Voyeur Confession

[Volk359]

I wasn’t sure where else to post this so I figured maybe a new thread would be appropriate.

So, I had a kink opportunity today that I passed on and wondering if it was the smart thing to do or risk it and had gone through with it.

I work at the local university in maintenance and the job gets me around to all of the different buildings around campus for students, faculty, and staff, including the bathrooms, showers, and locker rooms. If it’s a women’s area I always knock and announce myself first or get with the building administrator to schedule a closure. The last thing I want to do is make a woman or young lady uncomfortable.

This morning I was in a women’s shower/bathroom for some electrical work. The room has two separate shower/bathrooms with lockable doors, a small common locker area, and a vanity shelf and mirror. No sooner than when I got started but a student, an attractive young lady, entered. She asked how long I was going to be and I said probably a half hour or so. She came in and got some of her shower stuff out of her locker and started to leave, then hesitated like she didn’t know if she should go or stay. I could tell she was in a hurry and didn’t want to go somewhere else or was unable to. I offered to leave telling her I had other work I could do and could come back, thereby giving her the chance to shower while I was gone.

Like I said, she’s an attractive young lady, 20ish or so, and I came very close to asking her if I could watch her shower. No touching of course, just watching. My manners and professionalism got the better of me and I left to do another job. Now I’m wishing so much that I had braved up and asked her. Worst thing that would happen is she’d say no, I’d apologize and leave. Probably hastily. I also don’t want to be tagged as a creepy old man.

Now I’ll never know if I would have had the chance to watch a lovely young lady, a stranger, take a shower. If I did, it would have been just awesome to see.

 

[ILoveOlderWomen]

Or she could have reported you and you could have been fired.

 

[EStaccato]

Or she could have reported you and you could have been fired.

This. This exactly.

 

[marriedbigrl]

You do know that she wasn't interested. The hesitation was NOT because she wanted you to ask a creepy question, its because she didn't want you watching her. Instead of obsessing over whether you could have been creepy, congratulate yourself on doing the right thing and being a good guy. Life almost never imitates porn, I will guarantee the only thing that would have happened is you losing your job.

That being said, fantasize and masturbate about it all you want! Just understand that it is fantasy and if you did it in real life it would be very, very creepy.

 

[EStaccato]

You do know that she wasn't interested. The hesitation was NOT because she wanted you to ask a creepy question, its because she didn't want you watching her. Instead of obsessing over whether you could have been creepy, congratulate yourself on doing the right thing and being a good guy. Life almost never imitates porn, I will guarantee the only thing that would have happened is you losing your job.

That being said, fantasize and masturbate about it all you want! Just understand that it is fantasy and if you did it in real life it would be very, very creepy.

<nodding slowly, eyes wide>

 

[Volk359]

Phew, thanks all for the chastisement. I don’t think anything like that was on her mind and she would have been very surprised if I asked. Her hesitation wasn’t hey, creepy dude here, it was I need to shower but I can’t do it here and I can’t go anywhere else. That’s why I spoke up and said I could leave, to put her at ease and she could do her thing. In fact if I ever came across to a lady as a creepy dude I would be appalled and shamed.

Life never imitates porn, so right, but I also hear stories of people having this very type of thing happen to them. Unless you’re 100% sure it’s best to leave well enough alone.

Seriously, thanks everybody.

 

[Afterhours22]

Here is a confession for you, my 24-year-old neighbor likes to lay on her bed at night sometimes, with the window open and blinds up, wearing nothing but her panties and a t-shirt. Her bedroom window is literally 20 feet from side living room window so I can't help but enjoy the show, or should I be a good citizen and say, "Hey, close your fucking window, I don't want to see you in your panties!" No, I don't think so.

 

[Volk359]

Here is a confession for you, my 24-year-old neighbor likes to lay on her bed at night sometimes, with the window open and blinds up, wearing nothing but her panties and a t-shirt. Her bedroom window is literally 20 feet from side living room window so I can't help but enjoy the show, or should I be a good citizen and say, "Hey, close your fucking window, I don't want to see you in your panties!" No, I don't think so.

