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I'd be absolutely mortified if I posted avd no one responded or commented. I genuinely can't think of anything worse than putting yourself out there to be met by indifference...
Speaking as someone who rarely posts pics, so take this with a grain. I agree putting yourself out there and watching the tumbleweeds go by is pretty humbling. But for me there's occasionally a curiosity involved. Like, "I wonder if anyone out there might be interested in me?" Posting a pic that's met with crickets chirping gets me my answer. Maybe not the answer I was hoping for, but the curiosity is sated and there's some closure there that allows me to move on.
 
The fact that only a few people get all the comments is how some posts, like yours, can get lost and/or missed. If the photos had more room to breathe you might get more attention. I've seen guys post and people are still commenting on a woman's post from 3 pages back and so the guy's post doesn't get a single like. That's not inclusive.

I know you appreciate it if you click that little like button. It even has an option to tell me you loved it!
It's not that pics really get lost. Girls just don't comment on blokes pics as much as blokes comment on girls.
Also, girls tend to comment on other girls more than bloke in bloke action (stop giggling at the back)
Also, blokes tend to be thirstier, so will look back further for some visual stimulus.
Justa hasn't been on for a month, but some of her pics from 2020 got comments in last few days, and she's most definitely not a poofer

Personally, I'd much prefer the ladies didn't poof, as it would help with my perving research into something or other, but I totally understand why they do I mostly don't, but like the fact its there if I post a dick pic, or some face.

The thing is we're all different, and respond to the same thing differently. I'd be sad if you felt unable to post in undressed again, but I'd understand it. I've not seen PG since she stopped posting there, or Muse. Which is sad (for me), but we all so what we need to do to survive
 
In other words, you want to be popular. Why does it have to be a contest? That's the part I don't get. Your self-worth shouldn't be reliant on having the approval of others.
Being popular doesn't necessitate it being a contest
If he said 'I want praise, but I don't want others praised' then fair enough

But surely there's enough praise around for everyone to feel attractive?
 
There needs to be a no poof clause in the next one. :(
Or they decide they are chicken, delete their photo and run scared for a few but know it's a them thing.😂 🤷🏻‍♀️
Actually, I planned for the poof. No really.

The idea was to get the judges to put their like emoji on the entry, after that, poof was fine. If they missed it, then the entry would have been missed.

I know how people are. Shy little devils. Well, I am too, so there. No one has seen my hog hereabouts. I think.
 
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