Sissies! What Type of Sissy are You?

[LarryTee50]

I consider myself a bisexual sissy. I love wearing lingerie and acting fem when i suck a cock. If i looked At myself as an out of body experience id see me as naughty slut who acts very submissive. I like that feeling of vulnerability and being a sissy. I think guys hate the fact there being sucked by another guy. Being a sissy and acting fem helps them to cope with the fact there getting turned on by another man. I also give much hotter bjs when i act like a sissy.

I'm straight, but sometimes I really enjoy fantasizing about fucking a sissy....and being fucked by a sissy.......

 

[Sigmund7]

Results summary for Sigmund:
In the Insecure vs Confident dimension, your score is:
52.5 Insecure, 47.5 Confident

In the Virginal vs Experienced dimension, your score is:
55.0 Virginal, 45.0 Experienced

In the Objectifying vs Rational dimension, your score is:
57.5 Objectifying, 42.5 Rational

In the Masturbation Obsessed vs Healthy dimension, your score is:
35.0 Masturbation Obsessed, 65.0 Healthy

In the Porn Addicted vs Normal dimension, your score is:
72.5 Porn Addicted, 27.5 Normal

In the Sissy vs Appropriate dimension, your score is:
90.0 Sissy, 10.0 Appropriate

Seems about right

 

[Bisexguy70]

I'm straight, but sometimes I really enjoy fantasizing about fucking a sissy....and being fucked by a sissy.......

If you ever fucked a sissy or had your cock sucked by one You’d be hooked I can guarantee it

 

[LarryTee50]

If you ever fucked a sissy or had your cock sucked by one You’d be hooked I can guarantee it

I would love for that to happen.....and it may some day.

 

[DickandDoof]

If you ever fucked a sissy or had your cock sucked by one You’d be hooked I can guarantee it

I suspect I’d be hooked but I’d love to find out for sure. Never fucked or been sucked by a sissy, but I do think about it.

 

[DickandDoof]

This is me in a nutshell. I can only currently cum when thinking about cocks in my mouth or filling my ass with his semen

I’d be happy to have you think about my cock in your mouth.

 

[510mike]

https://SPAMPOST/shecurious11/post/42dda529-6d4f-48ec-a87a-52e431aeb4b2/

Next question?

 

[7528Dick]

I’d be happy to have you think about my cock in your mouth.

I don’t want to just think, I want your cock in my mouth for real.

 

[DickandDoof]

I don’t want to just think, I want your cock in my mouth for real.

And I want your cock in MY mouth for real. But I live in Spain so the odds of that ever happening are pretty remote. But if you’d like to engage in cyber-sex, please shoot me a PM.

 

[Subsy]

Me? I'm a panty wearing, cock sucking, submissive faggot type of sissy.

Ditto

 

[7528Dick]

And I want your cock in MY mouth for real. But I live in Spain so the odds of that ever happening are pretty remote. But if you’d like to engage in cyber-sex, please shoot me a PM.

Spain is quite a trip from where I am, I must admit. Cyber would have been hot for me about 10 years ago. But now I need it up close and personal.

 

[AllenJames]

Are you a straight sissy? A gay “faggot” sissy? Something in between? Something else?

There's an intriguing posting on Reddit where a phone-sex professional—a qualified observer of the 'sissy' attitudes in fantasy and r/l dynamics—draws on his experience interacting with the variety of beta males, closeted bi and gay men, etc. who are attracted to the sissy lifestyle, and he offers some unique insights, at some length.

He divides sissies into four categories, based on their mix of gender identity and sexual orientation. And it is fascinating, in his concept, what differences and similarities there are between these distinct types of sissy. Of course, many have pointed out before that lots of cross dressers are actually straight men. Some say most of us are. But according to the “Sissy Master” and his breakdown of 4 sissy types, there's more to it than that. Much more.

Here's what he came up with:

1. The Gay / Effeminate Sissy
2. The Bisexual Sissy
3. The Transgender, Gender Fluid Sissy
4. The Straight Sissy

In his lengthy post, the author elaborates at length on each. It's an interesting take, and well worth reading. I can post more about it, we can discuss each, or all of these types, if there's interest. Is 4 types enough? In some cases it seems like the “sissy” identity is a transitional state, or even a role of convenience. A way to rationalize certain tendencies and urges. Also in the age of the internet, I think it's possible that the word itself, “sissy”, has broadened in it's meaning, compared to what it might have meant some decades ago.

