle that she lives.I have a very hot girlfriend who has a husband that is too busy with is career to fuck her more than twice a month. She is 50 but looks 35 and has had three affairs, one that he found out about. He promised to change and be there for her but soon, he went back to his habit of working too long and not being there for her sexually. So now she has another guy about 30, who is unmarried and just loves fucking her and she loves it too. Men, you don't cater to your lady you are in trouble. They will either leave you or fuck around with someone that is only looking for sex. And as long as you keep paying the bills and providing a nice lifestyle, they will stick around so you have some "arm candy" but their heart and body are elsewhere.
Read my latest story "A Hard Lesson."Allow?????????? Your wife is not your property! Secrets sometimes help a marriage!
Your posts title is misleading.Late last year after a night out with friends, my wife was extremely drunk, and quickly passed out, leaving her phone downstairs. My wife is a shy, conservative mom of 3 in her late 30s, and although she's a beautiful, naturally thin 5'10 brunette with long legs and amazingly big and perky boobs, she has never given me any reason to suspect her of cheating. Yet, just because I wonder how any guy who meets my wife wouldn't be interested in her because of her beauty, and I've always been curious about what she might be up to when she has time on her own (which isn't often), every once in a while I take a quick peak at her phone and email. Over my 11+ years with her, I had never seen anything remotely scandalous. However, my mind was about to be completely blown.
As I scrolled through a few of her photo albums on her phone, I thought I would check the deleted items folder before I went to bed. There were a few items there, and just as I was about to close her phone and go to bed, I noticed there were two videos. Before I could really process what I was looking at, up pops a video of my wife in a bra and underwear...and over the next few minutes, she proceeds to take off her bra, squeezing her large tits together, sucking on one of her nipples, and moaning...And the next video went a step further, with my wife standing there topless, with one hand down her pants masturbating, and the other squeezing her tit, moaning loudly with pleasure. It was almost an out of body experience for me - I felt like I was just looking at some random hot internet slut on a porn site who was performing for the camera - I couldn't believe this was actually my wife!
During those 20 minutes of watching the videos over and over again, and zooming in on every little detail, I experienced a range of emotions. I had so many questions swirling through my head. Part of me was incredibly upset, as she clearly did not film these videos for me, and I had no idea who she had sent them to, but the other part of me was incredibly turned on, despite my shock, as I saw my wife in a state of unfiltered pleasure that I rarely, if ever, have seen in our relationship. I found it impossible to sleep that night as I lay awake replaying my moaning, naked wife.
I did not say anything to my wife, and instead, I spent the next month digging through her email, social media, and text messages. It took me a while, but eventually. I was able to piece it all together. She had started to go to a local gym with a few of her friends two years before, and her friends became very friendly with the trainers who worked at the gym. One of the trainers clearly took a liking to my wife, and through my research, I was able to see the progression from him simply being her trainer, to beginning to complement her on her workout gains, to encouraging her to show off and "only wear spandex" to their sessions, to telling her that all the trainers talk about how hot she is, to eventually being bolder, and asking her about her intimate details with me, and how jealous he was of me in that regard.
At first, she seemed reluctant to participate in his banter, but the trainer was persistent over many months, as he attempted to disarm her with little flirty comments here and there, until she started to play along. My wife is naturally a shy and submissive type, and given the relationship in which he got to tell her what to do in their gym sessions, it was an easy transition for him to take on a similar presence as he pushed her to do other things for him, even if she resisted at first. It was clear that she often felt conflicted...she would make comments that she didn't feel like what she was doing was appropriate, but then it was also clear that she enjoyed receiving some extra attention that stay at home moms often do not receive.
The trainer kept pushing, and he told my wife that he was going to have a hard time resisting her for much longer. She made it clear that she wasn't going to sleep with him, despite his many advances, so he pushed her to send him sexy photos/videos of her, and he wouldn't take no for an answer. She kept brushing him off, but a few days before his birthday, he boldly asked if my wife would give him a special present, a video of her rubbing those big tits, and one of her pleasuring herself "thinking of all the nasty things he would do to her hot body." This time, she said she would think about it, and with a little more pushing from the trainer, she sent it to him.
It was clear that she was also very turned on in the videos, and he was clearly starting to have success in getting her to open up more. For the next several weeks, I found many messages between the two of them. He would mostly talk graphically about how hard he would bang her, how she "had the body of a porn star," and it was his goal to turn her into the "big titty milf slut that we all wanted her to be." It appears that she sent a few more photos and videos of herself, but they had been deleted before I could see them myself. Not surprisingly, he had also become more brazen during their sessions, referencing in messages that he enjoyed copping frequent feels when he was with her, and how much more fun their sessions were now that he could train her "hands on." She had never tried anal sex before or even expressed an interest, but he convinced her it would be hot to try this with him, and she even bought a butt plug, which he said she should start using to get ready for him....and sure enough, I found it in the closet, although still unopened in the box.
