Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

[shenglung]

The lake in his AV is where he wants to be fucking buried.

Well just ignore him and focus on your friends here, we've always got your back

For now though listen to your theme song with some art to cheer you up... I'm going to start on the improvements to it later today and next time you see it will be even better

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

in general I find almost every one here respectful of each other. The flirtatious banter is consensual. I believe all relationships are built on communication and consent which means lots of respect. So with those words, enjoying my very clean house, I will hopefully see you later.

 

[BrendaBear]

I'll be returning properly into Chaos in a couple weeks, if all goes to plan.

I can't be kept away from Chaos for long

 

[drobert44]

Same!

For sure...

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

People that screenshot others pictures and repost them elsewhere. Then try to play stupid have serious issues

Whiskey Tango Foxtrot...seriously?

People need to learn boundaries. We lost a prolific poster here for a time over this short of bullshit. Look at the pics and enjoy them. Commit them to memory if you like. Then go do something productive.

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

in general I find almost every one here respectful of each other. The flirtatious banter is consensual. I believe all relationships are built on communication and consent which means lots of respect. So with those words, enjoying my very clean house, I will hopefully see you later.

Okay serious question for you guys.

How do women know when they cross the line? Do men feel like they can speak up and say they are not interested? Do certain things make men uncomfortable?

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

I will only say this once. I do not welcome you in Chaos Muddler. Persona non grata.

Ignored.

Whoever this is, its gotta be a new record fast time from noob to twatwaffle

 

[Strixaluco]

Okay serious question for you guys.

How do women know when they cross the line? Do men feel like they can speak up and say they are not interested? Do certain things make men uncomfortable?

I've rarely heard from a man that he's not interested. Usually I've been able to read it from little signs a lot before it gets to the point where he would have felt necessary to say it out loud, and backed off. Meaning given up on hanging around, usually.

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Okay serious question for you guys.

How do women know when they cross the line? Do men feel like they can speak up and say they are not interested? Do certain things make men uncomfortable?

It varies from person to person. Some will give a WTH. Others might pull back and not say anything. Others might just stop talking to them.
Really depends on what was said.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

It's a fucking alt to traumatise me all over again.

Sorry to hear that.

 

[Cindy027]

It's a fucking alt to traumatise me all over again.

I had a similar experience with conservativemale45 in the chat.
He used to come into the Bi&Lesbian room and then PM me and and used the same line every time that he was going to smash my pussy and give me the best sex of my life and a whole lot of other disgusting stuff. The mods banned him, he would just create a new profile and start again. So I left chat for a while and took a break. I have been back since and he seems to have got bored and moved on.

So I know how this can affect you, I got so worked up and got so angry I used to shake and couldn’t think straight for quite a while.

 

[Cindy027]

I've rarely heard from a man that he's not interested. Usually I've been able to read it from little signs a lot before it gets to the point where he would have felt necessary to say it out loud, and backed off. Meaning given up on hanging around, usually.

Men PM me and start chatting to me via PMs and when they discover I’m gay they lose interest I generally have to tell them this because it’s in my profile

 

[shenglung]

Okay serious question for you guys.

How do women know when they cross the line? Do men feel like they can speak up and say they are not interested? Do certain things make men uncomfortable?

Its hard to know where any individuals lines are till you've discussed it with them. I can only answer for myself, but if I'm uncomfortable I will message the person privately and state where I stand and why. As for what makes one uncomfortable it varies from person to person and there own history and experiences.

TL;DR Just try and communicate honestly with people.

 

[Strixaluco]

Men PM me and start chatting to me via PMs and when they discover I’m gay they lose interest I generally have to tell them this because it’s in my profile

Having to tell men things that are already in the profile is common.

Wonder how often it happens to men - women not reading their profile before PMing?

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Men PM me and start chatting to me via PMs and when they discover I’m gay they lose interest I generally have to tell them this because it’s in my profile

Omg. You’re gay? Tell me it’s not so. I was about to PM you and offer the most life changing experience “ experience aka margarita “.

Kidding around aside. Straight bi gay. Makes no difference to me. You’re cool with me. I’ll be cool with you.

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

Apparently you two don't watch Its Always Sunny in Philadelphia like Nebs...
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You know me so well!

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Afternoon Nebs. How is your day going?

 

[drobert44]

Men PM me and start chatting to me via PMs and when they discover I’m gay they lose interest I generally have to tell them this because it’s in my profile

Hell Cindy, that makes you interesting!

 

[drobert44]

Okay serious question for you guys.

How do women know when they cross the line? Do men feel like they can speak up and say they are not interested? Do certain things make men uncomfortable?

Well Ord......I am kind of an outlier here, as I am a combat vet and nothing here bothers me much.

 

[Trubbycat]

This was me last night trying to read Lit when the cat wanted attention.

Chaos.

https://imgur.com/a/GvmhUjT

 

[Trubbycat]

Men PM me and start chatting to me via PMs and when they discover I’m gay they lose interest I generally have to tell them this because it’s in my profile

I have no issue talking to gay women (or men). They're people too, some are nice, some are assholes, and you might even learn something.

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

Having to tell men things that are already in the profile is common.

Wonder how often it happens to men - women not reading their profile before PMing?

Communication!!!

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Omg. You’re gay? Tell me it’s not so. I was about to PM you and offer the most life changing experience “ experience aka margarita “.

Kidding around aside. Straight bi gay. Makes no difference to me. You’re cool with me. I’ll be cool with you.

That's kinda the difference with Chaos. At least for the most part nobody's going to be upset at flirting, double entendres and that sort of thing. Twatwaffles, asshats and morons need not apply.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Okay serious question for you guys.

How do women know when they cross the line? Do men feel like they can speak up and say they are not interested? Do certain things make men uncomfortable?

It has never happened. OTOH I have never been stalked or harassed.

 

[BrendaBear]

That's kinda the difference with Chaos. At least for the most part nobody's going to be upset at flirting, double entendres and that sort of thing. Twatwaffles, asshats and morons need not apply.