From this I would say I fall into 2/3 perhaps leaning towards 3 - doing something about this seems very unlikely now but it is amazing to think now that the right person at the right moment in my life might have opened doors to me that were not in fact opened and which I now recognize would have been/are of interest to a cross dressing possibly submissive bisexual.

My Assessment came out -
Based on your answers, your personality type is IVRMPS.

This is a shorthand notation that means that you are a:
Insecure
Virginal
Rational
Masturbation-Obsessed
Porn-Addicted
Sissy
Press enter to continue

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Results summary for skip:
In the Insecure vs Confident dimension, your score is:
62.5 Insecure, 37.5 Confident

In the Virginal vs Experienced dimension, your score is:
52.5 Virginal, 47.5 Experienced

In the Objectifying vs Rational dimension, your score is:
47.5 Objectifying, 52.5 Rational

In the Masturbation Obsessed vs Healthy dimension, your score is:
67.5 Masturbation Obsessed, 32.5 Healthy

In the Porn Addicted vs Normal dimension, your score is:
82.5 Porn Addicted, 17.5 Normal

In the Sissy vs Appropriate dimension, your score is:
85.0 Sissy, 15.0 Appropriate

The emphasis upon porn in part reflects the reality that there are few other outlets for this sissy and the same for masturbation (though admittedly I've always enjoyed it).

Re "Sissiness"
Sissy vs Appropriate
The final dimension deals with how you present yourself to potential partners as a sexual being and whether or not you do this in a way that is considered to be appropriate for someone of your gender. For males, the alternative to an appropriate, masculine personality is that of a waek, submissive, obedient sissy. For females, it is a bit more complex, but for the simplistic purposes of this assessment we contrast Appropriateness with Sluttiness. While 'slut'can have different meanings to different people, we use the term here to a woman who presents herself as a primarily sexual object, one who is ready to be used for another's pleasure and to satisfy whatever carnal urges their partner might have, even if they are degrading, demeaning, and/or humiliating to her.
Based on your answers, we have a Very High confidence that you have a Sissy type personality

Unlike many of the other dimensions, the fact that you display the behaviors of a sissy and/or slut is not necessarily a bad thing. It is entirely possible that this is a role that is natural and right for a submissive, chronically horny, pleasure-craver like you. By letting go of your inhibtions and shame, you may find greater happiness and fulfillment in sexually serving a more dominant, confident partner. Your respsonses related to this dimension reveal a personality type that is ideal for taking a submissive role in a relationship and serving as an outlet for providing much-needed release to one or more other, often more sexually competent, dynamic, and attractive partners.

I think in part this reflects how little opportunity I've had to exhibit and explore my sissiness, but I've realized recently just how far I might go with the right partner. Note, partner, the humiliation aspect that some enjoy is not for me.

 

[muycurioso]

"This sissy has deeply unmet sexual needs and fantasies. However, this sissy is likely to have a great deal of guilt and shame. She dreams of being controlled because she knows that when she cums, she will lose her sissy mindset, run back to her "fake" straight man world, watch straight porn to "wash out" the memories of being and feeling sissy.

"This is the type of sissy who may purge repeatedly but keeps coming back because the deeper her sissy experience, the harder it is for her to stay away and the deeper the shame and guilt. This is a sissy stuck in a cycle. This is the sissy who seeks a Master to provide her with sissy training to push (and force) her. She likes abstinence, teasing and orgasm denial. If she cums, she knows she will rush right back into “man” mode.

Those two are agony but so true. I just came after trying not to for a few days, and I've done so many humiliating things, taken some big risks, and now that I came I feel so down and asking myself what the hell I've been doing.

It really is a nightmare cycle to go through. Either I am constantly edging myself and going crazy, having great difficulties being productive and doing work all day long every day while doing increasingly humiliating things which will probably some day spiral out of control, or I'm feeling depressed and confused and disappointed in what I've done and see no way out of it because soon enough I'll be horny again.

It wasn't always like this though. When I had a partner I was able to keep it all under control thanks to her, but i can't erase my history or the intrusive fantasies I have, and that was a deal breaker for her.

