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BrendaD said:
Okay, lets bring out the drama llama then…
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It really was barely on the thread and I was reading in real time and couldn't really figure out the actual issue. Also... I don't have energy to track it down. Interesting comments resulted and then we glomped around Shady who is clearly having a bad day.
But still... I might need this sticker for my work water bottle

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so while I am confused, I did get there is some sort of litationship philosophies being discussed so I will randomly overshare.

I prefer married men, both in lit and life. Single men are more likely to have issues completely grasping where my priorities are and how that will play out. Also, in life, the only men who tried to fuck with my primary relationship were single men. Why they would do something so dumb, not sure, they have to know that is the end of the road. The fact is though, my husband is much more likely to put up with my bullshit than a wife so a all married man would accomplish trying to threaten my primary relationship would be to burn himself. My husband knows I am here.

I am deeply offended by any man who would use such mean words like the M word towards me. I am married, yet I am here. You are in a monogamous marriage, yet here, and want exclusive. hahaha, try exclusive with your wife, damn it. there is no way on gods green earth I will have an exclusive online anything. luckily, no lit men have said such a cruel thing to me. of course, I am so upfront about this, so you'd have to be dense as all hell to not know that trying to box me in would be a game ender.
 
Justadesperatewifeandmom said:
so while I am confused, I did get there is some sort of litationship philosophies being discussed so I will randomly overshare.

I prefer married men, both in lit and life. Single men are more likely to have issues completely grasping where my priorities are and how that will play out. Also, in life, the only men who tried to fuck with my primary relationship were single men. Why they would do something so dumb, not sure, they have to know that is the end of the road. The fact is though, my husband is much more likely to put up with my bullshit than a wife so a all married man would accomplish trying to threaten my primary relationship would be to burn himself. My husband knows I am here.

I am deeply offended by any man who would use such mean words like the M word towards me. I am married, yet I am here. You are in a monogamous marriage, yet here, and want exclusive. hahaha, try exclusive with your wife, damn it. there is no way on gods green earth I will have an exclusive online anything. luckily, no lit men have said such a cruel thing to me. of course, I am so upfront about this, so you'd have to be dense as all hell to not know that trying to box me in would be a game ender.
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Well said.

For the record, as far as I am concerned, as long as people are up front and honest about their position (I agree with Justa and others in this camp 100%), nobody is gonna get hurt; no drama will result.
 
Justadesperatewifeandmom said:
sorry. well, we can always tell dudes that their imaginary sportsball team is full of pussies. maybe they will get all dramatic over it.
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Based on their recent playoff record, you are right...and not the good kind of pussies...

Drama Llama can play with Wolfie, the fainting Pitty and Shen's Wooden Dragon...
 
Justadesperatewifeandmom said:
so while I am confused, I did get there is some sort of litationship philosophies being discussed so I will randomly overshare.

I prefer married men, both in lit and life. Single men are more likely to have issues completely grasping where my priorities are and how that will play out. Also, in life, the only men who tried to fuck with my primary relationship were single men. Why they would do something so dumb, not sure, they have to know that is the end of the road. The fact is though, my husband is much more likely to put up with my bullshit than a wife so a all married man would accomplish trying to threaten my primary relationship would be to burn himself. My husband knows I am here.

I am deeply offended by any man who would use such mean words like the M word towards me. I am married, yet I am here. You are in a monogamous marriage, yet here, and want exclusive. hahaha, try exclusive with your wife, damn it. there is no way on gods green earth I will have an exclusive online anything. luckily, no lit men have said such a cruel thing to me. of course, I am so upfront about this, so you'd have to be dense as all hell to not know that trying to box me in would be a game ender.
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TANSTAAFL58 said:
Well said.

For the record, as far as I am concerned, as long as people are up front and honest about their position (I agree with Justa and others in this camp 100%), nobody is gonna get hurt; no drama will result.
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Yup, the key is that everyone be on the same page. I think an "exclusive" Lit relationship makes sense for some. I also think "playing the field" makes sense for others. I don't judge. Where it becomes difficult - as it does in other places too - is when one thinks one thing and the other thinks the opposite.

I think the other mistake some (OK me) have made is trying to make someone into something they aren't. And in many ways, it's all part of the same thing: making them "exclusive" when they are just here to be causal and play. Or maybe making them into something or someone they really can't measure up to. It's easy to do. We don't have to see them when they are sick, or when they are just difficult. We only see the "lit person" they put forward. That's not saying they are being duplicitious. We all have various aspects to our personality. In different places, we let different parts show more than others (no one is the same at work with their boss as they are at home with their 3 year old). Lit's no different.
 
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