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I don’t disagree that being upfront is not hard and can save hurt feelings and I’m not suggesting otherwise. I just take everything with a few grains of salt and a shot of tequila 😜
No lime? Damn, you’re hardcore! 🍸
 
It would be a good discussion... it might be difficult to keep it on the rails.
I think part of the variation in expectation is the life experience different people bring to Lit.

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It’s true and there are some very deep connections formed between people and I did not meant to diminish this.
 
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I don’t disagree that being upfront is not hard and can save hurt feelings and I’m not suggesting otherwise. I just take everything with a few grains of salt and a shot of tequila 😜
That's pretty much how I look at things, even when its offline. People will always have their own agenda. I just feel a lot better when I'm open about mine, so really, I don't get why other people don't do the same.
 
That's pretty much how I look at things, even when its offline. People will always have their own agenda. I just feel a lot better when I'm open about mine, so really, I don't get why other people don't do the same.
But why are folks so shocked and outraged when others don’t do the same? Like is it best, sure. Can you expect it…I don’t know.
 
It’s true and there are some very deep connections formed between people and indi not meant to diminish this.
Oh absolutely. I would posit that drama occurs when people in Lit relationships are unable to be crystal clear about the expectations of each other.
I do think many people (both men and women) have very loose guidelines about what is acceptable in behavioral shenanigans which leads to drama and hurt feelings all over the board.
 
I'm sorry if my personal dramas spilled over into here. It won't happen again
I absolutely think this would be awful! I am so sorry if I made you feel like sharing was not ok!
That is not my intention. Your feelings are totally valid. It just brought up some questions I’d been sitting with for awhile.
I can kill my post if this makes you uncomfortable. Please let me know!
 
Spread sheet? Some kind of kinky linen? A bed sheet, but you spread it on the floor in front of the fireplace? Or on the beach? Oh! By a mountain lake???
LOL - I like the idea of a spreadsheet of sexual partners, listing time and dates, that you'd have to spread out for your next lover on the first occasion of your intimacy. Maybe with a rating column (them rating you). Maybe a summary box on the pillowcase.
 
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