Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

I appreciate you noting my first post that Lit records in my history, however my association with chaos predates this thread to the prior incarnation...
I believe this was my first chaos post. 🥰😊😘

And you can repost and comment on posts no matter how old they are


And having briefly revisited chaos of last year I am wistful all over for @MsNatalie99 and @SinfuIDreams 😭😭😭
I’ve been wistful for them lately myself 🫂
 
Hello Chaos. Just returned from Uber Grandpa and looking forward to seeing good friend in an hour or so. For @Cindy027 and others, when does a post trigger a PM from a guy? I ask because in a FB group one lady posts many suggestive image. Even in my polite comments she always responds with XX and OO. I think she likes to tease and play around but is not serious. BTW - here I know where I stand.
There seem to be no absolut rule. I've got admiring PM's even after some plain discussion, from men who didn't quite grasp that I'm not interested in private flirty discussion about fetishises.

(Ordinary discussion between people is another thing, and that kind of PM's normally get a friendly answer.)
 
There seem to be no absolut rule. I've got admiring PM's even after some plain discussion, from men who didn't quite grasp that I'm not interested in private flirty discussion about fetishises.

(Ordinary discussion between people is another thing, and that kind of PM's normally get a friendly answer.)
note to self: do not bring up that German latex thing you saw last week...
 
Hello Chaos. Just returned from Uber Grandpa and looking forward to seeing good friend in an hour or so. For @Cindy027 and others, when does a post trigger a PM from a guy? I ask because in a FB group one lady posts many suggestive image. Even in my polite comments she always responds with XX and OO. I think she likes to tease and play around but is not serious. BTW - here I know where I stand.
Mostly not, but all I did was like the post, he could have just said hi etc and that would have been okay. People I know can say what they want to me in a pm, if they overstep I’ll tell them nicely 😇
 
I was scrolling through a thread and I must have inadvertently hit the like on a post without realizing it. I did recheck the post just to be sure and there was no way that I would have acknowledged that post.

So the guys post that it was sent me a pm (wtf), normally this would be okay and I would in all probability respond and politely tell them what they generally don’t like to hear. TBH I think a dick pic would have been less offensive 😅

What I received was a very long account of how he is going to (I only read the first paragraph and the last) make me orgasm and gasp and I think call out his name (that part might not be accurate). But it was very long and very detailed (I think, because for that length it must be detailed). It seemed like a lot of effort for zero response.

And now after telling you all something you don’t really want to know I feel a whole lot better.😁😁😁

That’s what we’re here for.
 
I was scrolling through a thread and I must have inadvertently hit the like on a post without realizing it. I did recheck the post just to be sure and there was no way that I would have acknowledged that post.

So the guys post that it was sent me a pm (wtf), normally this would be okay and I would in all probability respond and politely tell them what they generally don’t like to hear. TBH I think a dick pic would have been less offensive 😅

What I received was a very long account of how he is going to (I only read the first paragraph and the last) make me orgasm and gasp and I think call out his name (that part might not be accurate). But it was very long and very detailed (I think, because for that length it must be detailed). It seemed like a lot of effort for zero response.

And now after telling you all something you don’t really want to know I feel a whole lot better.😁😁😁
I used to respond to them until someone told me that at least some of those are copy paste. I mean, why else would someone who doesn’t know you send something so detailed and time consuming 🤷🏻‍♀️.
Are you okay? 😘
 
Hello Chaos. Just returned from Uber Grandpa and looking forward to seeing good friend in an hour or so. For @Cindy027 and others, when does a post trigger a PM from a guy? I ask because in a FB group one lady posts many suggestive image. Even in my polite comments she always responds with XX and OO. I think she likes to tease and play around but is not serious. BTW - here I know where I stand.
I got PM's here before I even posted. Even before I got my first AV when it was just my initial.
There are guys lurking who will message any woman that is online and "shoot their shot" - in more than one way
I didn't know at first that I could hide my online status and it took me even longer to learn to restrict messages to members only.
Not all of the men who messaged me back then were awful and I did have some genuinely interesting convos but I always wonder why they don't just join in cos I'm enjoying chatting away in the threads far more than messages in secret
 
The thought occurs to me that some of these rude PMS are basically the same thing as catcalling on the street. If I see a gorgeous woman (doesn't even have to be gorgeous) woman on the street I will (discreetly) admire her but I won't yell out hey Baby and go through a litany of what I'd want to do with her. Why should a PM be any different?
 
I guess probably more hunter than anything. I’ve done a little dressage. I haven’t actually jumped anything since like 2019?
I am so jealous. I have taken riding lessons a few times as an adult and am very much a beginner - but I loved it. I can totally see how you could have a great relationship with a horse - the connection is amazing. Good thing horses are super expensive and needy!
 
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