Sexual Goals for 2023

[lil_jenni]

What are your sexual goals for 2023?

Mine are:
1. Talk Hubby into swinging/swapping/etc.
2. If #1 doesn't work, find a woman whose interested in having FFMs with us every so often (but not one who is also a GF/FWB for me... that was probably too much for me, in retrospect).
3. Do ATM for Hubby again... and no, this one won't necessarily be easier than #1 and #2. He thinks it's gross.
4. Not procreate. I thought a getting a dog would distract Hubby for wanting another child, but I was wrong.

 

[Handydan]

What are your sexual goals for 2023?

Mine are:
1. Talk Hubby into swinging/swapping/etc.
2. If #1 doesn't work, find a woman whose interested in having FFMs with us every so often (but not one who is also a GF/FWB for me... that was probably too much for me, in retrospect).
3. Do ATM for Hubby again... and no, this one won't necessarily be easier than #1 and #2. He thinks it's gross.
4. Not procreate. I thought a getting a dog would distract Hubby for wanting another child, but I was wrong.

Great goals. How 1 & 2 happen for you.

 

[TomTeacher19]

What are your sexual goals for 2023?

Mine are:
1. Talk Hubby into swinging/swapping/etc.
2. If #1 doesn't work, find a woman whose interested in having FFMs with us every so often (but not one who is also a GF/FWB for me... that was probably too much for me, in retrospect).
3. Do ATM for Hubby again... and no, this one won't necessarily be easier than #1 and #2. He thinks it's gross.
4. Not procreate. I thought a getting a dog would distract Hubby for wanting another child, but I was wrong.

My goals will sound lame in comparison:

1) have sex

Yup. Okay, since goals is plural...

2) learn and try a bunch of stuff I never have (which is most everything). (Some Lit friends have already been helping me towards this- thanks)

 

[haventdonethat]

GF has stated she is willing and would like to try anal with me. B U T it must be in the right circumstances. As in the right timing, the right mood, the right atmosphere etc etc.
So if all the stars are aligned, this is what I would like.
She has done anal prior to meeting me, not something she really enjoyed. I tell her that I will make sure she enjoys it with me.

 

[DaisyMilf]

Go to my local nudist beach

 

[blazingsaddles69]

I keep hoping mt wife would share another person with me I would love to see her suck another cock
Have her dress sexier

 

[travelinma]

1, watch my wife take a bigger cock.
2, eat his cum out of her pussy.
3, suck his cock in front of my wife.
4, get fucked in front of my wife.

 

[woman_early20s]

Mine are
1) Find a chat partner, at least online who is interested in words and not photos/videos (seems impossible, but the slim chances are still present
2) Try to stop having too much meaningless sex with fuck bois after being emotionally manipulated
3) Get a vibrator, reduce dependency on men
4) Experience fisting
5) Allow someone to go down on me

 

[CockSparrow]

Sex Goals for 2023:

1. I’d like to get a few into the back of her net while her keeper is looking the other way

2. And I’d like to score a few three-pointers just before the shot cock runs down

 

[Smarthomanid2]

1. Have group sex regularly/ handle multiple men simultaneously.

2. Start having paid encounters.

3. Document the sex I’m having.

and do all three at once at least once.

 

[lc69hunter]

I am recently a widower (approx 2 years). I am in good health, good fitness, pretty well off, and can be funny as hell at times. What that does is put a gigantic target right on my chest.

My sexual goals for 2023:

1. Better navigate the conversation that I enjoy the sex, and I enjoy your company, but no, I am not looking for a wife, I am not looking for a roommate, and am not necessarily looking for a long term exclusive relationship.

2. Continue to enjoy the random one-offs that come from unexpected sources, such as the long time married friend who dragged me to bed, to make sure, as she put it, that I still remembered how to get in and out of the saddle. I am pretty sure she told her husband (I am sure she didn't ask), but she rules that household anyway.

