Even my dreams are gay now.

[widereceiver]

For most of my life, if I had an erotic dream, it would be about some woman I knew casually — perhaps from work or somewhere else. It generally was someone that I had never done anything with but must have had an attraction for. This has changed this past year. For about a year now my erotic dreams involve a man. It’s not anyone I recognize - my lover is just a generic man with a nice hard cock. Had I gay dreams like this when I was younger, it would have been very disturbing, and threatening to my (then) self-image. Now these dreams are immensely pleasurable. When the dream ends and I wake up, I have a raging hardon. My only complaint is that I don’t have them all that often, and that when I do, they end before I want them too. I wake up thinking, “if only….if only”. I wish I had them more often!

 

[Paddington444]

Are you thinking of actually doing anything about your dreams?

 

[dodgeboy2]

For most of my life, if I had an erotic dream, it would be about some woman I knew casually — perhaps from work or somewhere else. It generally was someone that I had never done anything with but must have had an attraction for. This has changed this past year. For about a year now my erotic dreams involve a man. It’s not anyone I recognize - just a generic man with a nice hard cock. Had I gay dreams like this when I was younger, it would have been very disturbing, and threatening to my (then) self-image. Now these dreams are immensely pleasurable. When the dream ends and I wake up, I have a raging hardon. My only complaint is that I don’t have them all that often, and that when I do, they end before I want them too. I wake up thinking, “if only….if only”. I wish I had them more often!

Me thinks your unconscious mind is maybe attempting to bring out something buried deep inside you in hopes of awakening so secret desires.

 

[Paddington444]

I agree. Just go for it.

 

[widereceiver]

Are you thinking of actually doing anything about your dreams?

Thank you. That’s a good question. The sad fact of the matter is that I don’t have a gay lover/boyfriend or even a suck-buddy or casual hook-up guy. I wish I did. I’m new here in Florida and don’t know many people. My circle of friends, family, and acquaintances is small and none of them are anything but straight as far as I know. Because of my domestic situation, I can’t go places where I’d be likely to make gay friends. For a number of months now I have been keeping my eyes open for someone in the neighborhood who I could see on the down-low. There probably are some guys out there who would go for some casual sex but I haven’t found one yet. It’s frustrating I admit. It would be lonely too if it wasn’t for this forum. At least here there are other gay men who are happy to share their experiences and sometimes even wisdom. I don’t post too often because of my limited experience. My gay encounters happened many years ago and at the time I thought it wasn’t really that gay (although it was) but that I was just having fun fooling around with a couple of guys I met at a gay bar.
The nice thing about these gay dreams is that it is sort of confirmation that I’m really as gay as I think I am. I went through a number of years questioning my sexuality. Was I gay, bi, or just someone with a (gay) porn addiction. Something happened last fall that resolved the issue and I’ve considered myself gay ever since. What’s missing is a partner to enjoy sex with. I keep hoping but I just haven’t been able to bring it about. I tell myself to be more aggressive but I’m just not that way.
Of course, the other nice thing about these dreams is the pleasure I feel when I wake up from one!

 

[Oshkosh60]

I've had dreams in past years where there were females that I was attracted to in a dream. I had one where a former relative was completely naked in the dream. And I had one where I was having anal sex with someone, but that was not an act of pleasure, I was doing a guy who was abusive and belittling to his wife who I had feelings for. I also had dreams where I was dressed in women's under things (yep, an interest there). I even had dreams where I sucked my own cock, But just two night ago I dreamed of another man. He was dressed and I just kept staring at a huge bulge in his pants. Had he whipped it out, I think I would have gone down on it.

 

[widereceiver]

I've had dreams in past years where there were females that I was attracted to in a dream. I had one where a former relative was completely naked in the dream. And I had one where I was having anal sex with someone, but that was not an act of pleasure, I was doing a guy who was abusive and belittling to his wife who I had feelings for. I also had dreams where I was dressed in women's under things (yep, an interest there). I even had dreams where I sucked my own cock, But just two night ago I dreamed of another man. He was dressed and I just kept staring at a huge bulge in his pants. Had he whipped it out, I think I would have gone down on it.