Just when it seemed that the situation was about to turn into a torrid physical affair, my wife started to have second thoughts on day when the trainer asked my wife to come back to his office after a training session, and tried to have intercourse with her there. She said that she felt too guilty to continue with him, and that he needed to back off. The trainer clearly thought this was just a moment of guilt, and she would change her mind, and he tried on numerous occasions over the next few months to sext, get nude photos, etc, but my wife held firm. She eventually left the gym and the trainer stopped bothering her.
Once I had gathered all of the evidence, I confronted my wife about it. I told her that I was upset, but I understood why she did it, and that part of me was turned on by how much it had aroused her. She felt embarrassed and guilty, and said she felt it was a huge mistake, but it was something she decided to try because things had gotten a bit stale in our relationship, and this was excitement that she hadn't felt in a while. Since then, she has told me on several occasions that she never wants to do this kind of thing again, but I continue to be turned on by what happened.
I'm curious what others think, and how they would feel if they were in my position? Feel free to message me if you want to discuss further!
What this guy ^ said. If your wife is as hot as you claim, you're a dumb ass for not keeping her satisfied. I see a divorce in your future .I've never heard of a completely satisfied (mentally, physically, emotionally) wife put together a game plan for fucking a rando at the gym.
You're in trouble.
If she's half as attractive as you say she is, she's gonna leave you for someone more exciting.
Worse, she probably won't let you watch.
If all the above is true, the person who made the biggest mistake is the OP. I can't imagine not having so little trust in my wife that I'd go scouring through her emails, text messages, and social media accounts for even an hour, let alone a month.Late last year after a night out with friends, my wife was extremely drunk, and quickly passed out, leaving her phone downstairs. My wife is a shy, conservative mom of 3 in her late 30s, and although she's a beautiful, naturally thin 5'10 brunette with long legs and amazingly big and perky boobs, she has never given me any reason to suspect her of cheating. Yet, just because I wonder how any guy who meets my wife wouldn't be interested in her because of her beauty, and I've always been curious about what she might be up to when she has time on her own (which isn't often), every once in a while I take a quick peak at her phone and email. Over my 11+ years with her, I had never seen anything remotely scandalous. However, my mind was about to be completely blown.
As I scrolled through a few of her photo albums on her phone, I thought I would check the deleted items folder before I went to bed. There were a few items there, and just as I was about to close her phone and go to bed, I noticed there were two videos. Before I could really process what I was looking at, up pops a video of my wife in a bra and underwear...and over the next few minutes, she proceeds to take off her bra, squeezing her large tits together, sucking on one of her nipples, and moaning...And the next video went a step further, with my wife standing there topless, with one hand down her pants masturbating, and the other squeezing her tit, moaning loudly with pleasure. It was almost an out of body experience for me - I felt like I was just looking at some random hot internet slut on a porn site who was performing for the camera - I couldn't believe this was actually my wife!
During those 20 minutes of watching the videos over and over again, and zooming in on every little detail, I experienced a range of emotions. I had so many questions swirling through my head. Part of me was incredibly upset, as she clearly did not film these videos for me, and I had no idea who she had sent them to, but the other part of me was incredibly turned on, despite my shock, as I saw my wife in a state of unfiltered pleasure that I rarely, if ever, have seen in our relationship. I found it impossible to sleep that night as I lay awake replaying my moaning, naked wife.
I did not say anything to my wife, and instead, I spent the next month digging through her email, social media, and text messages. It took me a while, but eventually. I was able to piece it all together. She had started to go to a local gym with a few of her friends two years before, and her friends became very friendly with the trainers who worked at the gym. One of the trainers clearly took a liking to my wife, and through my research, I was able to see the progression from him simply being her trainer, to beginning to complement her on her workout gains, to encouraging her to show off and "only wear spandex" to their sessions, to telling her that all the trainers talk about how hot she is, to eventually being bolder, and asking her about her intimate details with me, and how jealous he was of me in that regard.
At first, she seemed reluctant to participate in his banter, but the trainer was persistent over many months, as he attempted to disarm her with little flirty comments here and there, until she started to play along. My wife is naturally a shy and submissive type, and given the relationship in which he got to tell her what to do in their gym sessions, it was an easy transition for him to take on a similar presence as he pushed her to do other things for him, even if she resisted at first. It was clear that she often felt conflicted...she would make comments that she didn't feel like what she was doing was appropriate, but then it was also clear that she enjoyed receiving some extra attention that stay at home moms often do not receive.
The trainer kept pushing, and he told my wife that he was going to have a hard time resisting her for much longer. She made it clear that she wasn't going to sleep with him, despite his many advances, so he pushed her to send him sexy photos/videos of her, and he wouldn't take no for an answer. She kept brushing him off, but a few days before his birthday, he boldly asked if my wife would give him a special present, a video of her rubbing those big tits, and one of her pleasuring herself "thinking of all the nasty things he would do to her hot body." This time, she said she would think about it, and with a little more pushing from the trainer, she sent it to him.
