Fantasy Poly Dynamic, Whether V, Triad, or Quad.

[SEVERUSMAX]

In your ideal scenario, if you're poly (or even if you can imagine yourself being poly), what is your fantasy poly situation, is it a V, is it open or closed, is it a triad, is it a quad, is it MFM, FMF, MMM, FFF, MFF, MMF, MMFF, are there are any celebs in it, neighbors, co-workers, etc.

This is not meant to be a realistic scenario. Nor is it what will necessarily make you happiest in real life. This is just fantasy here. As John Lennon once said, "Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans." Be that as it may, this is what you imagine, in your fantasy mindset, will make you happiest of all, in your heart of hearts. If you looked into the Sorcerer's Stone, as on Harry Potter, what would you see?

Ideal scenario for me would be a quad, I think, or maybe a quid, two men, two or three women, all of us intimate with each other. And open, not closed, in case we get in the mood to stray now and then.

 

[lawlessmurf69]

For me it would be MFM or MFF but MFFM sounds nice

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Oh, and while quads are great, if Dana Delany wanted in, I'd make it a quid for her.

 

[screwher]

The only poly scenario I could see happening in our marriage is bringing in another man. I have no bi tendencies, so the other man would just basically be a second husband for my wife. We would move a double bed into the spare room and my wife would share that with him. While we retained our master bedroom. She would alternate which bed she slept in. And which husband she had sex with. Basically whatever goes on with us as a couple, the everyday little things around the house, she’d do with him too.

I guess to the outside world, we’d have to pass him off as a down in his luck friend staying at our place until he’s back on his feet.

 

[EdEc]

Oh, and while quads are great, if Dana Delany wanted in, I'd make it a quid for her.

Dana Delany is HOT.

 

[FantasySharer1]

My absolute favorite poly dynamic would be for my wife's older brother to move into our house with us and become a second "husband" to her. The set up would be exclusive loyal between the three of us. I saw his dick in a locker room years ago and the fact that he's so much bigger and thicker than me never left my mind and turned into how wonderful it would be if he could please his baby sister - my wife - with it. The fact that they have an INCREDIBLY close, loving, hilarious, and kind relationship already just adds to it for me. If they weren't siblings they'd be perfect for each other. I fantasize about how the dynamic would be all the time.

1. Her brother would have equal sexual rights to her at any time.

2. We'd sleep in the same bed together, but have an extra bedroom in case one of us wanted to sleep or rest while the other two played.

3. He and I would both provide for our family while she stays at home

4. I'd regularly wake up to her pussy in my face dripping her brother's cum into my mouth because they'd have just fucked first thing in the morning right next to me.

5. He'd regularly eat her out after I've fucked her as well.

6. Threesomes where there's some double-vaginal penetration would be a regular part of our lives.

7. To take away the tension of having too many decision makers in the house, she'd get final say when he and I disagree on big family decisions.

8. He and I would trade sexual tips on how to please her.

9. We'd have free-use days where she'd be OK with us just having her whenever and however either of us want.

10. There would be many times where I'd lay under her pussy while he fucks her from behind or lay under her missionary style while he does the same, and vice-versa.

11. Fantasy-only since it's so unsafe: She'd have babies with both of us. We'd both get her pregnant so that our family is truly a blend of our relationships. I'd love to rub her feet while her brother's baby grows in her womb or watch him eat her pussy while she's 5 months pregnant with my child.

12. I love the idea of me and him having different fetishes with her. My wife and I would play with watersports and pee but she and her brother would do more BDSM stuff. We'd have different sex lives while sharing a sex life together.

13. I've thought about all the other details too and how our lives would go. He's more of a handyman and I'm more of the reader so we'd be able to teach our kids together and give them the best of all our skills.

14. I love the idea of them sharing intimate moments in front of me, like her hand on his chest or his hand on her ass while they kiss gently in the kitchen as I'm making dinner. Or him seeing me come up behind her and caressing her ass while I kiss her neck while she's cutting tomatoes. His little actions constantly reminding me: "I'm fucking your wife." and my actions constantly reminding him: "I'm fucking your baby sister."

15. Even in conversation we fulfill different parts of my wife's interests intellectually. It would be great to have us both around all the time to keep her consistently fulfilled with her two men.

16. The idea of me preparing her body for a hot night with him or vice-versa turns me on.

We could pass it off as "her brother stays with us" but really, her brother would be her husband in every sense of the word alongside me. We'd share domestic tasks, chores, everything.

Nothing would please me more than to know that on any night I feel like reading or relaxing or seeing my friends instead of sex - her brother is there to absolutely pound her pussy and please her and make her scream in pleasure like there's no tomorrow. That I could come home to them snuggling in our bed, her pussy dripping with him so I could slowly lick her clean or slide in to take their sloppy seconds.

Sometimes I wonder if this is all just sexual fantasy, but the more I've thought about it over the years, I realize this is exactly how I'd want my life to be if I could change it.