In cases like that you’d think she knows she can be seen. Have you ever seen her masturbate?

 

[jharp]

I wasn’t sure where else to post this so I figured maybe a new thread would be appropriate.

So, I had a kink opportunity today that I passed on and wondering if it was the smart thing to do or risk it and had gone through with it.

I work at the local university in maintenance and the job gets me around to all of the different buildings around campus for students, faculty, and staff, including the bathrooms, showers, and locker rooms. If it’s a women’s area I always knock and announce myself first or get with the building administrator to schedule a closure. The last thing I want to do is make a woman or young lady uncomfortable.

This morning I was in a women’s shower/bathroom for some electrical work. The room has two separate shower/bathrooms with lockable doors, a small common locker area, and a vanity shelf and mirror. No sooner than when I got started but a student, an attractive young lady, entered. She asked how long I was going to be and I said probably a half hour or so. She came in and got some of her shower stuff out of her locker and started to leave, then hesitated like she didn’t know if she should go or stay. I could tell she was in a hurry and didn’t want to go somewhere else or was unable to. I offered to leave telling her I had other work I could do and could come back, thereby giving her the chance to shower while I was gone.

Like I said, she’s an attractive young lady, 20ish or so, and I came very close to asking her if I could watch her shower. No touching of course, just watching. My manners and professionalism got the better of me and I left to do another job. Now I’m wishing so much that I had braved up and asked her. Worst thing that would happen is she’d say no, I’d apologize and leave. Probably hastily. I also don’t want to be tagged as a creepy old man.

Now I’ll never know if I would have had the chance to watch a lovely young lady, a stranger, take a shower. If I did, it would have been just awesome to see.

You did the right thing and smart thing by being professional. Unless you're good at reading a womans 'tells' that she's attracted to you its better to play it safe. You likely would have been fired and hit with a sexual harassment or possibly sexual assault charge depending on how much the Law wants to make an example of you. Its not worth it.

Here is a confession for you, my 24-year-old neighbor likes to lay on her bed at night sometimes, with the window open and blinds up, wearing nothing but her panties and a t-shirt. Her bedroom window is literally 20 feet from side living room window so I can't help but enjoy the show, or should I be a good citizen and say, "Hey, close your fucking window, I don't want to see you in your panties!" No, I don't think so.

In this case she either knows you can see her and likes it or just doesn't care. Rather than being confrontational about it, maybe bring it up in casual conversation with a bit of flirting. But I'd only recommend that if you're not attached and like what you see. If you don't like it then maybe just politely ask her to stop. No harm done.

 

[marriedbigrl]

Here is a confession for you, my 24-year-old neighbor likes to lay on her bed at night sometimes, with the window open and blinds up, wearing nothing but her panties and a t-shirt. Her bedroom window is literally 20 feet from side living room window so I can't help but enjoy the show, or should I be a good citizen and say, "Hey, close your fucking window, I don't want to see you in your panties!" No, I don't think so.

You have a brain and will power, so you can decide not to "enjoy the show". Just because you can see her does not mean it is ok for you to watch her. This is a situation where you should talk to her and make sure she is aware, before she calls the police on her peeping tom neighbor. Its one thing to glance, notice, and move on. Much, much worse to stay and watch.

And no you don't have to say you dont want to see her in her panties. You just say "Hey, not sure you are aware so I wanted to let you know..." If she continues after that, watch to your hearts delight, at that point you know she knows. Otherwise, yes you are also being creepy.

Not trying to moralize, fantasize to your cocks delight! But violating women's privacy in real life just isn't going to get you anywhere.

 

[LizVegas79]

I wasn’t sure where else to post this so I figured maybe a new thread would be appropriate.

So, I had a kink opportunity today that I passed on and wondering if it was the smart thing to do or risk it and had gone through with it.

I work at the local university in maintenance and the job gets me around to all of the different buildings around campus for students, faculty, and staff, including the bathrooms, showers, and locker rooms. If it’s a women’s area I always knock and announce myself first or get with the building administrator to schedule a closure. The last thing I want to do is make a woman or young lady uncomfortable.

