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desire30 said:
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I don't know why I was a bit offended when I read this first, but then I saw the giggle. So I'm guessing it was just a quip.
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So then I thought about why I would be offended on behalf of someone I've never met or anything else like that? Still don't have an answer.
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But what I do know is that I like the suggestion. I have no idea why I never thought about being the one to move in this position, but I love the idea of it. Something I want to try with my next partner. I've never mastered, never mind had much success with the woman on top position (bad needs and not strong enough thighs I think), so the idea of pushing back against my partner in that position is so appealing. To know that he is okay with me seeking my own pleasure in my own time, to know that he not only is enjoying the act itself, but in watching me seek my own please takes the interaction to a whole different level. To me, it engages a deeper emotion beyond the animalist act that the position taps into. And to have a partner that can engage that kind of control, to be able to allow me the time to 'drive', so to speak - well, that's just something way beyond.
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I suppose I can say unfortunately, but I suppose it is true that when I have attempted to do woman on top, I have rarely had enough practice time, because my partner tends to flip me over. Or he grabs my hips to rush after his pleasure, pulling me up and down, plus driving himself off the bed into me. I have become quite the fan of TikTok over the past few months, because a lot of clips that I resonate with have come my one. One of the biggest was that in woman on top, the up and down motion is what does it for a man. But the back and forth motion? Thats what does it for a woman.
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So, to get back to pushing back onto a man when it comes to rear entry positions - I really love the idea to being in control enough to see how the position feels when * I * control the pace, the motion, the angle - who knows what other variables are possible.
 
ImiGirrst said:
I don't know why I was a bit offended when I read this first, but then I saw the giggle. So I'm guessing it was just a quip.
.
So then I thought about why I would be offended on behalf of someone I've never met or anything else like that? Still don't have an answer.
.
But what I do know is that I like the suggestion. I have no idea why I never thought about being the one to move in this position, but I love the idea of it. Something I want to try with my next partner. I've never mastered, never mind had much success with the woman on top position (bad needs and not strong enough thighs I think), so the idea of pushing back against my partner in that position is so appealing. To know that he is okay with me seeking my own pleasure in my own time, to know that he not only is enjoying the act itself, but in watching me seek my own please takes the interaction to a whole different level. To me, it engages a deeper emotion beyond the animalist act that the position taps into. And to have a partner that can engage that kind of control, to be able to allow me the time to 'drive', so to speak - well, that's just something way beyond.
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I suppose I can say unfortunately, but I suppose it is true that when I have attempted to do woman on top, I have rarely had enough practice time, because my partner tends to flip me over. Or he grabs my hips to rush after his pleasure, pulling me up and down, plus driving himself off the bed into me. I have become quite the fan of TikTok over the past few months, because a lot of clips that I resonate with have come my one. One of the biggest was that in woman on top, the up and down motion is what does it for a man. But the back and forth motion? Thats what does it for a woman.
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So, to get back to pushing back onto a man when it comes to rear entry positions - I really love the idea to being in control enough to see how the position feels when * I * control the pace, the motion, the angle - who knows what other variables are possible.
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He may respond nicely to you taking more control. Climb on Top and once he tries to thrust or otherwise do what he wants, pull off of him and say, “knock it off. You’re just a cock to be used for my pleasure today. You move again and you’ll be replaced with a vibrator.”
 
saintcero said:
He may respond nicely to you taking more control. Climb on Top and once he tries to thrust or otherwise do what he wants, pull off of him and say, “knock it off. You’re just a cock to be used for my pleasure today. You move again and you’ll be replaced with a vibrator.”
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Thank you for the suggestion - other gents, do you have an option on this approach? I tend to think it would be taken amiss. But maybe it's a thrill as this poster infers.
 
ImiGirrst said:
Thank you for the suggestion - other gents, do you have an option on this approach? I tend to think it would be taken amiss. But maybe it's a thrill as this poster infers.
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It sounds like fun to me.
I'd love to be used as your pleasure-cock for the day...
 
ImiGirrst said:
Thank you for the suggestion - other gents, do you have an option on this approach? I tend to think it would be taken amiss. But maybe it's a thrill as this poster infers.
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I am an older woman but I must say, I have had very few men object when i asked to take the lead. One needs to ask politely of course and perhaps make sure he receives his reward as well.
 
ImiGirrst said:
Thank you for the suggestion - other gents, do you have an option on this approach? I tend to think it would be taken amiss. But maybe it's a thrill as this poster infers.
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Maybe try, “it turns me on so much when I have to do all the work. It makes me feel super slutty for you”. Once that seed is planted in his head who knows how far you can take it.
 
goldenpalomino said:
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Doggy style and a quickie at work to take care of that sexual tension the two of you have had the last few days of watching each other at work. an.And finally a quiet finding the bath room in the back storage area for a fast get together as who knows when one of you will get that text or call from either your husband or wife! Lol!
 
