Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

[B2fromA2looking4U]

I rather take leather restraints. Slow tying up and in the end slow release don't suit me, I can't stay in one position for that long.

They only thing I want restraining me, are the loving arms of a woman.

 

[rjr_1954]

Good Morning/Afternoon/Evening Chaos

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

Good Morning/Afternoon/Evening Chaos

Good morning - fun to have such international friends.

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

I am awake now, the ear worm has gone, its time for cheerful coffee or tea!

 

[Strixaluco]

They only thing I want restraining me, are the loving arms of a woman.

For me leather cuffs etc are extensions to His hands. They keep me safe.

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

For me leather cuffs etc are extensions to His hands. They keep me safe.

Now I get it. Thanks. I just love the freedom of a lovers embrace. That is just my thing.

 

[rjr_1954]

They only thing I want restraining me, are the loving arms of a woman.

It seems that I woke up that way this morning. My wife is coming out of her shell. Now I'm finding out just what she bought at the adult store. She's playing into my best fantasy or is it hers

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

It seems that I woke up that way this morning. My wife is coming out of her shell. Now I'm finding out just what she bought at the adult store. She's playing into my best fantasy or is it hers

Enjoy - a precious moment you will always remember

 

[Strixaluco]

Now I get it. Thanks. I just love the freedom of a lovers embrace. That is just my thing.

Well, bondage isn't for me everyone. I had known for a long time I was at least interested to try some, but I never realised it could calm me down and feel safe. If I'm all tied up, I don't have a thing to worry about anymore. No decisions to make.

Also the more helpless he makes me, the more thoroughly he takes care of me. It's a wonderful feeling.

Usually what ends it is my muscles pleading to get free - not my mind.

 

[rjr_1954]

Enjoy - a precious moment you will always remember

And she's not mad that I talk about Chaos in my sleep. We have a four poster adjustable bed, it's tough to move when tied up, and the interrogation has begun.

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Well, bondage isn't for me everyone. I had known for a long time I was at least interested to try some, but I never realised it could calm me down and feel safe. If I'm all tied up, I don't have a thing to worry about anymore. No decisions to make.

Also the more helpless he makes me, the more thoroughly he takes care of me. It's a wonderful feeling.

Usually what ends it is my muscles pleading to get free - not my mind.

It’s a great thing when you find someone you can totally let go to them.

 

[LupineOne]

*yawns, stretches, and big sighs*

Morning, Chaos

 

[rjr_1954]

Well, bondage isn't for me everyone. I had known for a long time I was at least interested to try some, but I never realised it could calm me down and feel safe. If I'm all tied up, I don't have a thing to worry about anymore. No decisions to make.

Also the more helpless he makes me, the more thoroughly he takes care of me. It's a wonderful feeling.

Usually what ends it is my muscles pleading to get free - not my mind.

Strix is right, it is a helpless freedom that I'm not used to, it's comforting that she's in control and my worries vanish. She takes care me and gently caresses me. I like the new her.

 

[Strixaluco]

It’s a great thing when you find someone you can totally let go to them.

It is. It's been a huge factor drawing me to him from the start. To be realise I can trust him totally.

 

[Strixaluco]

*yawns, stretches, and big sighs*

Morning, Chaos

*scritches behind the ears* Coffee's on!

 

[LupineOne]

It is. It's been a huge factor drawing me to him from the start. To be realise I can trust him totally.

I envy you, little owl. That is awesome, and makes me so happy for you

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Strix is right, it is a helpless freedom that I'm not used to, it's comforting that she's in control and my worries vanish. She takes care me and gently caresses me. I like the new her.

RJ.
Enjoy the journey. If y’all try something new. Give it a few days. Then sit with her and talk about how it was for each of you. Both mentally and physically. Try talking away from any play or the bedroom. Like talk while watching tv in living room.

 

[LupineOne]

*scritches behind the ears* Coffee's on!

Thank you, Strixy!

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

For me leather cuffs etc are extensions to His hands. They keep me safe.

Try explaining that to a vanilla person.

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

Someone say they need coffee lots of it?

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

Try explaining that to a vanilla person.

I am somewhat vanilla too, but I feel its more about accepting that we have different needs. I love the face to face position in Kama Sutra but its not for everyone.

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Try explaining that to a vanilla person.

I can’t. Hell there’s things I can’t explain to people in lifestyle.

 

[LittleSwitchy]

I am somewhat vanilla too, but I feel its more about accepting that we have different needs. I love the face to face position in Kama Sutra but its not for everyone.

I think it’s the eye contact. You’re leaving yourself vulnerable to her and her to you.

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

I think it’s the eye contact. You’re leaving yourself vulnerable to her and her to you.

Whether tied up, face to face or any other preference, TRUST is so important. And love and trust go together from my old romantic point of view.

 

[Strixaluco]

Try explaining that to a vanilla person.

It's not something I would have understood before experiencing it myself. I only expected the thrill... Which is there sometimes, when being really restricted, but not always.

I think it was the 2nd session with hand and ankle cuffs, when I felt emptiness coming when he took those off at the end of the session. Bare in an unwanted way, insecure. And half the time they hadn't even been used for restricting (I had eaten etc with the cuffs on).