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[Strixaluco]

I envy you, little owl. That is awesome, and makes me so happy for you

Thanks Wolfie
It took quite some time to get this lucky. There are moments when I feel it's like some kind of compensation for the past years, although I know the universe doesn't work that way.

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

Thanks Wolfie
It took quite some time to get this lucky. There are moments when I feel it's like some kind of compensation for the past years, although I know the universe doesn't work that way.

When you find it, enjoy it. I sure did with my wife. Both of us felt lucky to have found each other. I am very happy for you.

 

[Strixaluco]

When you find it, enjoy it. I sure did with my wife. Both of us felt lucky to have found each other. I am very happy for you.

I'm very aware nothing lasts and life doesn't last endlessly...

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

I can’t. Hell there’s things I can’t explain to people in lifestyle.

At least most people in the lifestyle will listen to and accept your kinks. We all have some odd ones I am sure.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

It's not something I would have understood before experiencing it myself. I only expected the thrill... Which is there sometimes, when being really restricted, but not always.

I think it was the 2nd session with hand and ankle cuffs, when I felt emptiness coming when he took those off at the end of the session. Bare in an unwanted way, insecure. And half the time they hadn't even been used for restricting (I had eaten etc with the cuffs on).

You get a warm happy feeling from the act of preparing for play. I get that. And I get the comfort in leather cuffs. Sometimes I wear the spare ones just to get into the scene a llittle deeper.

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

I'm very aware nothing lasts and life doesn't last endlessly...

I sure wish it did but yes I am realistic about the future and relationships.

 

[Cindy027]

I am not sure I understand this statement. If I had to guess, is it about some new members?

Not at all, it more describes my love hate relationship with our I.T. Department. It was said in jest so don’t read too much into it. I would think that most here who work with and not in IT would have the same sentiment.

 

[LustfulIntentions2]

Good morning everyone. Another restless sleep over here. Going to try a work out and something healthy for breakfast and see what that does for me. Be good to yourselves!

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

Not at all, it more describes my love hate relationship with our I.T. Department. It was said in jest so don’t read too much into it. I would think that most here who work with and not in IT would have the same sentiment.

Thanks. Before retirment and at work, I used to say that I.T. was the tail that wagged the dog! I received lots of laughter and agreement. I get the frustration.

 

[rjr_1954]

She has to let me up to prepare breakfast and talk about what transpired. She wants to know more about Chaos & Lit, as it is changing our lives. I'll wait before showing her it though, to make sure.

 

[Ingenue844]

Good morning everyone

 

[Cindy027]

Good morning everyone

Hi Ingy

 

[rjr_1954]

I sure wish it did but yes I am realistic about the future and relationships.

Yes, it doesn't last forever, but live for today, tomorrow will take care of itself. My wife and I both have health issues.

 

[LupineOne]

Thanks Wolfie
It took quite some time to get this lucky. There are moments when I feel it's like some kind of compensation for the past years, although I know the universe doesn't work that way.

You’ve waited for it, worked for it. Now enjoy it

 

[Strixaluco]

At least most people in the lifestyle will listen to and accept your kinks. We all have some odd ones I am sure.

Actually, you can't always trust that. Even in the BDSM lifestyle there are people who frown upon DD/lg.

You get a warm happy feeling from the act of preparing for play. I get that. And I get the comfort in leather cuffs. Sometimes I wear the spare ones just to get into the scene a llittle deeper.

The feeling of preparation is just a tiny part of it for me. It's the association for being taken care of, being safe in his hands.

 

[Booboobear84]

Good morning all. I’m a very happy bear as I got to go dancing last night.

 

[Strixaluco]

I sure wish it did but yes I am realistic about the future and relationships.

And that's ultimately the reason to enjoy while it lasts.

You’ve waited for it, worked for it. Now enjoy it

Waited, yes. Worked for it? More like it just fell in to my hands when I wasn't expecting it!

 

[Ingenue844]

Actually, you can't always trust that. Even in the BDSM lifestyle there are people who frown upon DD/lg.

I may have been one of them. I found it gross at first until I was in one and it was the most natural thing to me in the world.

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

My future is shoter than my past so this is my new philosophy

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Actually, you can't always trust that. Even in the BDSM lifestyle there are people who frown upon DD/lg.

I find it hilarious. Everyone in the lifestyle wants to say
Oh everyone is so open and accepting.

Bullshit. That’s a fucking LIE. They shame and judge people.

 

[Strixaluco]

I may have been one of them. I found it gross at first until I was in one and it was the most natural thing to me in the world.

But it's even possible to find something gross and yet nof condemn it. I find "water sports" to be gross, but if 2 consenting adults want it, it's not my business in any way. DDlg is too often condemned.

I didn't even know the whole DDlg before stumbling upon it by accident (total immersion in discussions and memes), and recognising myself.

 

[Strixaluco]

I find it hilarious. Everyone in the lifestyle wants to say
Oh everyone is so open and accepting.

Bullshit. That’s a fucking LIE. They shame and judge people.

And then also some people see judgement even when it isn't there I had to put one person on the Finnish forum on ignore, as she firmly believed that because I know some people judge (it was a question of ADL), I must be judging myself and extrapolating that - otherwise I wouldn't know. So she thought she knows how others think, but others know only if they think that same way.

 

[Strixaluco]

My future is shoter than my past so this is my new philosophy View attachment 2210996

I don't think my dad would appreciate that, with so many niggles and health issues it might feel a bit too fitting

 

[LittleSwitchy]

And then also some people see judgement even when it isn't there I had to put one person on the Finnish forum on ignore, as she firmly believed that because I know some of people judge, I must be judging myself and extrapolating that - otherwise I wouldn't know. So she thought she knows how others think, but others know only if they think that same way.

I’ve seen people on Lit try to say.
Oh we don’t shame or judge people. Yet there’s threads that do just that.
Least be honest

 

[Ingenue844]

But it's even possible to find something gross and yet nof condemn it. I find "water sports" to be gross, but if 2 consenting adults want it, it's not my business in any way. DDlg is too often condemned.

I didn't even know the whole DDlg before stumbling upon it by accident (total immersion in discussions and memes), and recognising myself.

I misunderstood it for one.

At first I thought it was a way to rp pedophilia.

Then possibly an abusive situation.

Now I understand especially with it having been the natural progression of my former relationship.