But now I find myself in a situation in my life where I'm alone and don't have much going on, so it's causing the sissy in me to appear and feminize and humiliate myself.

that sucks I opened up to my (then) wife at about 19 yo marriage + 5 years of dating. she loved my dirty fantasy talk , but later she threw it my face. it was hurtful and she broke our marital bond of trust with another man. a man i knew. now i am invisible to all women andunloveableworhty

Are you a straight sissy? A gay “faggot” sissy? Something in between? Something else?

There's an intriguing posting on Reddit where a phone-sex professional—a qualified observer of the 'sissy' attitudes in fantasy and r/l dynamics—draws on his experience interacting with the variety of beta males, closeted bi and gay men, etc. who are attracted to the sissy lifestyle, and he offers some unique insights, at some length.

He divides sissies into four categories, based on their mix of gender identity and sexual orientation. And it is fascinating, in his concept, what differences and similarities there are between these distinct types of sissy. Of course, many have pointed out before that lots of cross dressers are actually straight men. Some say most of us are. But according to the “Sissy Master” and his breakdown of 4 sissy types, there's more to it than that. Much more.

Here's what he came up with:

1. The Gay / Effeminate Sissy
2. The Bisexual Sissy
3. The Transgender, Gender Fluid Sissy
4. The Straight Sissy

In his lengthy post, the author elaborates at length on each. It's an interesting take, and well worth reading. I can post more about it, we can discuss each, or all of these types, if there's interest. Is 4 types enough? In some cases it seems like the “sissy” identity is a transitional state, or even a role of convenience. A way to rationalize certain tendencies and urges. Also in the age of the internet, I think it's possible that the word itself, “sissy”, has broadened in it's meaning, compared to what it might have meant some decades ago.

hi, I know I dont want to be called a whores\slut, or faggot in a nasty derogatory way. I dont want to be raped. I will not wear a cage, ever. I will always have total access to her girl parts. no bull(shit) going on. I do like the idea of my future girl having anoter bf. I do love the idea of her pushing my body down oN THE bed and demanding I lick her just fucked pussy. I get hard hearing her moans inbeen her saying in a sexy way that he
wants you to suck jhis cock. She says I can cll him rigjht now, I say do it

 

[tristantrotsky]

like most. like to be respected and not forced . you will find if you treat us nice and genteel ,you wont have to ask or demand us to give ourselves to you totally. we want to keep you as happy and satisfied as as we want you to keep us... thats my take, im just not into forceful daddies but if we want to add extra spice to our sex we can enlist those things only for fun View attachment 2191092

You are delightful. I agree with you completely.
All we really need is to be accepted as cocksuckers, and be permitted and encouraged to suck cock in a safe and accepting situation by a non-judgemental man, or men... then we will find true contentment

 

[cuck72]

I guess I'd call myself a closet sissy faggot, because my family and friends would have no idea how much I jack off every day, and lick up my slimy load thinking of being a sissy bitch for these few guys I know and think about. Out in public I don't show any signs of being a sissy faggot bitch, I'm just a mature older man. If others only knew I might be wearing a sexy thong panty under my jeans. I do that at times and like looking for men's cock bulges. hehehehe.

 

[LanaBehave]

And here's a really interesting essay about The Sissy Question, and how sissies and trans are separate, but maybe not so different in some ways...

https://transreads.org/the-sissy-question/

(when you get there you have to click the link at the top for the pdf)

 

[Escierto]

And here's a really interesting essay about The Sissy Question, and how sissies and trans are separate, but maybe not so different in some ways...

https://transreads.org/the-sissy-question/

(when you get there you have to click the link at the top for the pdf)

Very interesting article.

 

[ChrissyCD64]

I went back and read a response that I wrote two years ago where I said that I am the bisexual type even though I am a CD. Now that I have had breast implants, and never dress as a male anymore, I would have to say that I am now more the trangender type.

 

[AlexBailey]

And here's a really interesting essay about The Sissy Question, and how sissies and trans are separate, but maybe not so different in some ways...

https://transreads.org/the-sissy-question/

(when you get there you have to click the link at the top for the pdf)

There is a lot to unwrap in that essay.

I know that some transgender people consider me to be a problem for ‘their community’. Well, there are assholes everywhere.

