What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

So when you do the pic swap with a guy and he doesn’t say anything about your looks good or bad….just says it’s late talk to you tomorrow.

Wanna bet I don’t hear from him again?
Oh yes... Been there, done that... And then, if it's here on Lit, they're still posting on the threads for the next few hours even though it was 'late' ...
Yep. I have a whole shelf of those t-shirts.
I'm so sorry.
It really sucks.
 
I know many people in that situation. It seams to happen for many different reasons.
It still hurts my heart to read about it all. :(
I don’t know why there are so many more men. Well, I do, but I do t understand it. It’s the opposite in my house so it’s weird to see it being primarily a guy thing over there.
 
It still hurts my heart to read about it all. :(
I don’t know why there are so many more men. Well, I do, but I do t understand it. It’s the opposite in my house so it’s weird to see it being primarily a guy thing over there.
There should definitely be a study. Probably has been. Men’s sex drive decreases around the time women’s sex drive increases. I think.
But it’s also about how people take care of themselves. Eat right and exercise.

People think they can do what they’ve always done and nothing will change.
 
It still hurts my heart to read about it all. :(
I don’t know why there are so many more men. Well, I do, but I do t understand it. It’s the opposite in my house so it’s weird to see it being primarily a guy thing over there.
Mine has been sexless for over half of the years we've been married... Which is a lot...
 
There should definitely be a study. Probably has been. Men’s sex drive decreases around the time women’s sex drive increases. I think.
But it’s also about how people take care of themselves. Eat right and exercise.

People think they can do what they’ve always done and nothing will change.
I think it’s that, but I also think some people just settle in. Like they’ve met their partner and now they don’t have to make any effort anymore.

I don’t know about anyone else, but I like being told my partner finds me attractive. Or that he wants me. Or even if he flirts with me. This doesn’t happen nearly often enough, but engaging with your partner is 100% a choice.

It’s no wonder so many people come here to interact and feel something.

Okay, I’ll shut up now. Oh look, it’s cold. 🙄
 
It still hurts my heart to read about it all. :(
I don’t know why there are so many more men. Well, I do, but I do t understand it. It’s the opposite in my house so it’s weird to see it being primarily a guy thing over there.
Actually most of the people I know are female. I don’t think my male friends would tell me though 🤔
 
So when you do the pic swap with a guy and he doesn’t say anything about your looks good or bad….just says it’s late talk to you tomorrow.

Wanna bet I don’t hear from him again?
Was he from this group? That's bull crap I have to believe any lady that's on this site is beautiful, because we all have extra desires that we share on some level of similiarities which means there's some level of connection.
 
Would you rather be/play/talk with someone completely stable but a little boring or someone sexy and a little crazy?
Well, let's see. I've painted many rooms for sexy and crazy, helped her move multiple times, changed her kids diapers, and cleaned up her puke after she's passed out drunk. On the other hand, I'm struggling to recall the last time I lifted a finger to be of service to stable but boring.
Sometimes I imagine I'd prefer stable but boring, but the facts prove otherwise. Guess I'm a little crazy myself. :unsure:
 
Would you rather be/play/talk with someone completely stable but a little boring or someone sexy and a little crazy?
I need both stability and a little crazy in my life. It depends on many factors. Right this moment I’ll go with sexy and a little crazy. Later today my answer might be different. Excellent question to ponder
 
So when you do the pic swap with a guy and he doesn’t say anything about your looks good or bad….just says it’s late talk to you tomorrow.

Wanna bet I don’t hear from him again?
If you don’t, that’s the trash taking itself out. Problem solved.
You deserve someone who wants to trace every line of your body with his/her 😉fingertips, like reading braille.
(Big 🫂)
 
This more of a feeling, but it's an honest one. I wish i could have a hug right now. There isn't anyone to give me one, I know that. It's been years since there was anyone around to give me a hug. I'm not sure, maybe I need more than a hug, maybe I need to be held. It wont happen. Not sure how I would deal with it if someone tried. I might cry to be honest. Fuck I hate this. Being a man in this world sometimes sucks pretty bad.
((((((((( @Nevyn_Black )))))))))
Hug for you my brother. You aren't alone in that.
I totally respect your talking about these things. Not everyone can do that.
 
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