You seem to have a wide variety of interests. I hope you’re enjoying all of it. BTW, the self-suck dream seems to be fairly common. I’ve had that dream quite a few times over the years and, I think, once this past year. There’s a whole thread devoted to dreaming about sucking yourself off.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Thank you. That’s a good question. The sad fact of the matter is that I don’t have a gay lover/boyfriend or even a suck-buddy or casual hook-up guy. I wish I did. I’m new here in Florida and don’t know many people. My circle of friends, family, and acquaintances is small and none of them are anything but straight as far as I know. Because of my domestic situation, I can’t go places where I’d be likely to make gay friends. For a number of months now I have been keeping my eyes open for someone in the neighborhood who I could see on the down-low. There probably are some guys out there who would go for some casual sex but I haven’t found one yet. It’s frustrating I admit. It would be lonely too if it wasn’t for this forum. At least here there are other gay men who are happy to share their experiences and sometimes even wisdom. I don’t post too often because of my limited experience. My gay encounters happened many years ago and at the time I thought it wasn’t really that gay (although it was) but that I was just having fun fooling around with a couple of guys I met at a gay bar.
The nice thing about these gay dreams is that it is sort of confirmation that I’m really as gay as I think I am. I went through a number of years questioning my sexuality. Was I gay, bi, or just someone with a (gay) porn addiction. Something happened last fall that resolved the issue and I’ve considered myself gay ever since. What’s missing is a partner to enjoy sex with. I keep hoping but I just haven’t been able to bring it about. I tell myself to be more aggressive but I’m just not that way.
Of course, the other nice thing about these dreams is the pleasure I feel when I wake up from one!

You can be in my dreams if I can be in yours...?

 

[yowser]

I've got a tale about an odd male-centric obsession that involves wet dreams you might enjoy. There's something about that half-conscious/half-asleep dream state that is strangely alluring.

 

[ChrissyCD64]

I dream about cocks all the time. Most recently I dreamed I was in a world where everyone had a cock, gals had a pussy below theirs and guys had balls below theirs. Everyone also had tits, but only the gals could produce milk. What a wonderful world that would be.

 

[widereceiver]

I dream about cocks all the time. Most recently I dreamed I was in a world where everyone had a cock, gals had a pussy below theirs and guys had balls below theirs. Everyone also had tits, but only the gals could produce milk. What a wonderful world that would be.

No such thing as too many cocks, right?

 

[dodgeboy2]

No such thing as too many cocks, right?

Widereceiver I think that quote answered what I had said above, you have something inside you that just might need to be released (and I don't mean just cum released)!

 

[mtsnowrider]

No such thing as too many cocks, right?

Actually, just one - if its the right one - would do

 

[ChrissyCD64]

No such thing as too many cocks, right?

Absolutely not. The more cocks the better in my opinion.

 

[Paddington444]

One at a time I’m not greedy.

 

[none2_none2]

Actually, just one - if its the right one - would do

I still feel that way too many guys on here have the cart before the horse. While I way prefer ass over cock, regardless, it is the man that matters, not any of his body parts.


My guy was gone for a few days to Colorado to spend time with his son and family. I was so happy when he got back home safe and sound. It wasn't about missing his body parts, but about missing him. Life is Wonderful when you have someone to care about and visa versa.

 

[widereceiver]

I still feel that way too many guys on here have the cart before the horse. While I way prefer ass over cock, regardless, it is the man that matters, not any of his body parts.


My guy was gone for a few days to Colorado to spend time with his son and family. I was so happy when he got back home safe and sound. It wasn't about missing his body parts, but about missing him. Life is Wonderful when you have someone to care about and visa versa.

Well said. You are so lucky you have someone special to share your life with.

 

[Tayloroc]

I dream about cocks all the time. Most recently I dreamed I was in a world where everyone had a cock, gals had a pussy below theirs and guys had balls below theirs. Everyone also had tits, but only the gals could produce milk. What a wonderful world that would be.

That is a wonderful dream. Milky breasts and cocks galore

 

[AddyB]

Thank you. That’s a good question. The sad fact of the matter is that I don’t have a gay lover/boyfriend or even a suck-buddy or casual hook-up guy. I wish I did. I’m new here in Florida and don’t know many people. My circle of friends, family, and acquaintances is small and none of them are anything but straight as far as I know. Because of my domestic situation, I can’t go places where I’d be likely to make gay friends. For a number of months now I have been keeping my eyes open for someone in the neighborhood who I could see on the down-low. There probably are some guys out there who would go for some casual sex but I haven’t found one yet. It’s frustrating I admit. It would be lonely too if it wasn’t for this forum. At least here there are other gay men who are happy to share their experiences and sometimes even wisdom. I don’t post too often because of my limited experience. My gay encounters happened many years ago and at the time I thought it wasn’t really that gay (although it was) but that I was just having fun fooling around with a couple of guys I met at a gay bar.
The nice thing about these gay dreams is that it is sort of confirmation that I’m really as gay as I think I am. I went through a number of years questioning my sexuality. Was I gay, bi, or just someone with a (gay) porn addiction. Something happened last fall that resolved the issue and I’ve considered myself gay ever since. What’s missing is a partner to enjoy sex with. I keep hoping but I just haven’t been able to bring it about. I tell myself to be more aggressive but I’m just not that way.
Of course, the other nice thing about these dreams is the pleasure I feel when I wake up from one!

