Why do you come to Lit?

[Wildfly11]

To be more open about my fetishes and also well to masturbate lol

Sounds similar to me although I find less to masterbate about here but I haven't left yet

 

[Astronomaly]

I found this site a year ago on a whim, thinking it’d be pretty funny if there was a Literotica dot com. Imagine my surprise when I discovered it existed.

I love reading stories, and I especially love when there’s a unique community that has its own special cliques and groups. Discovering each and every new thing here has been an absolute pleasure. Not to mention that some of you guys do a mean Interracial Story. Being a person of color, it’s heartening to see such representation in good sexual literature.

 

[peterheer51]

Came for the stories to jerk off to, then started to write a few and then the forums for pics and ideas.

 

[tubby424]

My husband and I have a very unique and active sex life. This is the only place where I can talk about it.

How long were you married before you first cuckolded your husband, and how did those circumstances unfold ??

 

[littlecordelera]

How long were you married before you first cuckolded your husband, and how did those circumstances unfold ??

As weird as it may sound, our whole relationship began as sort of a cuckold relationship, although we didn't know that "cuckold" even existed. But maybe you should ask your question in a thread about cuckold relationships. It would take some time for me to explain, and I don't want to hijack this thread.

 

[SeymourBush]

I've been coming to Lit on and off for years. I like the conversations, the titillation and the voyeuristic view of various people's sexuality.

 

[drobert44]

People here are literate, sexy, and tolerant. Great place to confess my kinks.

 

[mrdiscreetshh]

I come here because people don't judge and I know that I appeal to a certain crowd who will appreciate what I have to offer.

 

[MetalRabbit51]

It really is a unique resource. Outstanding, hot writing- much of it top drawer. Yes, there's the ridiculous too, on the other end of the scale, but we wouldn't appreciate steak and lobster without having bologna sandwiches on white bread for contrast. Entertaining, informative and exasperating boards. Lots of info here about sex, sexuality and many other subjects. A fascinating prism of human nature. And the possibility of meeting like-minded people. Pretty tolerant of differences here in general, if you disregard the spammers and flakes. But they're everywhere.

 

[Tribe77]

For the stories, originally. Now to be something that folks would not perceive me as. I come off very straight laced. It's nice to talk about things that I can't with others including my wife. Weird fantasies and such. A nice escape from reality is good sometimes.

 

[2tallpaul]

I'm here so I don't vent and let it slip at work. Plus I don't tell where there's a good fishing hole.

 

[DaddyforhisKitten]

My husband and I have a very unique and active sex life. This is the only place where I can talk about it.

I feel this a lot. Seems the number of people I know personally who I could talk about these type of subjects with always drops.

 

[CuriousMind68]

Hi, I originally found lit for the stories. Then I realized there were chat rooms so enjoy spending time in there. What brought me there was my wife of 31 years who I love dearly completely lost her sex drive and all interest in intimate connections due to menopause. We haven't been intimate in over 2 yrs now. So this is my safe place to find release.

More recently I discovered the forums and I'm really glad I did. This is much more interactive and interesting to see and hear others viewpoints on topics I'm into and some I'd never even considered.

More importantly too, this place is helping me work through a lifetime of unexplored / suppressed bisexual curiosities.

 

[CuriousMind68]

I happened across Lit while looking for material to masturbate to. My late wife developed a disorder of the endocrine system. The disruption of hormones and the meds she took robbed her of her sex drive. No sex and I didn't want to cheat on her, so I took matters in my own hand, pun intended.

Sorry to hear this. Similar situation here except it was menopause that has taken my wifes sex drive and interest completely.

So for me 2 plus years now no sex. This site helps me find some relief/release.

 

[Beholders_Eye]

I like the stories. I like browsing the forum. I like posting pictures in the forum that I find on other erotic blog sites. It is a fun way to fill in the blanks in my emotional/sexual life.

 

[PMarky2]

Sorry to hear this. Similar situation here except it was menopause that has taken my wifes sex drive and interest completely.

So for me 2 plus years now no sex. This site helps me find some relief/release.

Oh, good Lord, I know that 'happy' end of the universe. The missus came up first with an autoimmune disorder which has played hell with our sex life for the past four years, then with a form of lymphoma, both of which leave her feeling very uncomfortable, and we both complain that we are more likely to win the Powerball than have any sort of a decent sex life at this point. We try periodically, but it usually ends in frustration of one sort or another.

While all this crap is going on, life being the piss-taker that it is, I ran into a woman 30 years younger than myself who is simultaneously my muse, the woman I would love to have kids with, and my intellectual twin who dances around in my head challenging me to be a little bolder. I guess it is a case of the 'foul up faery' saying, 'OK, arsehole, if you thought things were decidedly dodgy - try this for size!'

Lit is primarily stress relief in the form of something nice to look at, the reassurance that someone out there is getting some, plus hearing from other people who are either in a similar position or have some other sort of strange situation in their lives.

 

[mixhali55]

For me, Lit is an outlet, one that gives me a chance to talk about things that I don't talk about in real life. And without it, I believe I would have a lot harder time being good. Hell, I suspect I could not have stayed monogamous as long as I did, nor probably have limited my extra-martial activities to just one other woman, without Lit. And I adore my Hubby and would never intentionally hurt him. It's just sometimes I need to express/release whatever not-so-marriage friendly thing I might be thinking. And Lit has been a great place for me to do that over the years. And of course, I like the stories and pics and such.

So, why do you come to Lit?

I used to chat everyday, but was banned, set up by a moderator asking questions, then banned for incest replies, have tried and tried and tried to get ban lifted but they just ignore my requests, really miss the sharing,

 

[CthuluLives]

I signed up to view and read stories and always had the intent of putting up some ive written, just not got around to that side of things yet

Only actually viewed the forum side a few days ago, not entirely sure why it took so long but he'll its got everything I look for really, naked flesh, kinky depraved thoughts, banter, real life and fellow perverts, ticks a lot of boxes really.

 

[Tribe77]

Really enjoyed the stories. Now I really enjoy the forum. Nice disconnect from work and the lack of sex from the wife.

 

[ctarrantella]

When I first came here it was for the stories. And I wrote and posted a few myself which was fun.

Now after 20 years of marriage my wife and I have hit a little rut in the bedroom. I hit the boards for ideas and to see who else out there shares my experience right now. Turns out I’m not alone.

Also, this is a place that I can privately and openly talk about some of my sexual desires.

 

[Easyvirtue]

I love chatting and it helps me to stay horny all day, that’s the best feeling in the world.

 

[Strixaluco]

At this point, it's friends I come here for. Mostly the ones I already have here, every now and then some new ones

 

[DennisB]

Two reasons; first for the great fashion tips and secondly I was told that there was a luncheon?

 

[StrangerDuJour]

restlessness

 

[StrangerDuJour]

Two reasons; first for the great fashion tips and secondly I was told that there was a luncheon?

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