I’m me, and I hope everyone else can be themselves without being judged by others. When someone has overcome their own challenges and then turns around to judge where someone else is along their own path, it’s an indication of insecurity.

What someone else does or doesn’t do does not affect who you are - that’s the kind of fears embraced by the anti-trans crowd, much like how conservatives try to say that gay marriage is destroying marriage for everyone.

Many conservatives are afraid that exposing their children to the existence of transgenderism risks their corruption. Are they right? To them it could appear to be the case. I didn’t know being trans was an option until I met a woman who had transitioned. I remember having a light go on in my head that there might be something more to my desires than just being a freak like the publicly visible CDs and drag queens mentioned in the essay.

It took me years more to understand that there was more than just a binary choice. I’m in between cis and trans. I’m not trans but I sure as hell am not cis. I’ve been through the hard knocks of parents trying to control my presentation, having bible verses about the evils of being gay read to me at the dinner table, feeling completely out of the element of who I feel like inside. I lived as a guy within a lesbian community for years and have felt the derision upon me for simply being born with the ‘wrong’ chromosomes for my community.

I probably have a lot more in common emotionally with trans folks than I do with the typical vanilla cis, yet there are still those who don’t feel I’m worthy of…of what? Their company? Simply because I haven’t fully rejected my Y chromosome?

Yeah, I’m kinky. Yeah I’m a CD. Yeah I love playing with other people in a broad spectrum of presentations and sexualities.

I may not be trans enough for your ‘club’ but if you ever find yourself on my door in need of help or resources you’ll find them. I can see the beauty of your existence even if you can’t see mine.

 

[muycurioso]

damn, the fantasies were I suck cock and swallow cum it is how I want the woman in my life to act. ala straight sissy.

 

[Sxy_crzy_cool]

Hmm interesting. Apparently I am:
Insecure
Experienced
Objectifying
Masturbation-Obsessed
Porn-Addicted
Sissy

Can't say I'd argue with that

 

[Subsy]

hi

I think sissy is a male born with a female mind, and continues with the natural organs while secretly wears female attire and engages in sex acts willingly in female role, with oral and anal submission to a dominant male interested and inclined to use and satisfy the SISSY.

Your assessment sounds fair…..but people being what they are….more like a kaleidoscope of qualities…sliding from one or more to others depending on innumerable factors…
Even so….your description fits myself except I identify as female including clothing 24/7. To each it’s own right ? I’m imagining giving you a hug.

 

[Tayloroc]

Your assessment sounds fair…..but people being what they are….more like a kaleidoscope of qualities…sliding from one or more to others depending on innumerable factors…
Even so….your description fits myself except I identify as female including clothing 24/7. To each it’s own right ? I’m imagining giving you a hug.

I wish I could identify 24/7!!

 

[ZacharyFagg]

Hmmmm that is very hard to define. I can be a swishy, effeminate faggot, or a full blown passable queen. It depends on my mood or what my partner wants.

I normally live as Zach, a very swishy, effeminate male. While I am somewhat muscular and fit, I am never masculine. I paint my nails, shave my body, and style my hair like the singer Pink. I usually wear tight clothes, and always wear either a thong, jockstrap or panties. I consider myself a pussyboi, who plays the "female" role sexually and domestically. I'm always submissive with men. I'm still a sissy, whether I am in fishnets and panties of a jock and harness.

But then, I can transform myself into my feminine alter ego and drag persona, Nikki Suxxx. When I am Nikki, I strive to be as passable as possible.

 

[Tayloroc]

Hmmmm that is very hard to define. I can be a swishy, effeminate faggot, or a full blown passable queen. It depends on my mood or what my partner wants.

I normally live as Zach, a very swishy, effeminate male. While I am somewhat muscular and fit, I am never masculine. I paint my nails, shave my body, and style my hair like the singer Pink. I usually wear tight clothes, and always wear either a thong, jockstrap or panties. I consider myself a pussyboi, who plays the "female" role sexually and domestically. I'm always submissive with men. I'm still a sissy, whether I am in fishnets and panties of a jock and harness.

But then, I can transform myself into my feminine alter ego and drag persona, Nikki Suxxx. When I am Nikki, I strive to be as passable as possible.

You are wonderful!!