I know. That's why I never pushed for hormone replacement and try to be patient and accepting. After all, I signed up for this. Getting married was my idea, and it wasn't like I didn't know what I was getting myself into.
Yep, it's the "better or worse" part of the marriage vows! I don't regret a single moment.
So it's the idea of penetration you're not into but cock on ass and between your cheeks turns you on. I've seen some hot videos of that action, pretty erotic almost like faux fucking.
So many parallels to my relationship in this comment.
Try a Japanese or Asian eggplant. Just the right size, shape and feel - smooth and hard enough with a little give. Easily replaced and won't look out of place in the vegetable bin
And please use something for lube. Lots of it.
I have had these thoughts for a long time now, but they are getting more extreme as I find myself also in a sexless marriage. Hoping someday to have them fulfilled.
wow you really do have a dilemma. I recently had the pleasure off sucking a married man. He too has kids and seldom do he and his wife have sex. After he came there was a noticeable change in his demeaner. We talked after and he assure me he was fine, but I could tell he felt an enormous amount of guilt even though he enjoyed having me suck him and let him cum in my mouth.
The talking after is where he was uncomfortable. Married want a blow and go. He may have thought you wanted to bake cookies. Just suck his cock and balls, rim him too. After he nuts let him pack his junk away and leave. Sitting a having pillow talk ain’t his business.
Wants a gay bottom, not a sissy...........
I know form personal experiences; giving and receiving
A straight guilt ridden guy in the post orgasm blues can be a dangerous situation that could turn violent. An all too common news story.
It doesn’t happen all to often. I’ve been closeted Bi male since I was (____) and I’m 52 now. Never ever did I cum across this. When I was deep in the lifestyle, the late 80’s and early 90’s college.
There are no secret words or phrases that I know of. Just put in a brief summary of what you are looking for and let the profile speak for itself. Be honest and do not get too wordy. You can also search profiles of other guys and send a message to a few that spark your interest. For non-paying members, you only get two messages per day.
(thx you too
)I am in that position also and have acted on my urges. Because I would never risk my 48 year marriage, I am always so freakin scared of getting caught that it kind of takes the pleasure away from the experience.
In the same spot here. Not in a sexless marriage - wife still enjoys things but our frequency is WAY down. Once a week, at best. She's good with that but I'm not so I spend a lot of time here and in chat.
The neighbor thing is a fantasy of mine for 20 years.For me it's the mental excitement. Same old story but no sex with the wife for 15 years. And I don't dare talk to her about that because
she will just say "Fine, we can just get divorced". But it's like I don't want that, especially to be financially ruined. I know folks see things
differently, but that's just me.
I have cammed with just a couple of guys and felt "bad" afterwards. Heck I have even jerked off and felt "bad" for doing so. What's up with
that.
My wife and 19 year old son are out of the house so I'm doing my normal thing of checking out Lit while I'm buck naked.
I think my online fantasy is to find just a regular guy that gets no sex from his wife or little sex. And he can't ever meet in person but
he uses Lit as an out. But finding that guy, even online, seems to be impossible. There are lots of guys here that seem willing to chat but
they quickly falter and disappear.
My in person fantasy is to have a trusted friend or a neighbor to play with, sadly I have neither. Maybe a neighbor with benefits.
He moves in with his family, we meet while mowing. He invites me over for a beer and watch a game. Thankfully his wife and my wife
become good friends. I'm in his basement drinking a beer and watching a game and we get to talking about sex or lack there of.
Maybe he says he has a great sex life but hie wife refuses to go down on him, maybe I say that I never ever get sex, but that i went
down on a friend of mine in my younger years. maybe we get to talking about porn and he has a PC in his basement and shows me what
excites him. Next thing I know I'm dropping to my knees. That would be amazing.
But until that happens physically, I keep on looking for guys to chat about fantasies in Lit land.