 

[npanxx]

I have two sexual goals for 2023.
1. Convince my Mistress Wife to peg me while I am caged.
2. Cum while in my cage.
If both happen at the same time, all the better.

 

[Shi_One81]

1. Gangbang
2. MMF with the hubby (I’ve done many but he never has)
3. Be more social/forward when we go to the swingers club and events
I’m sure there’s more

 

[lc69hunter]

Do ATM for Hubby again... and no, this one won't necessarily be easier than #1 and #2. He thinks it's gross.

That is a bit funny. The first time I ATM'd someone, it was a guy. I had been having regular threesomes with this couple for a few months, and she called me on a Wednesday to tell me her husband was really bi-curious and wanted to know what a real cock felt like, as she had been pegging him, and would I be willing to do him. So Friday night came and after a few drinks, she said let's do this. So I bent him over the couch and said, Randy, you are going to enjoy this. I proceeded to fuck him well, as she sat over on a chair really getting off on this (probably had two or three orgasms while watching), and Randy was really moaning and enjoying it. When I finally came, just on a whim, I pulled out, flipped him around and ATM'd him. He took right to it and I swear she had another orgasm just watching him (apparently it was his first time with a cock in his mouth).

 

[DaisyMilf]

That is a bit funny. The first time I ATM'd someone, it was a guy. I had been having regular threesomes with this couple for a few months, and she called me on a Wednesday to tell me her husband was really bi-curious and wanted to know what a real cock felt like, as she had been pegging him, and would I be willing to do him. So Friday night came and after a few drinks, she said let's do this. So I bent him over the couch and said, Randy, you are going to enjoy this. I proceeded to fuck him well, as she sat over on a chair really getting off on this (probably had two or three orgasms while watching), and Randy was really moaning and enjoying it. When I finally came, just on a whim, I pulled out, flipped him around and ATM'd him. He took right to it and I swear she had another orgasm just watching him (apparently it was his first time with a cock in his mouth).

I’ve done it a few times. It’s something that happens when I get carried away, lol

 

[AliTrishFL]

Mine are
1) Find a chat partner, at least online who is interested in words and not photos/videos (seems impossible, but the slim chances are still present
2) Try to stop having too much meaningless sex with fuck bois after being emotionally manipulated
3) Get a vibrator, reduce dependency on men
4) Experience fisting
5) Allow someone to go down on me

Your #1 is of great interest to me too. A good conversation is so hard to find

 

[SlutAddicted]

Your #1 is of great interest to me too. A good conversation is so hard to find

I prefer chat to exchanging photos/videos. It engages the imagination so much more. And - perhaps I am too cautious - but I don't find it realistic to expect people to exchange photos at least not anything intimate. Not that anyone is looking for random pictures of dudes but even if they were I wouldn't have the trust level so I don't how I could expect a woman to feel any different.

 

[lil_jenni]

1. Gangbang
2. MMF with the hubby (I’ve done many but he never has)
3. Be more social/forward when we go to the swingers club and events
I’m sure there’s more

Yeah, your #2 would be on my list if no Hubby. Witn Hubby, a MFM would be on my list, but that's probably more than I could hope for this year even if all the stars and planets align. Now, if I could find two couples who want to swing, Hubby can have both women and I'll take both men. LizVegas79 wrote about a situation like that in her swinging thread, and I thought when I read it that a scenario like that would be my best best for a MMF or MFM these days.

 

[anniebaby10]

GF has stated she is willing and would like to try anal with me. B U T it must be in the right circumstances. As in the right timing, the right mood, the right atmosphere etc etc.
So if all the stars are aligned, this is what I would like.
She has done anal prior to meeting me, not something she really enjoyed. I tell her that I will make sure she enjoys it with me.

how are you going to make sure she enjoys it? Here are some things I learned to make it fun. There is a lotta prep required ...... clean bowels, lotta lube, she needs relaxed perhaps with an orgasm prior to anal, slow penetration and not moving or thrusting until she says it feels good, a blanket to absorb any leaks and the lube. So you have to be willing to help her with all of this. An enema if necessary..... washing the blanket..... and most of all patience. Go slow slow slow...... let her rub her clit while you are inside her or you do it for her. Allow her to cum even before you do. You will enjoy her sphincter clamping down on your cock when she does. So good luck.

