Those Special Friends...

[boo56]

So, I've been a frequenter of Literotica for 17 years. One thing that has happened to me here on a handful of occasions, after making a someone's virtual acquaintance, has been striking up an ongoing conversation that plays itself out in a long series of direct messages. For my part, the conversation has always been sincere and honest. These things have repeatedly become very flirtatious with both parties expressing sexually suggestive ideas to the other. And, on several occasions theses exchanges have resulted in exchanges of erotic photography that has not been shared publicly in the forums or elsewhere. For the duration of these exchanges, it has been like having a personal seductress keeping one on the edge of arousal for days on end. Each time, my correspondent has appeared to reside at least half a continent away and there has never been any suggestion that the online flirtation should progress to anything even approaching a meeting. Then. one day, after weeks or months of flirtation, my friend is gone. More than once.

I mention this because I was browsing an old folder on my hard drive this morning. I found some text files that memorialize a flirtation that occupied several weeks in November 2014 through January 2015 and then another round for three weeks in June 2015. And then, nothing. My correspondent still has a profile here, but since 2015, crickets.

All I'm saying, "That was fun. Golly, I'm missing that."

 

[positiveflirt]

I hear ya! Understand totally. That feeling when some connection is made and then *whoosh* when it's no more can feel a little.. floaty. Unmoored.
Sometimes I feel that's for the best though given the alternatives. A couple of times in my life I've struck up something personal in that same format but with someone I actually know properly and the potential for mess there is huge.

 

[boo56]

I hear ya! Understand totally. That feeling when some connection is made and then *whoosh* when it's no more can feel a little.. floaty. Unmoored.
Sometimes I feel that's for the best though given the alternatives. A couple of times in my life I've struck up something personal in that same format but with someone I actually know properly and the potential for mess there is huge.
So I enjoy these things when I can and embrace them for what they are and how they're likely to end, but I'm glad it's not just me who occasionally remembers some internet adventure of the past and thinks "huh! I could do with some of that today"
And after all, there could be another just around the corner..

Could be around the corner. Here's hoping.

 

[Darrell97]

Sorry To hear that

So, I've been a frequenter of Literotica for 17 years. One thing that has happened to me here on a handful of occasions, after making a someone's virtual acquaintance, has been striking up an ongoing conversation that plays itself out in a long series of direct messages. For my part, the conversation has always been sincere and honest. These things have repeatedly become very flirtatious with both parties expressing sexually suggestive ideas to the other. And, on several occasions theses exchanges have resulted in exchanges of erotic photography that has not been shared publicly in the forums or elsewhere. For the duration of these exchanges, it has been like having a personal seductress keeping one on the edge of arousal for days on end. Each time, my correspondent has appeared to reside at least half a continent away and there has never been any suggestion that the online flirtation should progress to anything even approaching a meeting. Then. one day, after weeks or months of flirtation, my friend is gone. More than once.

I mention this because I was browsing an old folder on my hard drive this morning. I found some text files that memorialize a flirtation that occupied several weeks in November 2014 through January 2015 and then another round for three weeks in June 2015. And then, nothing. My correspondent still has a profile here, but since 2015, crickets.

All I'm saying, "That was fun. Golly, I'm missing that."

 

[Bigboobbabe]

Women, at least me, have the same problem.
But not always. I am still chatting with the first long-time Lister from when I joined 2020.
I have a few, but compared to those who just cut ties without a word, it's beyond compare.
These special friends I believe will be friends for life.

 

[Darrell97]

I assume they would become friend as you get to know them. I have been reading here for sometime and the I decided to join so very nice to meet you.

 

[boo56]

Ladies and Gentlemen:

I'm gratified by your feedback. I've been here for ages, but have seldom started a thread, even a short one. It's nice to have had some sympathetic responses.

 

[boo56]

Women, at least me, have the same problem.

Thanks for your feedback. Hey, if you have a running conversation going on three years here, you're doing very well.

 

[boo56]

Nice to meet you, too, Darrell.

 

[Bigboobbabe]

Thanks for your feedback. Hey, if you have a running conversation going on three years here, you're doing very well.

I am very fortunate, I know. My longest connection has been a rock for me. In addition to teaching me about giving my power v. having it taken away.
He taught me how to use tools to remind of my power.
He has virtually held me when I collapse. And sent me great accolades when something good happens. He is my best friend and my virtual Master.

 

[boo56]

I am very fortunate, I know.

It sounds like you are. You have made a good friend. These things can happen. Good for you!