What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

[PrettyLilPussy19]

It can definitely feel this way to others.

BUT very good point about who interacts with who, people who tend to post more or interact more.

I try to name people I don’t see get named a lot just to change things up. In fact I had done up a whole thing for PLP’s most recent prom scenario but I decided not to post it because honestly I felt out of place

I'm sorry that you felt out of place. I think people project these friendships on people who are just friendly. I even had a conversation yesterday about wanting lots of different names to be posted. One person simply cannot know everyone. And the idea stated above that there are loads of people who kind of secretly hate a small group of people (not said by you!) is honestly such a bummer.

There have definitely been different phases of Lit but I just hit my 5 Yeats here (god help me!) and I've never seen it so open and friendly. All I want is to make places that are fun for everyone to play in and not exclusionary. Don't quit before you start Chilly! No one gets left out.

Well ok unless you were that one guy who wanted to jizz I people's eyeballs or whatever lol!

 

[Dribble]

Ah, so it never gets boring or old then. *nods*

Nope.

 

[_Ritch_]

Hahaha..I’m stealing this saying..even the eye roll.

Stealing it? STEALING? I want at least £2.50.

 

[Chillygirl]

I'm sorry that you felt out of place. I think people project these friendships on people who are just friendly. I even had a conversation yesterday about wanting lots of different names to be posted. One person simply cannot know everyone. And the idea stated above that there are loads of people who kind of secretly hate a small group of people (not said by you!) is honestly such a bummer.

There have definitely been different phases of Lit but I just hit my 5 Yeats here (god help me!) and I've never seen it so open and friendly. All I want is to make places that are fun for everyone to play in and not exclusionary. Don't quit before you start Chilly! No one gets left out.

Well ok unless you were that one guy who wanted to jizz I people's eyeballs or whatever lol!

I really need to clarify…no one made me feel out of place…it was my own insecurities and social anxiety.

I love your threads and you have always been very welcoming and inviting to everyone.

 

[Polranny]

Life can be so cruel

 

[crazychemgirl]

that I wish people were more compassionate

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

I wonder if anyone on an anonymous sex site ever feels that they're "popular". I know for sure I never have. Except maybe when I first joined and posted my bits. That quickly waned.

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

I wonder if anyone on an anonymous sex site ever feels that they're "popular". I know for sure I never have. Except maybe when I first joined and posted my bits. That quickly waned.

Who can be more popular than Buttercup?

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

Who can be more popular than Buttercup?

But I'm definitely not her, even though I found my "farmboy".

 

[Orchidea73]

I really need to clarify…no one made me feel out of place…it was my own insecurities and social anxiety.

I love your threads and you have always been very welcoming and inviting to everyone.

You have always been a genuine, insecurities or not, open and self reflective. For what is worth, it's a quality and strong point in my book.

 

[Orchidea73]

I wonder if anyone on an anonymous sex site ever feels that they're "popular". I know for sure I never have. Except maybe when I first joined and posted my bits. That quickly waned.

Most people don't think about themselves in those terms, IMO. Unless you are a big narcissist.
It's the projection of others and you can do nothing about it.

 

[crazychemgirl]

But I'm definitely not her, even though I found my "farmboy".

 

[Mav Unlimited]

I like to eat, eat, eat…

 

[FunLi]

I like to eat, eat, eat…

Apples & bananas

 

[Dribble]

Am I popular? Yea yea. Am I rich enough? Yea yea. Am I good enough? Yea yea. Come on everybody...rock your body now...

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

I wonder if anyone on an anonymous sex site ever feels that they're "popular". I know for sure I never have. Except maybe when I first joined and posted my bits. That quickly waned.

I don't think I'm unpopular so much as that I'm just pretty much everyone's 20th choice. And/or a cult classic. I may have to step it up with dick pics or something.

 

[crazychemgirl]

Apples & bananas

I legit had that song stuck in my head for a half day … absolutely NO idea why or how it got in there

 

[Mav Unlimited]

I legit had that song stuck in my head for a half day … absolutely NO idea why or how it got in there

I used to have it (and others) stuck in my head for months when my babies were…well babies.

 

[crazychemgirl]

I used to have it (and others) stuck in my head for months when my babies were…well babies.

That’s the weird part … I have no children and am not around children

 

[Mav Unlimited]

That’s the weird part … I have no children and am not around children

Eh who cares. Let’s sing it together…

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

Most people don't think about themselves in those terms, IMO. Unless you are a big narcissist.
It's the projection of others and you can do nothing about it.

As always you hit the nail on the head!

 

[Crankbait88]

I'm thinking some smoked brisket would be good right now.

 

[gga]

I wonder if anyone on an anonymous sex site ever feels that they're "popular". I know for sure I never have. Except maybe when I first joined and posted my bits. That quickly waned.

I'm apparently popular at proms.
Not so much at beach trips.

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

I'm apparently popular at proms.
Not so much at beach trips.

Pssst, I was planning on making out in the back of the bus.

 

[JDSMistress]

The many role play fantasies hidden in the Fantasy section of my brain...and this meme makes me laugh....