Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

[cascadiabound]

My wife freaked out when our hair stylist recognized us and called me Rj.

I believe I warned you about not sharing too much identifiable information. Glad your wife is getting you to smarten up.

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

And while I forgot myself writing an essay, you already discussed most of thirst points I made

Yeah but I liked your essay. It was great.
You were gonna tell me something about horses or something yesterday and told me to remind you?

 

[Strixaluco]

I need some and a .. .

 

[Strixaluco]

Yeah but I liked your essay. It was great.
You were gonna tell me something about horses or something yesterday and told me to remind you?

Oh yes. I promised to dig something up for you. Just wait until I get myself in order... Need to stop a migraine in its tracks.

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

Oh yes. I promised to dig something up for you. Just wait until I get myself in order... Need to stop a migraine in its tracks.

No rush Strixy

 

[cascadiabound]

Not weirded out so much but I have looked through the BDSM stuff and it has somewhat shocked me. I can’t believe that a lot of it is consensual, this could of course be my limited understanding of it.

Anyhoo, my feelings aside you can post what you want

If it's not consensual it's not BDSM
(just because you are or might be interested in some stuff does not mean you should or are interested in other activities-- it's a buffet ~ take what you want, leave the rest. That’s why anyone thoughtful about this stuff will always say that communication is key...)

And thank you @Strixaluco for sharing.

I too get a lot of amazing feels from being bound and I like the attention required to have someone place me in bondage. That's super arousing.
Also...as a dyed in the wool feminist I never imagined I would like pain as part of arousal/sexual activities, but turns out it is just what I want/need at times and gives me that same calm quiet surrender and wipes my busy mind clean in a way nothing else does. It's very weird, but seems to be part of how I'm wired.

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

Lmao
I think there may be a logical fallacy in there somewhere

Love ya Indie!

Shhh. Let me dream a little.

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

Interesting conversations about sex kinks. As we old hippies used to say "whatever floats your boat"! In my true confession, I never was into bondage and never into pain recieved or delivered. We often would switch to whomever was in greater need and wanted control. Some days she was the one who took the initiative and I did as instructed usually, "lay down, I am going to ride you". If I took the initiative, I might say "lay down, I want to pound".

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

BTW - the rain is freezing on trees and power lines as I look out the window. I have batteries and now a good supply of lanterns and flashlights.

 

[cascadiabound]

I know I must sound like a pompous old windbag talking about Kinks. But understand this: I am counselling / mentoring a couple on another site who have gotten themselves mixed up with a bad Dom. He is a sexual sadist, not a Dominant. He is way too extreme for their wants and needs (Theirs is a cuckold fantasy with a bit of SPH, even though he is normal size, and some bondage, impact and humiliation). He puts them through stuff that makes the Story of O seem like Winnie the Pooh (although, you have to wonder about what all that honey was for).

Lovely to see you Tan and NO, you DO NOT sound like a pompous windbag.
You have also been a font of knowledge and wisdom in my experience.
Glad you are helping that poor abused couple.

 

[Cindy027]

This is for the guys on here;
Let’s say that you are at an airport and you see a cute lady scrolling on her phone and you manage to see it’s Lit. What is your immediate thought?

Btw: airport is interchangeable with any public area

 

[Trubbycat]

Lovely to see you Tan and NO, you DO NOT sound like a pompous windbag.
You have also been a font of knowledge and wisdom in my experience.
Glad you are helping that poor abused couple.

Yes, I second that. Our sex lives and identities can be very fragile and tied in to our self-esteem. A bastard like you mention can do serious harm to people. Thanks for your good deed.

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

This is for the guys on here;
Let’s say that you are at an airport and you see a cute lady scrolling on her phone and you manage to see it’s Lit. What is your immediate thought?

Btw: airport is interchangeable with any public area

I would never look over anyone's shoulder to see what they were doing on their phone.

 

[Trubbycat]

This is for the guys on here;
Let’s say that you are at an airport and you see a cute lady scrolling on her phone and you manage to see it’s Lit. What is your immediate thought?