Mello_SixtyNine said:
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This is always so hot and so much fun when you have watched her walk around in that sexy little skirt all day and she goes to the kitchen and you follow her in there and go up behind her and unzip and drop your pants and lift up that skirt and you slowly ease your hard cock right in her already wet and tight pussy and you pump her good and bust that hot load deep inside her as she rocks that body and backs that sexy ass up!
 
PhiloDaddy said:
There are so many ways a man can make you WANT to be submissive. So few men choose to make the effort.
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I read your profile and I must say that I truly appreciate that time and detail you put into it. I think that could be taken as an indicator that you possess the qualities of a good D or Top.
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My ex had a real D/Top streak and I don't think I ever played that way as much as he wanted. And I know he never truly understood that s/bottoming really starts before clothes ever came off. I've been doing a lot of procrastinating on TikTok lately, where there is a lot of commentary on this very topic. And I tend to be pretty appalled by the younger generation not having a clue about the power exchange that occurs in this type of interaction. Because without a willing and equitable exchange, it's just manipulation and abuse.
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In my signature, I state that Lit has brought me so many friends, but what I don't say is just how big of a role they play in my life. They are some of the most important people in my life, to the point that my mom calls an emotional partner her other daughter. Of course she has no idea how I found her, and mom won't if it's up to me. But she's a switch, her husband is a Dom, and they are well known in the lifestyle. Where I would say I was 'Nilla, they say I'm really nutty crunchy. And maybe my attitude is why.
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Being around and their friends, I've learned a lot about what it means to be submissive. I don't think I ever could truly be a sub, but I do think with the right person, I could bottom. For anyone who is inspired to DM me with an offer to top/Dom, please don't. I already have a long time partner I'm exploring this with, who I've swooned around for years over his unconscious power. And who understands how powerful I am and is honestly attracted to it, in ways that so many others walk away from. The idea thrills him but he is a bit apprehensive when he thinks about what I might give him and the responsibility I'm trusting him with. And I think that's really what you're looking for in a Top, because it's a serious thing to give yourself over to another to control, even for a little while.
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I get chills up my back when I think about truly submitting to this partner for an afternoon. IRL, I'm in charge ALL THE FREAKING TIME, even when I attempt to turn responsibility over to others. I've still got to watch, I've still got to follow up after people, I still have to teach. And it's not a matter of being a control freak like I'm made out to be. Truly, I would be happy to have someone do the task or responsibility in a different way than I do. But what's missing is the understanding, the underlying reasons for doing said tasks and understanding the consequences if it's not done. If you understand these, it's a whole other dynamic when you miss the first couple of times, because it's practice. And I know the difference between practice and not giving a shit (and expecting me to accept whatever they do as good enough). How the HELL to give my power over to that, when I know the time you're in charge will only mean I have to clean up or there will be unintended consequences, some of which can be serious. If you can't do that with our clothes on, what makes you think I'll think you can do that with our clothes off? I'll win up topping from the bottom, which means you'll get a happy, or power surge because you think I'm submitting, whereas in fact, I'm just directing you in a different way. Why the FUCK would I want to do any of this?
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And that is what you got to, PhiloDaddy, in so many fewer words, when you said about not making the effort. Because it takes time and attention to detail. Again, the 'influencers' on TikTok have been talking about a) women who can't get out of their masculine energy, b) how men demand women get out of their masculine energy, c) how many men have no clue what they can do to create an environment where a woman connect with their feminine energy, the big D) what a man can do to EARN having a woman be in her feminine energy and lastly the biggest E) the emotional and environmental conditions where a woman can allow herself to give over to a man because she KNOWS that his power, his masculine energy will be coming to her in a way that will actually blow up, increase, manifest, make her feminine energy bigger than it is at any other time. It includes a connected feeling that is often described as safety
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Can you tell I've thought about this A LOT? And I pay a lot of attention to the actually dynamics of details. Congrats to anyone who made it to the end this missive.
 
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ImiGirrst said:
I get chills up my back when I think about truly submitting to this partner for an afternoon. IRL, I'm in charge ALL THE FREAKING TIME, even when I attempt to turn responsibility over to others. I've still got to watch, I've still got to follow up after people, I still have to teach. And it's not a matter of being a control freak like I'm made out to be. Truly, I would be happy to have someone do the task or responsibility in a different way than I do. But what's missing is the understanding the underlying reasons for doing said tasks and understanding the consequences if it's not done. If you understand these, it's a whole other dynamic when you miss the first couple of times, because it's practice. And I know the difference between practice and not giving a shit (and expecting you to accept whatever they do as good enough).
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Control. Ugh. I think a large part of topping is wanting control. I glory in making my partners ache and moan and squirm. I SOOO enjoy "managing their pleasure." The pace. The rhythm. The calms and the storms. It gets me off to get them off. I suppose there's term for this. I just know that there is no amusement park as thrilling as a woman's body getting aroused and climaxing.

I've struggled with the idea of switching. Haven't found a partner with the metaphorical balls (because real ones won't do it for me) to be comfortable with.

BTW: Thank you for seeing me. - PDaddy :)
 
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