Do these ever work?

[SherlockianMan]

It seems like there's always a trend on here, a female litster will post and get a hundred replies. A male litster posts, and they're lucky to get one or two.

Maybe I'm just pessimistic and I'd love people to prove me wrong:

I'm male, young forties, strong sexual appetite but little opportunity for exercising it. A definite "dad-bod" but I'm working to shed some of it.

I'm looking for a female/feminine chat partner to discuss desires and fantasies. Cybering is definitely an option and pictures welcome, but not required.

A bit about my kinks: exhibitionist/voyeur. Lover of breasts of all shapes and sizes. Very much turned on by giving cumshot/facials or hearing about women who like to recieve them. A bit more sub than dom.

 

[Cruel_And_Kind]

A Sherlockian process of deduction leads us to conclude that the economic law of demand and supply applies on here. Demand from males seeking females way exceeds the supply of females seeking males.

With bitter irony, this completely inverts who has the power and control. Male Dominants are 10 a penny, thus giving female submissives the power to pick and choose and and be very demanding in their preferences.

What do we estimate the precise ratios of M Dom's to f subs to be? My guess is about 8:1.

And as for the m sub to F Domme ratio, I don't even want to guess at that, the poor subby chaps will be too devasted to continue in their quest for that particular elusive unicorn.

 

[stressedsubject]

A Sherlockian process of deduction leads us to conclude that the economic law of demand and supply applies on here. Demand from males seeking females way exceeds the supply of females seeking males.

With bitter irony, this completely inverts who has the power and control. Male Dominants are 10 a penny, thus giving female submissives the power to pick and choose and and be very demanding in their preferences.

What do we estimate the precise ratios of M Dom's to f subs to be? My guess is about 8:1.

And as for the m sub to F Domme ratio, I don't even want to guess at that, the poor subby chaps will be too devasted to continue in their quest for that particular elusive unicorn.

well said. and the irony of f subs having power to pick their m doms

 

[Cruel_And_Kind]

If this site was a gaming machine in a casino, we would have walked away from it never to return after we had wasted all our money for such little return, vowing never to play it again!

 

[LiverpoolMaster]

It seems like there's always a trend on here, a female litster will post and get a hundred replies. A male litster posts, and they're luck to get one or two.

Yes, and care to guess at what the "female" litster will usually turn out to be..?

I've been on here long enough to know not to trust any claim of female-from-birth gender. It's sad, I acknowledge, for any genuine female to have to endure what must be almost constant "prove it" requests - but the Freds-in-Frocks brigade have rendered this almost mandatory.

The best tactic, I've found, is to simply make clear in advance that you will be treating any correspondence partner as being a neuter... i.e. you won't be talking dirty to them or giving them any reason whatever to think you believe them to be a woman. It has been totally amazing how many alleged "females" have vanished like snow in the Sahara as soon as this has been stipulated.

 

[blulilacgrl]

"It seems like there's always a trend on here, a female litster will post and get a hundred replies. A male litster posts, and they're luck to get one or two."

Don't confuse quantity with quality.

The best tactic, I've found, is to simply make clear in advance that you will be treating any correspondence partner as being a neuter... i.e. you won't be talking dirty to them or giving them any reason whatever to think you believe them to be a woman..

I would love this! Lol.



So tired of the second message of any conversation being something sexual. I just responded to "hello", I'm not quite ready to describe in detail my last sexual encounter or what my deepest desires are just yet

 

[stressedsubject]

Don't confuse quantity with quality.



I would love this! Lol.



So tired of the second message of any conversation being something sexual. I just responded to "hello", I'm not quite ready to describe in detail my last sexual encounter or what my deepest desires are just yet

Lmao fr at least say hi and talk. Like I would like to get to know you at least a lil bit if imma get comfortable to potential try to get off to or with you

 

[blulilacgrl]

Lmao fr at least say hi and talk. Like I would like to get to know you at least a lil bit if imma get comfortable to potential try to get off to or with you

But..but ..I said "hi!". Beyond that, what could be more important than an indepth recounting of your most exciting sexual encounter and your favorite position?