 

[anniebaby10]

My absolute favorite poly dynamic would be for my wife's older brother to move into our house with us and become a second "husband" to her. The set up would be exclusive loyal between the three of us. I saw his dick in a locker room years ago and the fact that he's so much bigger and thicker than me never left my mind and turned into how wonderful it would be if he could please his baby sister - my wife - with it. The fact that they have an INCREDIBLY close, loving, hilarious, and kind relationship already just adds to it for me. If they weren't siblings they'd be perfect for each other. I fantasize about how the dynamic would be all the time.

1. Her brother would have equal sexual rights to her at any time.

2. We'd sleep in the same bed together, but have an extra bedroom in case one of us wanted to sleep or rest while the other two played.

3. He and I would both provide for our family while she stays at home

4. I'd regularly wake up to her pussy in my face dripping her brother's cum into my mouth because they'd have just fucked first thing in the morning right next to me.

5. He'd regularly eat her out after I've fucked her as well.

6. Threesomes where there's some double-vaginal penetration would be a regular part of our lives.

7. To take away the tension of having too many decision makers in the house, she'd get final say when he and I disagree on big family decisions.

8. He and I would trade sexual tips on how to please her.

9. We'd have free-use days where she'd be OK with us just having her whenever and however either of us want.

10. There would be many times where I'd lay under her pussy while he fucks her from behind or lay under her missionary style while he does the same, and vice-versa.

11. Fantasy-only since it's so unsafe: She'd have babies with both of us. We'd both get her pregnant so that our family is truly a blend of our relationships. I'd love to rub her feet while her brother's baby grows in her womb or watch him eat her pussy while she's 5 months pregnant with my child.

12. I love the idea of me and him having different fetishes with her. My wife and I would play with watersports and pee but she and her brother would do more BDSM stuff. We'd have different sex lives while sharing a sex life together.

13. I've thought about all the other details too and how our lives would go. He's more of a handyman and I'm more of the reader so we'd be able to teach our kids together and give them the best of all our skills.

14. I love the idea of them sharing intimate moments in front of me, like her hand on his chest or his hand on her ass while they kiss gently in the kitchen as I'm making dinner. Or him seeing me come up behind her and caressing her ass while I kiss her neck while she's cutting tomatoes. His little actions constantly reminding me: "I'm fucking your wife." and my actions constantly reminding him: "I'm fucking your baby sister."

15. Even in conversation we fulfill different parts of my wife's interests intellectually. It would be great to have us both around all the time to keep her consistently fulfilled with her two men.

16. The idea of me preparing her body for a hot night with him or vice-versa turns me on.

We could pass it off as "her brother stays with us" but really, her brother would be her husband in every sense of the word alongside me. We'd share domestic tasks, chores, everything.

Nothing would please me more than to know that on any night I feel like reading or relaxing or seeing my friends instead of sex - her brother is there to absolutely pound her pussy and please her and make her scream in pleasure like there's no tomorrow. That I could come home to them snuggling in our bed, her pussy dripping with him so I could slowly lick her clean or slide in to take their sloppy seconds.

Sometimes I wonder if this is all just sexual fantasy, but the more I've thought about it over the years, I realize this is exactly how I'd want my life to be if I could change it.

You ever tell her? you never know what could happen.

 

[FantasySharer1]

You ever tell her? you never know what could happen.

She's knows I've had incestuous fantasies about them together but she doesn't know how deeply and truly I want him to join us and spend the rest of our lives with the two us worshipping her pussy together. That if every day for the rest of our lives that I fucked her, I knew that some of the moisture in her pussy was her big brother's cum, I'd be the happiest man in the world.

 

[screwher]

The only poly scenario I could see happening in our marriage is bringing in another man. I have no bi tendencies, so the other man would just basically be a second husband for my wife. We would move a double bed into the spare room and my wife would share that with him. While we retained our master bedroom. She would alternate which bed she slept in. And which husband she had sex with. Basically whatever goes on with us as a couple, the everyday little things around the house, she’d do with him too.

I guess to the outside world, we’d have to pass him off as a down in his luck friend staying at our place until he’s back on his feet.

Probably the best moment in this scenario is when her “husband” takes my wife into their bedroom and shuts the door! Knowing that he’s going to fuck her!

 

[screwher]

Another interesting scenario would be my wife meeting and developing feelings for a married man. We’ll call the other couple ‘“Jack” and “Jill”. Not wanting to ruin two marriages we decide Jack and Jill will move in our place. Our spare room becomes their bedroom. And the basement we turn into a bedroom for Mrs. Screwher and Jack. My wife spends half her nights with me and the other screwing and sleeping with Jack.

 

[WordsAreErotic]

A taboo quad has always been my fantasy. Me and my cousin or myself and my niece with another taboo couple. We’re all bi lovers and, at times can be open.

