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CuriousInAR78 said:
Sad but so true she use to threaten me all the time that I was gonna come home from work and my three huge Oscars and my red devil was gonna be laying in the driveway dead
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Weird. (And sick, I find that kind of threats something you just don't ever do in a relationship if you are a decent human being.) Did she ever say why she hated those so much?
 
Strixaluco said:
Weird. (And sick, I find that kind of threats something you just don't ever do in a relationship if you are a decent human being.) Did she ever say why she hated those so much?
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She said she was jealous of them because of the attention I gave them, this coming from someone that was ALWAYS with her mom, didn't work, didn't clean/cook, and gave her mom 1500 every tax time from my taxes because she said she needed it more then us and our three young children did
 
CuriousInAR78 said:
She said she was jealous of them because of the attention I gave them, this coming from someone that was ALWAYS with her mom, didn't work, didn't clean/cook, and gave her mom 1500 every tax time from my taxes because she said she needed it more then us and our three young children did
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Sounds like projecting. That's what jealous people often do.
 
Strixaluco said:
Maybe she also just hates fish. (But it still sounds like projecting.)
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She was one of those people that didn't like anything if it caused the attention to not be all on her or if money wasn't spent on her. She once to our electric money and went out drinking all night and didn't walk in the door until 6 in the morning when I was heading out to work with her tits hanging out of a flannel shirt. When I questioned her why her tits were out her response was "I figured I'd send you to work happy"
 
Strixaluco said:
Sigh. Some people really don't earn a spouse...
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She really messed me up in the head, the day she walked out on my son and myself she told me I would NEVER find someone as hot as her because I was an ugly loser that would never grow up and be a man
 
CuriousInAR78 said:
She really messed me up in the head, the day she walked out on my son and myself she told me I would NEVER find someone as hot as her because I was an ugly loser that would never grow up and be a man
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She's afraid of you finding someone and realising she's wasn't worth your time. That you can actually do a lot better.
 
Strixaluco said:
She's afraid of you finding someone and realising she's wasn't worth your time. That you can actually do a lot better.
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I know she wasn't worth my time because when I met her she was a user and I was getting out of a bad relationship, and I jumped right into another with her. I have people all the time tell me I am a good looking guy and I have a good heart that actually gives a shit about people but her words I can still hear in my head because I start thinking that people just want to use me for what they can get 😞
 
CuriousInAR78 said:
I know she wasn't worth my time because when I met her she was a user and I was getting out of a bad relationship, and I jumped right into another with her. I have people all the time tell me I am a good looking guy and I have a good heart that actually gives a shit about people but her words I can still hear in my head because I start thinking that people just want to use me for what they can get 😞
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Some do, that's for sure, if you let them. But there are others who are genuine in their interest.
 
CuriousInAR78 said:
Hard for me to believe that I am a good looking guy and that females actually want a nice guy like me
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"Let me let you into a secret..." (as in the Shania Twain's song) : women find very different kind of men attractive. Even for the most wanted men it's a good result if half the women find then attractive.

I've had friend say "I don't find him good-looking at all" when I told her about my good-looking ex. I've gone "ewwww" when my coworker went "wow!" and so on.

Frankly speaking, I don't know where I draw the line between good-looking or not. But that's not critical when I loose myself in His eyes or forget myself admiring his face. Pheromones and personality have way more to do with it than looks. What matters is what your outside tells about your inside - is it good, does it match? That includes body language.

I wouldn't even recommend someone who is mainly after your looks. No matter who good-looking you are.
 
In all honesty I think my eyes are my best feature I have almost emerald green eyes and almost everyone loves my eyes
 
Strixaluco said:
if someone is so oblivious to my body language that he doesn't realise I am not interested in anything else than friendship, well that seals the no deal ever.
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Yeah, sorry, I have little sympathy though if you wind up annoyed without having ever spelled it out in words for them.

I asked how it's clear if someone doesn't bring it up, and what it seems like you're saying is that they do bring it up and you don't respond verbally.

No wonder it has cost you some friendships. Mindreading is a pretty poor foundation for communication. I wonder what would have happened if you had just said "No" instead of living with continued annoyance at repeat passes.
 
Britva415 said:
Yeah, sorry, I have little sympathy though if you wind up annoyed without having ever spelled it out in words for them.

I asked how it's clear if someone doesn't bring it up, and what it seems like you're saying is that they do bring it up and you don't respond verbally.

No wonder it has cost you some friendships. Mindreading is a pretty poor foundation for communication. I wonder what would have happened if you had just said "No" instead of living with continued annoyance at repeat passes.
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No, you don't seem to understand at all. That was NOT what I am saying.

There are men, who don't even ever bring it up, because they know without asking what's the answer. Those are men who actually know how to read a woman. Seeing that they would fancy me is usually not difficult to see, however. Most of them don't do much to hide it's, though they don't discuss it.

If it is brought up verbally, I make known that I am not interested. If they are clever, the bring it up fleetingly, and I answer just as fleetingly, and so it passes without incident, friendship intact. Or, they try a subtle physical way, like kissing me when hugging - to notice I turn my head noticeably so that it ends up on my cheek instead of my mouth. You'd be surprised to see how many have tried that, and taken the hint.

For some reason, however some men seem to think they can chat me up to change my answer. And too often a polite negative answer, or several, isn't enough. Either they keep going, until I give a not polite answer, and the friendship is gone. Or they stop, but try again later, and again, trying to poke the line, and again only getting mad at them stops them. I hate having to repeat myself, or having to get mad before my "no" is taken for a no.
 
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