So when you dream gay, it's called HOCD, that is homosexual OCD. I've looked it up in the past and it also says you're most likely not gay, but I've been dreaming sexually about men for probably about 15 years now! I don't believe they were right about me since I REALLY enjoy sucking cock now! Just recently a man reached out to me on silver daddies gay hook up site. I think you should also go to silver daddies and sign up. There are quite a lot of men in Florida that would love your mouth slurping on their cock! Go to the site through incognito on your phone if you have it. If not remember to erase your history so nobody can see it. I can't get enough of my guy's cock or the rest of his body for that matter! I love it when he makes me his little spoon in bed! There are numerous gay hook up sites, but not all are great. Pm me and I'll tell you which ones I've found that I like. Kiss,kiss baby!

 

[widereceiver]

That’s an informative post. Thank you. I never heard of HOCD before so I had to look it up too. I’m not sure if it applies to me, but then I undoubtedly have only a superficial understanding of it. In the past there was a time when I did fear being homosexual. During the several years leading up to accepting it, there definitely was a part of me that kept saying “Lord, please don’t let me be a homosexual.” For most of my life, I saw gays as lesser men as compared to straight guys (like me). The idea of being gay just didn’t fit in with how I saw myself. I couldn’t really be gay, could I? In the end, it seemed inescapable that I was. The good thing about it is that once I accepted it, I felt an inner happiness. It wasn’t dreadful at all. I sort of see it as the last stop in a sexual journey, the end of the line. And I don’t have a return ticket, and I wouldn’t take that ticket now if it was offered.
As far as not living an active gay lifestyle, that’s a problem that I’ll have to resolve somehow. Meanwhile, I’m grateful this forum exists. I love coming here and I really appreciate some of the people who post here. There are several here that I think of as friends even though we don’t know each other’s real names. Thanks again for the advice.
I hope those gay dreams keep coming!

 

[tristantrotsky]

Absolutely not. The more cocks the better in my opinion.

Sometimes a horny mood comes over you that just won't quit, and you crave more than just one...

 

[SouthCoast2]

For most of my life, if I had an erotic dream, it would be about some woman I knew casually — perhaps from work or somewhere else. It generally was someone that I had never done anything with but must have had an attraction for. This has changed this past year. For about a year now my erotic dreams involve a man. It’s not anyone I recognize - my lover is just a generic man with a nice hard cock. Had I gay dreams like this when I was younger, it would have been very disturbing, and threatening to my (then) self-image. Now these dreams are immensely pleasurable. When the dream ends and I wake up, I have a raging hardon. My only complaint is that I don’t have them all that often, and that when I do, they end before I want them too. I wake up thinking, “if only….if only”. I wish I had them more often!

Nothing wrong with expanding your sexual views...dreaming and wanting about cocks might be in your head only which is fine....and in real life you might find pussy is still your #1

 

[AddyB]

That’s an informative post. Thank you. I never heard of HOCD before so I had to look it up too. I’m not sure if it applies to me, but then I undoubtedly have only a superficial understanding of it. In the past there was a time when I did fear being homosexual. During the several years leading up to accepting it, there definitely was a part of me that kept saying “Lord, please don’t let me be a homosexual.” For most of my life, I saw gays as lesser men as compared to straight guys (like me). The idea of being gay just didn’t fit in with how I saw myself. I couldn’t really be gay, could I? In the end, it seemed inescapable that I was. The good thing about it is that once I accepted it, I felt an inner happiness. It wasn’t dreadful at all. I sort of see it as the last stop in a sexual journey, the end of the line. And I don’t have a return ticket, and I wouldn’t take that ticket now if it was offered.
As far as not living an active gay lifestyle, that’s a problem that I’ll have to resolve somehow. Meanwhile, I’m grateful this forum exists. I love coming here and I really appreciate some of the people who post here. There are several here that I think of as friends even though we don’t know each other’s real names. Thanks again for the advice.
I hope those gay dreams keep coming!

I'm so happy I could help! Being gay is what I've wanted for so long and now that I have my Daddy (that's what I call him) I love being in his bed loving on him! I hope you find a lover!
Kiss, kiss,
Addy