This morning I was in a women’s shower/bathroom for some electrical work. The room has two separate shower/bathrooms with lockable doors, a small common locker area, and a vanity shelf and mirror. No sooner than when I got started but a student, an attractive young lady, entered. She asked how long I was going to be and I said probably a half hour or so. She came in and got some of her shower stuff out of her locker and started to leave, then hesitated like she didn’t know if she should go or stay. I could tell she was in a hurry and didn’t want to go somewhere else or was unable to. I offered to leave telling her I had other work I could do and could come back, thereby giving her the chance to shower while I was gone.

Like I said, she’s an attractive young lady, 20ish or so, and I came very close to asking her if I could watch her shower. No touching of course, just watching. My manners and professionalism got the better of me and I left to do another job. Now I’m wishing so much that I had braved up and asked her. Worst thing that would happen is she’d say no, I’d apologize and leave. Probably hastily. I also don’t want to be tagged as a creepy old man.

Now I’ll never know if I would have had the chance to watch a lovely young lady, a stranger, take a shower. If I did, it would have been just awesome to see.

You did the right thing.

I know it must have been hard (no pun intended lol) to be in that situation and you're right there were many directions it could have gone.

But again, you did the right thing.

Trust that the Universe will reward you for your gallantry by presenting you with the opportunity to shower with a CONSENTING attractive young lady in her early 20's next time. Maybe even the same situation with the same girl and next time SHE'LL remember your previous gallantry and tell you that you don't have to leave if you don't want to.

Keep being a gentleman and you will be rewarded for it I promise!

 

[Volk359]

Keep being a gentleman and you will be rewarded for it I promise!

Dr. Liz to the rescue! Thanks for the encouragement.

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[Bisexguy70]

I agree. You did the right thing. The girl wouldnt have been turned on with you watching. Plus, if you were reported that be your career. Is that worth an orgasm? If both or all parties in a sexual situation arent turned on by it, is it worth it.

 

[Lorelei907]

Not only would you be tagged as a creep but a predator as well. Keep in mind that colleges have a reputation for high incidences of rape. I believe that your intentions may have been to “behave” yourself but she doesn’t know that and once the door is closed she’s on her own with someone who is bigger and more powerful than her. As disappointing as it may be now, the best thing you did was walk away from it and maybe save it for a fantasy.

I know you’re an honorable man, like Lizzie said be patient and hang in there. Your reward will come.

 

[Volk359]

Being big, tall, and a male I’m probably already tagged as a predator.

 

[Afterhours22]

By laws, and you can research this, wherever you live, she lost her right to privacy by leaving her blind up and window open, plus the fact, I'm not standing outside her window to watch. I can see her from my easy chair, in my living room, out of my window. My apologies for not being more specific in that. If she had been naked, and I was a prick of a neighbor, I could have her arrested for indecent exposure.
Given the fact that she has her blind up and window open, I am betting that she doesn't care who sees her. One more thing, I'm not trying to get "anywhere" with her, just enjoying the show.

You have a brain and will power, so you can decide not to "enjoy the show". Just because you can see her does not mean it is ok for you to watch her. This is a situation where you should talk to her and make sure she is aware, before she calls the police on her peeping tom neighbor. Its one thing to glance, notice, and move on. Much, much worse to stay and watch.

And no you don't have to say you dont want to see her in her panties. You just say "Hey, not sure you are aware so I wanted to let you know..." If she continues after that, watch to your hearts delight, at that point you know she knows. Otherwise, yes you are also being creepy.

Not trying to moralize, fantasize to your cocks delight! But violating women's privacy in real life just isn't going to get you anywhere.

 

[jedclampet69]

Gee.. !! Not hard to see why so many parents worry when their children attend Universities and schools out of town .. If this young lady wanted anything inappropriate to happen she would have made that completely clear to start .. Even then even if your sick little mind gave you a hard on surely as an employee of a university you realise to have sex with a student is unethical no matter what the situation is .. Creep to the Max and you should not be working there ..FULLSTOP .. Bang or perve on one of the old frustrated lecturers but student no matter their age should be off limits ..

