What do you like doing when neither writing about nor indulging in sex?

Running is one of my favorite things. A few years ago I was running marathons and did a triathlon once, but I'm not in the same shape I was then and am working my way back to it. I hope to do another race before the end of the year. I'm an avid hiker and backpacker and I love getting into the mountains whenever I can. Reading, of course. Cooking. Occasional birdwatching. Photography.
 
-Playing guitar in a band.
-Reading Fantasy
-Reading Philosophy
-Playing chess
-Playing basketball twice a week
-Wondering what the hell am I doing with my life...
 
I've realised that recently I've been rather stuck in a cycle of work, eat, cum, sleep - repeat.

I love being social, anything like pubs, clubs, drinking, talking or dancing I am 100% in! Let's go!

Other than that I feel I've kind of lost my other interests a bit, I powerlift at the gym 2-3 times each week but need to figure out what else I want to do again ❤️
 
Hey, Em - I got a chuckle from your latest poll-of-sorts. There was a similar thread here a couple of years ago, and in that one I was hopelessly vague for a reason. Problem is when you get right down to it, list enough personal details especially about niche interests and you can triangulate into a very limited set of specific individuals.

In your case you list healthy general and popular pastimes, and can remain relatively anonymous. In my situation and I think for several of the others here, we can get specific enough in as few as four or five pursuits we enjoy to pin down who we are. My life observation is that the older one gets, the more concentrated and specific our pastimes become.

F'rinstance, my sig line alone winnows me down to less than, oh, maybe a thousand possible individuals. Add a couple of other unique pastimes and you'll be in my driveway.
At 67, I no longer care who finds me here, if they even know where to look. Most of them have either passed or I haven't seen them in years. So I'm weird, but not too much by the standards of Lit. So what?

I don't even have a driveway, I have a street. If you see this, you're getting close (it's changed a bit since the 1970's):

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I like dress up, but maybe not that. Has enough of nuns at school.

Em
You can't remember the old school nuns of the 1960's. Those were real nuns. Fortunately, I only had to see them one afternoon per week. The shorter they were, the meaner they were.
 
Nothing is more dangerous than the Youtube rabbit hole...just one more video, its only ten minutes....ten vids later
I was thinking of the comments - hundreds of them sometimes, comments on comments. comments on those comments.

Anyway, I like the History Channel series on the Civil War. Glad I didn't have to fight in any of those battles. As one Confederate general said of Cold Harbor, "This isn't war; it's murder."
 
I was thinking of the comments - hundreds of them sometimes, comments on comments. comments on those comments.

Anyway, I like the History Channel series on the Civil War. Glad I didn't have to fight in any of those battles. As one Confederate general said of Cold Harbor, "This isn't war; it's murder."
Yeah, often the comments are more amusing than the videos

I like watching horror movie reviews, always interesting how one person can just gush over the same movie someone trashed.

Kind of like stories here I guess.
 
And usually driven by money, politics or religion and never fought by the assholes that start them.

"Only the dead have seen the end of war." Sometimes attributed to Plato, but definitely used by George Santayana. And those assholes go back before the beginning of written history, so I doubt we've seen the end of them too.
 
I can't imagine how scary it must have been for the men who fought in some of those battles.
It's hard to grasp what it must have been like. Glory has some intense depictions of Civil War battles. I'd link to them, but you can find them online if you are curious. The History Channel reenactments are horrific too.
 
I am exceptionally good at sleep
Read - Tech info if I need it / news if I can find it / Finding ideas I can play with in the kitchen
Stock Market
Interact with Mom and family as much as possible
Movies and binge watching shows with no commercials
Always a jigsaw puzzle going in the big TV room
Prefer 1500 or more pieces Springbok and Ravensburger the best
Wine - Red or white. Will repeat if I like it and it does not cause a headache
Cook dinner daily
Cook Something on the weekend so lunch is quick, easy and good during the week
Some baking as the sweet tooth comes and goes. Baked things are usually for someone else.
Luckily I enjoy shopping
Hunt / target shoot / trap
Smoker / charcoal grill / small grill and a gas grill
Soduku - Apinet IQ or Brain nested 13 size
Grow stuff
Looking for things sexual / Erotic online
Is masturbation sex?
If I can find one to indulge me I enjoy providing massage
Wood working can be as relaxing as providing a massage
General DIY kind of nerd
Wish I was good at photography and had more indoor natural light
Polish and wax my car(s) twice per year
Pickleball if there are enough for doubles
Fair weather bike rider
Befriend other peoples pets
Not much at all, but I do love to fish if I can cook and eat what I keep
 
Yeah, often the comments are more amusing than the videos

I like watching horror movie reviews, always interesting how one person can just gush over the same movie someone trashed.

Kind of like stories here I guess.
Hey, all of that is to be expected.
 
It's hard to grasp what it must have been like. Glory has some intense depictions of Civil War battles. I'd link to them, but you can find them online if you are curious. The History Channel reenactments are horrific too.

Being a westerner to the roots, the brutality of the Civil War didn't resonate for me. A few years ago I was driving back from Alabama and had time, so I stopped and toured the Vicksburg battle monument. It was shocking to me--the number of men who died, and the small area they died in. It was slaughter on both sides of the lines.
 
1. Writing (& other forms of freelancing incl. Graphic Design, Customer Outreach, and Data Entry): The unsexy shit that pays bills. It's my primary occupation.
2. Reading: Of literally everything. This would normally be in the #1 spot, but my eyes are ageing and I'm waiting on some progressive lenses at the moment. Otherwise I have to hold books at very specific distances under maximum light.
3. Writing: The creative kind outside the erotic space. Some of this relates to...
4. Gaming: I'm a big tabletop gamer and have been running a weekly group on VTT (Virtual Tabletop) since 2016.
5. Cooking: I'm exploring the Afro-Caribbean space, currently.
6. Movies: I can't even get into the details, it would be its own post. Been a cinephile since I was ten, at least.
7. Restaurants: A regular weekly treat is going across the street to an amazing steak house where I can get a solid surf-and-turf or a Korean rice bowl with equal ease.
8. Current Affairs: Formerly higher on my list, but I've had to insulate myself from certain elements of media coverage for the sake of my mental health.
9. TV: The streaming era is a Golden Age of the Small Screen, and I'm here for it.
10. Walking: I'm past the age of running, but I still take walks.
 
Being a westerner to the roots, the brutality of the Civil War didn't resonate for me. A few years ago I was driving back from Alabama and had time, so I stopped and toured the Vicksburg battle monument. It was shocking to me--the number of men who died, and the small area they died in. It was slaughter on both sides of the lines.
I had a great-great grandfather who came over from Germany (he had been in one of the armies over there too) who fought with a New York regiment. My mom had one photo of him taken years later and I think my sister has it now.

All wars are slaughters. We have Ukraine right now (I give it a 50% chance that other powers will directly intervene), various lower-level conflicts in Africa (the French can't keep their hands out of there), probably still activity in Syria, and I'd have to check to see what else is happening in the world.
 
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