Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

Exactly I don’t mind trying new things, and learning what the person likes and have them know what I like, but absolutely there needs to a talk before things happen. I don’t want to cross any line that there might be and cause pain or any discomfort that’s not wanted.
And that is why it is so easy to trust my Dom. Not only did we go through limits thoroughly, he also has asked to clarify a few, I see he cares - and I feel and see he can read my reactions extremely well, too. Heck, better than anyone ever, I think, and I've had at least a couple of good ones in the past.
But oh no, uh uh, wants to know what's involved, what I've bought, what I'm going to do..
Kinda ruins the moment, but doesn't really as now we both know my plan and the excitement for her is not the mystery but now knowing what I'm going to do and and the anticipation of having to wait till it happens.
Well there I am different. When I trust enough, I don't need to know. But then again I don't have too bad experiences. I have, however, had partners which I wouldn't have wanted to make me surprises in the bedroom.
Takes a while to learn but for anyone wanting to really turn their partner on, esp a woman (to my knowledge I've never turned a man on so can't relate) turn her mind on 1st, the body will follow extremely quickly! 🥰
Yes, oh yes. Even the same touch has a different effect if you can connect some anticipation to it.
 
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