Btw: airport is interchangeable with any public area

I would be terrified. For all my yakkiness here I'm still a shy boy and have to put on an effort to be outgoing. I would not go right in with the Lit, but if we somehow had already struck up a conversation like in a TsA line or Starbucks, I would.

 

[HarryHill]

BTW - the rain is freezing on trees and power lines as I look out the window. I have batteries and now a good supply of lanterns and flashlights.

Ice storms are the most sucky-ist things that can happen in winter, also the prettiest.

 

[Trubbycat]

Ice storms are the most sucky-ist things that can happen in winter, also the prettiest.

If you're home and warm...

 

[Strixaluco]

If you're home and warm...

There's still the ice to be dealt with afterwards...

 

[de_valmont]

There's still the ice to be dealt with afterwards...

Currently it's spring in my place, too warm for end of February, we started to roll back winter changes in the garden. But I'm sure there will be very cold days and nights again until Blackberry Winter.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Lovely to see you Tan and NO, you DO NOT sound like a pompous windbag.
You have also been a font of knowledge and wisdom in my experience.
Glad you are helping that poor abused couple.

Thanks Cas

 

[traill]

Just random thought from today at my new job. How lucky am I to have such a gig, that's also incredibly flexible. So feeling rather grateful and happy that all the hard work has paid off.

 

[Strixaluco]

Currently it's spring in my place, too warm for end of February, we started to roll back winter changes in the garden. But I'm sure there will be very cold days and nights again until Blackberry Winter.

My comment was in regards to the ice storm that some (many) are experiencing at the moment. ½-1 inch of ice will take a while to melt afterwards, even if it gets warm for February.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

This is for the guys on here;
Let’s say that you are at an airport and you see a cute lady scrolling on her phone and you manage to see it’s Lit. What is your immediate thought?

Btw: airport is interchangeable with any public area

Interesting scenario.

Let's start with "Do I know her?" I have seen relatively few faces here. If I recognized say Brenda Bear or Justa or Sassy, I would say hello and invite her for a coffee / beer / wine.*

I would have a much better chance if her breasts were bare.

Otherwise...my mind would naturally start to wander...a story / fantasy would form (its already forming). .

But if I couldn't figure out who she was, I don't think I would approach her directly.

However, if I can see that she's on Lit, presumably I could see what thread she is on.

If she is on the GB or Politics, absolutely not. Those chicks are crazy and not "good crazy". Same if she's ranting about scores on "Authors".

If she is on Kink, BDSM or most of the PG threads (places I go regularly)...I am interested and might follow my friend's wise advise of five years ago and post stalk her...(a pretty woman advised me to "post stalk" everyone).

If she is on AmPics I will immediately start undressing her with my eyes, for identification purposes only of course. (I would likely open "Titty Tuesday" or "Show your Breasts..." for reference).

*ETA: @BrendaD gets Irish Whiskey of course.

 

[Cindy027]

This is for the guys on here;
Let’s say that you are at an airport and you see a cute lady scrolling on her phone and you manage to see it’s Lit. What is your immediate thought?

Btw: airport is interchangeable with any public area

Right, it seems that the Chaos men are well mannered and mind their own business . So definitely the wrong thread to ask this in .

From my perspective I have done this, been looking at Lit while in transit, and I have had some try to see what I was doing. I don’t think they ever knew what I was looking at. My thoughts on this are just leave me the hell alone, because I am looking at an erotic site doesn’t mean I want to engage with anyone and I think guys think the opposite

 

[drobert44]

Right, it seems that the Chaos men are well mannered and mind their own business . So definitely the wrong thread to ask this in .

From my perspective I have done this, been looking at Lit while in transit, and I have had some try to see what I was doing. I don’t think they ever knew what I was looking at. My thoughts on this are just leave me the hell alone, because I am looking at an erotic site doesn’t mean I want to engage with anyone and I think guys think the opposite

I would ask her why she likes Lit.

 

[Cindy027]

I would ask her why she likes Lit.

Wrong, worst answer ever !!!!