 

[adamISOeve]

Trying to receive a response via the Lit Personals is a lottery game at best. It seems we have to recognize that and live with this feature. And once in a while, a woman I contact via Lit does write back. Even if it may not be what I would love her feed back to me.

But that does not make what happens here any less regrettable. And frankly, when I see how little effort a typical woman here “invests” on a supposedly personal ad, and how keenly certain men here respond back to more or less nothing, I feel a certain amount of envy inside myself. About the utter inequality men are subjected to.

Now this ain’t going to change ever, most likely. After all, Mother Nature designed the human species this way. But her design was based on a roughly equal distribution of men to women, and that simply does not exist on the Personals forum. So the best we men can hope for is female eyeballs who are curious, and belong to a woman with similar longings inside of her as in us.

 

[GabbyDebarres]

So tired of the second message of any conversation being something sexual. I just responded to "hello", I'm not quite ready to describe in detail my last sexual encounter or what my deepest desires are just yet

This right here! It's the number one reason why I turned and keep off my PMs too many men try to steer the conversation into a sex exchange and while I don't object to that I want to do it on my terms not theirs. So I pick and choose who I want to talk to and so far it works out very well for me.

 

[stressedsubject]

But..but ..I said "hi!". Beyond that, what could be more important than an indepth recounting of your most exciting sexual encounter and your favorite position?

What are your interests? Your hobbies? What obsecure thing that shouldn’t turn you on but does? If im not in the mood to dirty talk could you at least try to get me there? This a place of stories tell me one

 

[barefootgirl69]

<snip> thus giving female submissives the power to pick and choose and and be very demanding in their preferences.
<snip>

well said. and the irony of f subs having power to pick their m doms

Submissives give up the power in a PE. It's very important to find someone you are compatible with and TRUST.

Doms should be just as choosy.

 

[Plasmaball]

It can work but it's what you put into it and it's a numbers game. Women are gonna get a lot more messages then men. Unless you have a lot of posts on the board to flesh out who you are as a person. Shrug.. don't just say hello. Give them something to answer and engage.
Doesn't have to be sexual but if it use a post of theirs and let them talk about it because you find it interesting

 

[barefootgirl69]

It can work but it's what you put into it and it's a numbers game. Women are gonna get a lot more messages then men. Unless you have a lot of posts on the board to flesh out who you are as a person. Shrug.. don't just say hello. Give them something to answer and engage.
Doesn't have to be sexual but if it use a post of theirs and let them talk about it because you find it interesting

We get a lot more creepy and rude messages. There's a difference. Usually, a woman will message if she's interested in getting to know you. Guys don't always care as long as needs are fulfilled.

I like your post!

 

[Plasmaball]

We get a lot more creepy and rude messages. There's a ddifference. Usually, a woman will message if she's interested in getting to know you. Guys don't always care as long as needs are fulfilled.

I like your post!

Yeah.. I sent out a lot but it was touching base with some old timers.

I usually just ask a one line question and if they answer they answer.

 

[stressedsubject]

I haven't been here long at all its only my 2nd day but, it seems to me rather than having a personal ad its just better to build some kind of rapport on thread and if you mesh well. go on a pm to build on what would seem to be mutual chemistry

 

[ToPleaseHim]

well said. and the irony of f subs having power to pick their m doms

Why is this ironic? Subs absolutely have every right to choose the person to whom they will relinquish power. Subs should be choosy. Doms should also be choosy. It takes a lot of trust to be vulnerable, and BDSM requires vulnerability.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

I haven't been here long at all its only my 2nd day but, it seems to me rather than having a personal ad its just better to build some kind of rapport on thread and if you mesh well. go on a pm to build on what would seem to be mutual chemistry

This is the way, 100%

 

[SherlockianMan]

Bored and feeling a little sexually frustrated lately, so bumping some threads again

 

[SherlockianMan]

Bored and feeling a little sexually frustrated lately, so bumping some threads again

Still pretty much there

 

[SherlockianMan]

Bump bump bump