It was clear that she was also very turned on in the videos, and he was clearly starting to have success in getting her to open up more. For the next several weeks, I found many messages between the two of them. He would mostly talk graphically about how hard he would bang her, how she "had the body of a porn star," and it was his goal to turn her into the "big titty milf slut that we all wanted her to be." It appears that she sent a few more photos and videos of herself, but they had been deleted before I could see them myself. Not surprisingly, he had also become more brazen during their sessions, referencing in messages that he enjoyed copping frequent feels when he was with her, and how much more fun their sessions were now that he could train her "hands on." She had never tried anal sex before or even expressed an interest, but he convinced her it would be hot to try this with him, and she even bought a butt plug, which he said she should start using to get ready for him....and sure enough, I found it in the closet, although still unopened in the box.
Just when it seemed that the situation was about to turn into a torrid physical affair, my wife started to have second thoughts on day when the trainer asked my wife to come back to his office after a training session, and tried to have intercourse with her there. She said that she felt too guilty to continue with him, and that he needed to back off. The trainer clearly thought this was just a moment of guilt, and she would change her mind, and he tried on numerous occasions over the next few months to sext, get nude photos, etc, but my wife held firm. She eventually left the gym and the trainer stopped bothering her.
Once I had gathered all of the evidence, I confronted my wife about it. I told her that I was upset, but I understood why she did it, and that part of me was turned on by how much it had aroused her. She felt embarrassed and guilty, and said she felt it was a huge mistake, but it was something she decided to try because things had gotten a bit stale in our relationship, and this was excitement that she hadn't felt in a while. Since then, she has told me on several occasions that she never wants to do this kind of thing again, but I continue to be turned on by what happened.
I'm curious what others think, and how they would feel if they were in my position? Feel free to message me if you want to discuss further!
OP said they were sent to the trainer.If all the above is true, the person who made the biggest mistake is the OP. I can't imagine not having so little trust in my wife that I'd go scouring through her emails, text messages, and social media accounts for even an hour, let alone a month.
We all have our secret fantasies, and bringing them to light to a spouse serves no purpose other than to create distrust. Fantasies are just that - thoughts we have that won't ever happen because we know that's all they are. We may do some flirting and it sounds as if that's all she did. The fact that she took erotic videos of herself isn't any proof that she sent them to the guy. She might have thought about it, but that's just part of the fantasy. If the OP is so insecure in the marriage, that marriage isn't going to last anyway, and he's just made it worse. What he's basically told his wife is that he didn't trust her and what she heard is that he'll never trust her again. I can't imagine living in a relationship where one partner doesn't trust the other. I can't believe it would be very enjoyable for either partner.
You bring out another good point. TBH there were so many things to pick in the OP I lost interest and went lazy . Low-life Trainer and wife breaking trust were the 2 big takeaways to me. I would classify her objections as "token" . She had numerous options if she really objected. The more I consider the OP the more I think we dont have the whole story.OP said they were sent to the trainer.
Further, OP trusted the shit out of his wife, until she gave him reason not to. She broke trust first, and there was a shitty low-life man who not only engaged but coerced and encouraged.
Fuck that dude. He's a piece of shit man.
He doesnt decide what she does with her pussy. He owes him no loyalty. His wife does tho.OP said they were sent to the trainer.
Further, OP trusted the shit out of his wife, until she gave him reason not to. She broke trust first, and there was a shitty low-life man who not only engaged but coerced and encouraged.
Fuck that dude. He's a piece of shit man.
We’ll just cuz you can’t imagine it doesn’t mean it can or will happen. People get wild shitty ideas and do shitty things. Face it. It happens.If all the above is true, the person who made the biggest mistake is the OP. I can't imagine not having so little trust in my wife that I'd go scouring through her emails, text messages, and social media accounts for even an hour, let alone a month.
We all have our secret fantasies, and bringing them to light to a spouse serves no purpose other than to create distrust. Fantasies are just that - thoughts we have that won't ever happen because we know that's all they are. We may do some flirting and it sounds as if that's all she did. The fact that she took erotic videos of herself isn't any proof that she sent them to the guy. She might have thought about it, but that's just part of the fantasy. If the OP is so insecure in the marriage, that marriage isn't going to last anyway, and he's just made it worse. What he's basically told his wife is that he didn't trust her and what she heard is that he'll never trust her again. I can't imagine living in a relationship where one partner doesn't trust the other. I can't believe it would be very enjoyable for either partner.
No, he doesn't. But he sure as hell decides where he puts his dick. And he decided to betray another man.He doesnt decide what she does with her pussy. He owes him no loyalty. His wife does tho.
So the woman has no accountability at all?No, he doesn't. But he sure as hell decides where he puts his dick. And he decided to betray another man.
Karma's a bitch.