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So question time for you peeps.
Pics do you send them in pms? How do you feel about recycled pics as in knowing someone posted it somewhere else? Do you limit yourself to what you will and won't send? Or is it get your kit off asap and wow them with your bits?
 
I can say 100% anyone who knew the old me would never recognize me today.
I'm sorry you have never found anyone you can trust to open up to even enough for them to get the jist of how you were, our past helps form the people who we become today no matter how horrible or awful it was.
Well you turned out pretty great
 
Pics do you send them in pms? How do you feel about recycled pics as in knowing someone posted it somewhere else? Do you limit yourself to what you will and won't send? Or is it get your kit off asap and wow them with your bits?
I haven't sent a pic in PM since the new rollout. As for recycled. I don't see a problem in them. Folks should be grateful for anything you choose to share. I don't care for begging for pics, or other entitled behaviors when it comes to sharing your body. Me personally, I won't send pics of my chest for personal reasons, and neither will I show my star or noodle unless I intend to use them with said person. That's just me tho, I don't know what others do
 
I am willing to send pictures in pm if asked. Otherwise, I prefer to do it via another platform if possible. I don’t necessarily mind recycled pictures unless I’ve seen them posted and dedicated to someone else.

I generally wow with my words before my pictures, but hey.
To me it depends on who asks for it and what its of I'm way more free with my body than I am my face. I don't do other platforms I find chats die out fast because I end up forgetting about them 😅 plus one leaked Skype chat was enough for me. (but that was also when I was a lot more in the closet about some of my kinks.)
I agree on the recycled pics I don't care if its just something they generally posted not to keen on being second fiddle.

I'm definitely more inclined to explicitly described things than jump into a pic chat only.
 
So question time for you peeps.
Pics do you send them in pms? How do you feel about recycled pics as in knowing someone posted it somewhere else? Do you limit yourself to what you will and won't send? Or is it get your kit off asap and wow them with your bits?
Ooh, questions. Incoming wall of text!

I don't do much in terms of pics. Or PMs, really. Face thread is about it. Trust me, nobody wants to see anything else.

If a conversation is good and there is rapport, I'm not averse to sending pics here and there. No junk. Ever. That's my only real hard limit.

Not wowing anybody with my bits. Enjoy receiving pics on the very rare occasion when it happens. But it's usually meant in a silly or flirty way rather in a get off way. Boobs are fun, but I don't think anybody is aiming to seduce ME, lol.

I don't mind recycled pics. I would love it if someone snapped a pic just for me, but I don't think I have ever had that kind of relationship with anyone on Lit.
 
So question time for you peeps.
Pics do you send them in pms? How do you feel about recycled pics as in knowing someone posted it somewhere else? Do you limit yourself to what you will and won't send? Or is it get your kit off asap and wow them with your bits?
Never had a lit pm convo along the lines where pics would get involved. But on other apps, yes to sending, yes to recycle, yes to limit, and delete when I see the message has been read, no to effort on sexy poses so idk about wow-ing them

If I'm on the receiving end, then yes to dick... I mean yes to pic, don't care for recycle. Sexy on first time, sexy on 100th time but might change on 101th so let me see that one more time, yes and erespect to their limits but also booooo
 
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The real you is yours to share when you find someone worthy of sharing it with. The old you is yours to remember for how far you've come and what you've survived

Well I imagine this is probably a busy time of year for her. Increased hours with manual labor jobs, people pulling and injuring themselves having fun, and that's before any real life drama she may have.
Your right on both accounts!
 
I haven't sent a pic in PM since the new rollout. As for recycled. I don't see a problem in them. Folks should be grateful for anything you choose to share. I don't care for begging for pics, or other entitled behaviors when it comes to sharing your body. Me personally, I won't send pics of my chest for personal reasons, and neither will I show my star or noodle unless I intend to use them with said person. That's just me tho, I don't know what others do
I do recycle pics on the odd occasion but I'll always state it and its usually nothing to flashy mostly face pics for the rare few I send those too. (Mostly because I hate taking face pics 🤣)
I limit myself on vag I might do a cheeky fingers under panties or something like that but I'm not about to snap it in all its glory and like you said not use it.
 
Ooh, questions. Incoming wall of text!

I don't do much in terms of pics. Or PMs, really. Face thread is about it. Trust me, nobody wants to see anything else.

If a conversation is good and there is rapport, I'm not averse to sending pics here and there. No junk. Ever. That's my only real hard limit.

Not wowing anybody with my bits. Enjoy receiving pics on the very rare occasion when it happens. But it's usually meant in a silly or flirty way rather in a get off way. Boobs are fun, but I don't think anybody is aiming to seduce ME, lol.

I don't mind recycled pics. I would love it if someone snapped a pic just for me, but I don't think I have ever had that kind of relationship with anyone on Lit.
Now I will say this upfront I have never seen a face pic or any other pic of you but don't sell yourself short I am sure as Sin that there are plenty of women out there who prefer a guy with thoughtful depth than a pretty boy with a self entitled attitude.
From what I have seen of your post you have a lot to offer to the right woman.
 
Never had a lit pm convo along the lines where pics would get involved. But on other apps, yes to sending, yes to recycle, yes to limit, and delete when I see the message has been read, no to effort on sexy poses so idk about wow-ing them

If I'm on the receiving end, then yes to dick... I mean yes to pic, don't care for recycle. Sexy on first time, sexy on 100th time but might change on 101th so let me see that one more time, yes and erespect to their limits but also booooo

I'm sure you wow them just fine with whatever you choose to show. 😏

I do agree with the recycling of dick and bits pics it feels somewhat tarnished knowing it wasn't taken specifically for you and can change the mood pretty fast
 
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