 

[anniebaby10]

1, watch my wife take a bigger cock.
2, eat his cum out of her pussy.
3, suck his cock in front of my wife.
4, get fucked in front of my wife.

I wanna do that with my hubby...... so far he refuses.

 

[ZeroDarkDirty]

1. Get my wife back into hotwifing. I miss the lead up with her flirting on the apps and then helping her get ready for dates.
2. MFM threesome. We can take turns pleasuring my wife, take her mouth and pussy at the same time, and have her blow us both together.
3. FMF threesome. Can I please two women simultaneously. I will rise to the challenge! Especially if I can have my wife on my face while a friend rides my cock.
4. Swapping. I want to have sex with a woman while her husband fucks my wife on the bed right next to us and see the look on her face while his cock enters her.
5. Fuck it. Let's just have an orgy. Sexy eager bodies everywhere and everyone just doing whatever to make each other feel good.
6. Sharing more pictures online leading to more sexting fun.
7. More dom/sub, body writing, watersports, free use, sex slave play. She loves all that but we have not gotten enough time in the house just to ourselves.

 

[haventdonethat]

how are you going to make sure she enjoys it? Here are some things I learned to make it fun. There is a lotta prep required ...... clean bowels, lotta lube, she needs relaxed perhaps with an orgasm prior to anal, slow penetration and not moving or thrusting until she says it feels good, a blanket to absorb any leaks and the lube. So you have to be willing to help her with all of this. An enema if necessary..... washing the blanket..... and most of all patience. Go slow slow slow...... let her rub her clit while you are inside her or you do it for her. Allow her to cum even before you do. You will enjoy her sphincter clamping down on your cock when she does. So good luck.

Thanks for the tips Annie

 

[Unsure2022]

1) More anal with my wife. She was really into it when we got together, but it has been much less frequent in the past year.

2) Go to a strip club. We have discussed it but haven’t made it happen.

3) Go to a sex club. Same as above. Finding the time has been an issue.

4) Figure out how to get her gay friend more involved. He likes to discuss it through her instead of directly with me. This has irritated me since he wants nothing to do with her sexually, so I don’t get talking through her to me since he has my number. Makes me feel like there actually IS something between them.

5) Find a woman for either her or both of us. I feel bad that just prior to us becoming dating official, she had a shot with a couple that she knew but I requested she not because I figured it would lead to her not being interested in me anymore. I feel bad for depriving her of her chance of experiencing a woman.

6) More public sex. We both want it but are both nervous of getting caught and it causing issues

 

[LeeKee]

1) More anal with my wife. She was really into it when we got together, but it has been much less frequent in the past year.

2) Go to a strip club. We have discussed it but haven’t made it happen.

3) Go to a sex club. Same as above. Finding the time has been an issue.

4) Figure out how to get her gay friend more involved. He likes to discuss it through her instead of directly with me. This has irritated me since he wants nothing to do with her sexually, so I don’t get talking through her to me since he has my number. Makes me feel like there actually IS something between them.

5) Find a woman for either her or both of us. I feel bad that just prior to us becoming dating official, she had a shot with a couple that she knew but I requested she not because I figured it would lead to her not being interested in me anymore. I feel bad for depriving her of her chance of experiencing a woman.

6) More public sex. We both want it but are both nervous of getting caught and it causing issues

If her friend is gay, then they talk. It’s always that guy that’s the ‘special’ friend. “What? Why you upset, he is gay!” is what you’ll hear if you question it. Seen this before. Not just with me but multiple times other dudes wives, yatta yatta

 

[Dreaming22]

Continue having great sex with my husband and perhaps introduce a few toys in the bedroom.