 

[screwher]

I'm selfish and over 90% straight so I fantasize about a harem of women. Lol

Probably, in real life, no more than two or three. They don't have to be sexually attracted to eachother, though I wouldn't complain about that. They would need to see themselves as in a relationship with eachother as much as with me...

And that's part of the fantasy. I want them to live and support eachother- and treat me like we live in a very emotionally aware porno.

I'm hesitant to maintain open relationships, not the jealous type, but despite sharing I still think that feeling of exclusivity is important. Maybe open on special occasions.

This is a great scenario you’ve put together here. I think it would be hot if my wife was a member of your “harem”. But not at the expense of my marriage. The two women you live with would be your wives. Mrs. Screwher would be your mistress that your wives approve of.

 

[FantasySharer1]

This is a great scenario you’ve put together here. I think it would be hot if my wife was a member of your “harem”. But not at the expense of my marriage. The two women you live with would be your wives. Mrs. Screwher would be your mistress that your wives approve of.

This would be so interesting. I guess she would go there for brunch in the morning some days and then come back in the afternoon, and you'd know exactly what has transpired?

I have a similar thought of my BIL and I sharing my wife. She'd wake up on a Saturday and go to his house next door. They'd fuck for hours.

She comes home in the afternoon, absolutely disheveled and her pussy dripping thick loads of her brother's cum. I smell him all over her and I'd immediately drop to my knees in our foyer as she mounts my face and drips their load into my mouth so I can swallow every drop.

I'd text him right after and tell him he tasted great today.

 

[petes478]

Clean up

 

[inadequate]

I think my ultimate fantasy in that regard is a quad situation - 2 males, 2 females. There are no hierarchies, no power dynamics, no shame or moral judgment. We give each other pleasure in whatever way we can. Whatever configuration feels right in the moment to impart maximum sensation. The possibilities would be so freeing, so unbelievably erotic. I think about it too much...

 

[womaneater58]

I think my ultimate fantasy in that regard is a quad situation - 2 males, 2 females. There are no hierarchies, no power dynamics, no shame or moral judgment. We give each other pleasure in whatever way we can. Whatever configuration feels right in the moment to impart maximum sensation. The possibilities would be so freeing, so unbelievably erotic. I think about it too much...

I'd love this.

 

[PhoenixRyzing]

I don't think I'd want to live with more people. I'm pretty introverted, and even though my wife and I are super close, it's nice to have some time alone. So, for me, nothing too exciting, I'd say me having an outside partner who's somewhere between FWB and a g/f. Or more precisely an ACTUAL FRIEND whom I really care about and have great sexual chemistry with and whose place I sleep over at maybe 1-2x a week, but with whom there's not a lot of emotional intensity. And my wife enjoying something similar. But it would great if we could all be friends and be mutually supportive.

 

[SevMax2]

I don't think I'd want to live with more people. I'm pretty introverted, and even though my wife and I are super close, it's nice to have some time alone. So, for me, nothing too exciting, I'd say me having an outside partner who's somewhere between FWB and a g/f. Or more precisely an ACTUAL FRIEND whom I really care about and have great sexual chemistry with and whose place I sleep over at maybe 1-2x a week, but with whom there's not a lot of emotional intensity. And my wife enjoying something similar. But it would great if we could all be friends and be mutually supportive.

Separate and solo polyamory are more common and in vogue than you might think.

 

[Naughtygirl201]

I don't think I'd want to live with more people. I'm pretty introverted, and even though my wife and I are super close, it's nice to have some time alone. So, for me, nothing too exciting, I'd say me having an outside partner who's somewhere between FWB and a g/f. Or more precisely an ACTUAL FRIEND whom I really care about and have great sexual chemistry with and whose place I sleep over at maybe 1-2x a week, but with whom there's not a lot of emotional intensity. And my wife enjoying something similar. But it would great if we could all be friends and be mutually supportive.

I feel this way too. I love our third, but sometimes space is nice. Hubby understands that I'm an introvert and drags him out of the bedroom on occasion when he's here so I can have a little break.

 

[davenjenn]

MFM
My husband and his best friend
The best friend's home when his wife was out of town

 

[davenjenn]

MFMF
2 couples
Me and a guyfriend with his bestfriend and his mate
Out of town/state/country
Hotel balcony

Did you play with both guys?

 

[CuttingEdge]

My girlfriend and I talked about this yesterday. We both want a MMF, but must say, for the same reasons I want to see her pleased by two men, she wanted to see my excitement of being taken care of by two ladies. It never was anything I really wanted, but she made a convincing argument I must say after going into some details of what it would be like.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

I watched a movie several years ago about Poly relationships. SexMagic I think was the name. One of couples (thruples?) they highlighted was a MFM scenario where the married husband would drop his wife off at the thirds house all kiss and hug and say their goodbyes and off he went and momma and third go walking hand-in-hand on the beach!

This has always struck me as so erotic for some reason? Even though it’s pretty tame by Lit standards. I always envisioned our situation to be like this. My wife is attempting to make this a reality with a mutual friend.