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I have to approach all things in a calm manner. I have a wicked ass temper that has to stay on very low simmer. Me and Bruce Banner.
I have an incredible amount of patience, but if I truly let my temper out, apparently I’m one scary motherfucker according to friends who’ve seen it.
I rarely raise my voice to a shout, but I guess I give off an icy “I’m genuinely going to hurt someone” vibe that people take seriously
 
I have an incredible amount of patience, but if I truly let my temper out, apparently I’m one scary motherfucker according to friends who’ve seen it.
I rarely raise my voice to a shout, but I guess it gives off an icy “I’m genuinely going to hurt someone” vibe that people take seriously
Wolves can’t just be cuddly all the time, Lupes!
 
*slides into his computer desk command chair with some eggs and toast and coffee"

Alright folks, the command center is operational. Let's get this day started!


Don’t we all? Curls for the girls, tris for the guys!

Chest today, baby!

I had really spicy Thai food last night. The waiter kept coming back to make sure I was okay. It was good. Made my lips all red and tingly. 🥰

Yowza! Thankfully, we have a great Thai place down here. I miss my Phoenix mex food, though!

I have an incredible amount of patience, but if I truly let my temper out, apparently I’m one scary motherfucker according to friends who’ve seen it.
I rarely raise my voice to a shout, but I guess it gives off an icy “I’m genuinely going to hurt someone” vibe that people take seriously

*adds Lupine and Muse to his "scared of" list*
 
I have an incredible amount of patience, but if I truly let my temper out, apparently I’m one scary motherfucker according to friends who’ve seen it.
I rarely raise my voice to a shout, but I guess I give off an icy “I’m genuinely going to hurt someone” vibe that people take seriously
Very often the truly confident people are calm. And when a calm person suddenly gives the air she/he is close to the end of patience... Well. It can often be scary. For a reason.

Then again, someone yelling all the time is usually not very credible.
 
Ray of sunshine.

I want you to do something today @rjr_1954. Every time you think something negative, think something positive. You need to rewrite your brain. I can’t take the Eeyore approach to life
I have a therapist now. She said the same thing, almost.
I'm taking the wife shopping today and I enjoy it as much as she does, maybe more. But first, I make breakfast for my significant udder - (haha) wife. I like to cook!
 
I'm like everyone else and can get arg mad sometimes ... but I don't think I shout a lot or get visibly angry ... at least I don't think so. I suspect my aversion to conflict makes me back away or ignore (or I wonder if I seeth in quiet??!!?).

Though I suppose when I was with the ex bf, I showed my anger at times ... hmmm ... I wish I had a secret tape of myself to see how I look like when I get visibly mad.
 
I have an incredible amount of patience, but if I truly let my temper out, apparently I’m one scary motherfucker according to friends who’ve seen it.
I rarely raise my voice to a shout, but I guess I give off an icy “I’m genuinely going to hurt someone” vibe that people take seriously
Please be calm, calllllmmmm. I don't intend on upsetting you.
 
I have an incredible amount of patience, but if I truly let my temper out, apparently I’m one scary motherfucker according to friends who’ve seen it.
I rarely raise my voice to a shout, but I guess I give off an icy “I’m genuinely going to hurt someone” vibe that people take seriously

I knew there was a reason we were like brothers, and I think I found it. 😁

See, you’d never guess I have a mean temper. It’s been a long time since it went, but I’ve lived where I live long enough that only new people think it’s fun to poke at my calm.

Can confirm. I've only seen you mildly irritated and that was pretty scary in and of itself. 😬
 
Gotta keep it at a low simmer. Yoga. Meditation. Candles. Music. Good people around. Those are all my coping mechs. :)
Musey, you’re a candle person? It’s candle day at Bath & Bodyworks. Usually I go HARD (buying 30 3-wick), went a little light this year and just went with 10
 
I love candles but I’m super picky about them. I only buy Sand & fog. They’re so delicious without killing my olfactories.
 
I love candles but I’m super picky about them. I only buy Sand & fog. They’re so delicious without killing my olfactories.
I’ll have to check in to that brand. I’m more of a woodsy/musk scent guy, but like the fresh/citrusy ones in my office to keep me energized
 
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