Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

[Strixaluco]

I’ve seen people on Lit try to say.
Oh we don’t shame or judge people. Yet there’s threads that do just that.
Least be honest

Yes that definitely happens. Sometimes even the next sentence is judging.

 

[LittleSwitchy]

By least be honest. I wasn’t pointing finger to anyone specifically

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

I don't think my dad would appreciate that, with so many niggles and health issues it might feel a bit too fitting

In my "vintage" years I have to poke fun at myself. I laugh more and that is what I like with my persian lady - we laugh a lot.

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

BTW - I am taking a break to baake more breakfast cookies for my grandson. Back in a bite (oops I mean bit).

 

[Strixaluco]

I misunderstood it for one.

At first I thought it was a way to rp pedophilia.

Then possibly an abusive situation.

Now I understand especially with it having been the natural progression of my former relationship.

I think I would have thought of the pedophilia or even incest, it's a small wonder I even opened that thread. I was lucky, I happened to circumvent a very likely prejudice before it had time to happen.

But when you see littles IRL meetings or parties, physically adult people totally immersed in playing like kids... You won't think it's pedophilia or abusive, it's so clearly part of the littles themselves. But still even people who have seen that, judge the lifestyle. Maybe they refuse to see what contradicts their prejudice.

 

[rjr_1954]

@BrendaD

It seems that I woke up that way this morning. My wife is coming out of her shell. Now I'm finding out just what she bought at the adult store. She's playing into my best fantasy or is it hers

 

[LittleSwitchy]

I think I would have thought of the pedophilia or even incest, it's a small wonder I even opened that thread. I was lucky, I happened to circumvent a very likely prejudice before it had time to happen.

But when you see littles IRL meetings or parties, physically adult people totally immersed in playing like kids... You won't think it's pedophilia or abusive, it's so clearly part of the littles themselves. But still even people who have seen that, judge the lifestyle. Maybe they refuse to see what contradicts their prejudice.

I think it’s a loving, nurturing, caring, supportive, non sexual relationship.
It lets the adult let go of everyday things and completely relax in themselves.

 

[LustfulIntentions2]

You’ve waited for it, worked for it. Now enjoy it

What he said. Let yourself have a good thing and know you deserve it.

 

[Strixaluco]

I think it’s a loving, nurturing, caring, supportive, non sexual relationship.
It lets the adult let go of everyday things and completely relax in themselves.

It is. Often even experiencing something that was missing while growing up, for one reason or another.

But it may just as well be sexual. It varies between littles if they are sexual in their little space or not.

 

[Strixaluco]

What he said. Let yourself have a good thing and know you deserve it.

Oh I do, I definitely do!

 

[Ingenue844]

I think I would have thought of the pedophilia or even incest, it's a small wonder I even opened that thread. I was lucky, I happened to circumvent a very likely prejudice before it had time to happen.

But when you see littles IRL meetings or parties, physically adult people totally immersed in playing like kids... You won't think it's pedophilia or abusive, it's so clearly part of the littles themselves. But still even people who have seen that, judge the lifestyle. Maybe they refuse to see what contradicts their prejudice.

I haven’t seen them irl. And I think I missed that they play like kids.

My situation doesn’t seem to match the conventional DDlg and was very geared to how he and I just are irl.

We weren’t in play about it. I tend to be childish naturally. He’s like flipping Captain America and I just gave him control. He was a really good influence on me but also let me be who I am.

 

[rjr_1954]

@BrendaD

Read my other posts

 

[LittleSwitchy]

I haven’t seen them irl. And I think I missed that they play like kids.

My situation doesn’t seem to match the conventional DDlg and was very geared to how he and I just are irl.

We weren’t in play about it. I tend to be childish naturally. He’s like flipping Captain America and I just gave him control. He was a really good influence on me but also let me be who I am.

Some littles love sitting on the floor in front of a coffee table or sitting at a desk. While they take crayons and color in coloring books. Maybe doing jigsaw puzzles. Not to mention the verbalization they might have.

 

[Strixaluco]

I haven’t seen them irl. And I think I missed that they play like kids.

I didn't assume you had - that's just something I've seen here IRL.

Some littles play like kids, because they play or regress to a kid. Here we have a few very visible persons on the scene who often play. Count in unicorns, pastel colours, colouring books, glitter, teddy bears etc... Or "middles" indeed give the appearance of teens.

My situation doesn’t seem to match the conventional DDlg and was very geared to how he and I just are irl.

We weren’t in play about it. I tend to be childish naturally. He’s like flipping Captain America and I just gave him control. He was a really good influence on me but also let me be who I am.

Sound a bit like I am I don't have little age, but I let my childish, innocent side free.

 

[Ingenue844]

The book IT got me into reading King books. I kinda lost it with the gunslinger series

I read the original 7 Dark Tower books. I hear there are more now but never went back to it.

I just watched the Pennywise documentary, about the making of the mini series which I remember becoming obsessed with in 6th grade when it first aired. I definitely recommend the documentary. It was fun seeing the cast today.

 

[Ingenue844]

Some littles love sitting on the floor in front of a coffee table or sitting at a desk. While they take crayons and color in coloring books. Maybe doing jigsaw puzzles. Not to mention the verbalization they might have.

I think I did catch a hint of that in the DDlg thread.

 

[LittleSwitchy]

I don’t presume I know a ton about it. I do understand the dynamic.

 

[rjr_1954]

@BrendaD
Page 3985 Rj

 

[Strixaluco]

Hmm... Now what. Hmmm. Perhaps nothing for a while.

 

[Codeman93]

Good morning y’all

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Actually, you can't always trust that. Even in the BDSM lifestyle there are people who frown upon DD/lg.

The feeling of preparation is just a tiny part of it for me. It's the association for being taken care of, being safe in his hands.

(I am hesitating here because I remember the last time this was discussed). I have seen that a bit, but all it takes is talking for five minutes to recognize that DD/lg folks hate pedos as much as us who enjoy bondage, pain, discipline and the rest of the BDSM spectrum.

Anyone on the lifestyle should already know that communication is key.

 

[BrendaBear]

I rather take leather restraints. Slow tying up and in the end slow release don't suit me, I can't stay in one position for that long.

Me too - I have only used leather restraints or nylon straps with velcro - much better to get out of quickly in an emergency situation… like an important phone call.

 

[BrendaBear]

I am not sure I understand this statement. If I had to guess, is it about some new members?

Not at all - about I.T. departments at businesses.

 

[Strixaluco]

(I am hesitating here because I remember the last time this was discussed). I have seen that a bit, but all it takes is talking for five minutes to recognize that DD/lg folks hate pedos as much as us who enjoy bondage, pain, discipline and the rest of the BDSM spectrum.

Anyone on the lifestyle should already know that communication is key.

True. Or that should be easily visible. Yet it happens even between people who have seen little IRL. It seems like it's "I don't understand it so it must be wrong" - and never stopping to discuss long enough to understand.

I've seen people seriously argue that it's a way of letting pedophilic tendencies out, and other similar arguments And that was way after the first 5 min.

 

[BrendaBear]

@BrendaD

Read my other posts

RJ, you should know better than to give me assignments… that isn’t going to happen. Sorry.