 

[Tahoe_granite]

You have a brain and will power, so you can decide not to "enjoy the show". Just because you can see her does not mean it is ok for you to watch her. This is a situation where you should talk to her and make sure she is aware, before she calls the police on her peeping tom neighbor. Its one thing to glance, notice, and move on. Much, much worse to stay and watch.

And no you don't have to say you dont want to see her in her panties. You just say "Hey, not sure you are aware so I wanted to let you know..." If she continues after that, watch to your hearts delight, at that point you know she knows. Otherwise, yes you are also being creepy.

Not trying to moralize, fantasize to your cocks delight! But violating women's privacy in real life just isn't going to get you anywhere.

Since she can easily be seen through the window I dunno if that's really privacy. If she drew the blinds, that would be private.
It still comes down to decent behavior - "glance, notice and move on" (or not) on his part.

 

[teran]

As others have said, you made the right call, for sure.

You said "Worst thing that would happen is she’d say no." In fact, that is very very far from the worst thing that could happen. I'm sure you can imagine worse scenarios if you spend some sober time considering, but I'll just throw out a three word possibility: Sex Offender List. That would stick for a long time.

More, you didn't have to wonder -- you *know* she wasn't into it, and simply saying "no" was in fact the *best* possible outcome. If she was into the idea, thought it was exciting, or even thought it was no big deal either way, she wouldn't have hesitated, she would have said something like "Oh don't mind me, go ahead with your work, I'll just be a few minutes" or something like that.

IMO the thing to be mindful of, and careful of, is why you didn't see that this was the obvious decision. It sounds like you let wishful/hopeful thinking nearly talk you into a potential heap of trouble. Which I'm sure is how almost everyone who gets into that kind of trouble ended up there - but you don't want that to be you.

 

[Bigboobbabe]

I wasn’t sure where else to post this so I figured maybe a new thread would be appropriate.

So, I had a kink opportunity today that I passed on and wondering if it was the smart thing to do or risk it and had gone through with it.

I work at the local university in maintenance and the job gets me around to all of the different buildings around campus for students, faculty, and staff, including the bathrooms, showers, and locker rooms. If it’s a women’s area I always knock and announce myself first or get with the building administrator to schedule a closure. The last thing I want to do is make a woman or young lady uncomfortable.

This morning I was in a women’s shower/bathroom for some electrical work. The room has two separate shower/bathrooms with lockable doors, a small common locker area, and a vanity shelf and mirror. No sooner than when I got started but a student, an attractive young lady, entered. She asked how long I was going to be and I said probably a half hour or so. She came in and got some of her shower stuff out of her locker and started to leave, then hesitated like she didn’t know if she should go or stay. I could tell she was in a hurry and didn’t want to go somewhere else or was unable to. I offered to leave telling her I had other work I could do and could come back, thereby giving her the chance to shower while I was gone.

Like I said, she’s an attractive young lady, 20ish or so, and I came very close to asking her if I could watch her shower. No touching of course, just watching. My manners and professionalism got the better of me and I left to do another job. Now I’m wishing so much that I had braved up and asked her. Worst thing that would happen is she’d say no, I’d apologize and leave. Probably hastily. I also don’t want to be tagged as a creepy old man.

Now I’ll never know if I would have had the chance to watch a lovely young lady, a stranger, take a shower. If I did, it would have been just awesome to see.

If you want to stroke and cum tonight, I can finish your story with fantasy here
When you offered to leave, she tells you it's not necessary. She is in such a hurry you won't even notice she is there.
She steps behind the curtain and slowly undresses. You both know the curtain is almost see through.
You watch her hands raised as she washes her hair.
You see her rubbing the soap over her big breasts. Then her hand between her legs to wash front and back
She turns a bit and bends over, spreading her ass under the flow of the water to rinse.
When the water stops, you are working again as she calls you.
In my haste, I left my towel on the counter. Can you be a dear and bring it to me.
As you approach with the towel, she opens the curtain fully, in all her naked glory. As she takes the towel and starts drying her self she asks you to wait. She steps out, gives you a kiss on the cheek and thanks you for not chasing her off.

 

[Mtnmike]

If you want to stroke and cum tonight, I can finish your story with fantasy here
When you offered to leave, she tells you it's not necessary. She is in such a hurry you won't even notice she is there.
She steps behind the curtain and slowly undresses. You both know the curtain is almost see through.
You watch her hands raised as she washes her hair.
You see her rubbing the soap over her big breasts. Then her hand between her legs to wash front and back
She turns a bit and bends over, spreading her ass under the flow of the water to rinse.
When the water stops, you are working again as she calls you.
In my haste, I left my towel on the counter. Can you be a dear and bring it to me.
As you approach with the towel, she opens the curtain fully, in all her naked glory. As she takes the towel and starts drying her self she asks you to wait. She steps out, gives you a kiss on the cheek and thanks you for not chasing her off.

I would love to stroke & cum for you tonight, my hot sexy lady.

 

[Volk359]

If you want to stroke and cum tonight, I can finish your story with fantasy here
When you offered to leave, she tells you it's not necessary. She is in such a hurry you won't even notice she is there.
She steps behind the curtain and slowly undresses. You both know the curtain is almost see through.
You watch her hands raised as she washes her hair.
You see her rubbing the soap over her big breasts. Then her hand between her legs to wash front and back
She turns a bit and bends over, spreading her ass under the flow of the water to rinse.
When the water stops, you are working again as she calls you.
In my haste, I left my towel on the counter. Can you be a dear and bring it to me.
As you approach with the towel, she opens the curtain fully, in all her naked glory. As she takes the towel and starts drying her self she asks you to wait. She steps out, gives you a kiss on the cheek and thanks you for not chasing her off.

I like that, thank you!

 

[marriedbigrl]

Since she can easily be seen through the window I dunno if that's really privacy. If she drew the blinds, that would be private.
It still comes down to decent behavior - "glance, notice and move on" (or not) on his part.

Yeah, thats completely fair and makes sense

 

[magic_rat]

Though it's a wonderful fantasy, and in porn she'd have said yes, a dozen of her friends would show up and you'd suddenly find yourself involved in an orgy...

No. That shit rarely if ever happens.

And speaking as a father... my daughter had, by all accounts, a very good time at uni. She's always been a party girl (and no, I have no direct experience of this, incest isn't my thing) but if you'd attempted this with her she'd have reported you and I'd hunt you down and leave you bleeding in a gutter like a rabid dog!

Leaving was the only intelligent move.

 

[turbocs37]

You did the right thing and smart thing by being professional. Unless you're good at reading a womans 'tells' that she's attracted to you its better to play it safe. You likely would have been fired and hit with a sexual harassment or possibly sexual assault charge depending on how much the Law wants to make an example of you. Its not worth it.



In this case she either knows you can see her and likes it or just doesn't care. Rather than being confrontational about it, maybe bring it up in casual conversation with a bit of flirting. But I'd only recommend that if you're not attached and like what you see. If you don't like it then maybe just politely ask her to stop. No harm done.

You have a brain and will power, so you can decide not to "enjoy the show". Just because you can see her does not mean it is ok for you to watch her. This is a situation where you should talk to her and make sure she is aware, before she calls the police on her peeping tom neighbor. Its one thing to glance, notice, and move on. Much, much worse to stay and watch.

And no you don't have to say you dont want to see her in her panties. You just say "Hey, not sure you are aware so I wanted to let you know..." If she continues after that, watch to your hearts delight, at that point you know she knows. Otherwise, yes you are also being creepy.

Not trying to moralize, fantasize to your cocks delight! But violating women's privacy in real life just isn't going to get you anywhere.

In the shower situation, I agree that he did the right thing. For both parties. In the window dilemma, I don't think he needs to do anything unless he wants to escalate the voyeurism. She knows. Even if she doesn't, I seriously doubt you can get in legal trouble for looking out your own window.