Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Goes to my stFu corner. Seems I say stuff and get more eye brow raised then anything.

why, what did I miss lol

 

[SinfuIDreams]

I've grown shy since I did events. I don't know, I guess I feel invisible in a club, so I go all out, but one clap or git it, and I retreat to my Nat shell

I get this but mines along the lines of being a hermit for so long I hate crowds now I don't think I could find that level of comfort again

 

[MsNatalie99]

I get this but mines along the lines of being a hermit for so long I hate crowds now I don't think I could find that level of comfort again

I know what you mean, at least in certain contexts

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

In my friend's Discord channel, they made a "Time Out Corner" just for me, after I said some unfortunate things about hockey not being a real sport...
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yay go sports. get the thingy closer to the thingy and get some point thingies.

 

[SinfuIDreams]

I know what you mean, at least in certain contexts

Besides my students the only people who have seen me dance in 5years is my DIL and my grandbabies and I don't think they really count
Especially when she whooping look at nanny go

 

[MsNatalie99]

yay go sports. get the thingy closer to the thingy and get some point thingies.

Or when you get invited to a game, so you get the cutest game gear you can, only to realize you're in the wrong stands sporting the wrong jersey

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I've grown shy since I did events. I don't know, I guess I feel invisible in a club, so I go all out, but one clap or git it, and I retreat to my Nat shell

yeah, I get that. people make me nervous when they look at me too much... with their eyes and all lol. There is a right amount of eye looking then there is too much haha.

 

[MsNatalie99]

Besides my students the only people who have seen me dance in 5years is my DIL and my grandbabies and I don't think they really count
Especially when she whooping looking at nanny go

Well, at least they know talent when they see it

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Or when you get invited to a game, so you get the cutest game gear you can, only to realize you're in the wrong stands sporting the wrong jersey

oh I only go for the alcohol.

 

[SinfuIDreams]

yeah, I get that. people make me nervous when they look at me too much... with their eyes and all lol. There is a right amount of eye looking then there is too much haha.

Long as its not the side eye either if your gonna look be a man and turn your whole damn head

 

[MsNatalie99]

oh I only go for the alcohol.

I went, because he was cute, and I was thirstyView attachment 2167144

 

[SinfuIDreams]

oh I only go for the alcohol.

I go for the rugged men in short shorts covering each other in mud and yelling

 

[MsNatalie99]

I go for the rugged men in short shorts covering each other in mud and yelling

 

[SinfuIDreams]

I can guarantee there isn't a dry pair of panties at any all blacks game

 

[MsNatalie99]

I can guarantee there isn't a dry pair of panties at any all blacks game

Annnnnnnd searching vids

 

[SinfuIDreams]

Annnnnnnd searching vids

Just watch that haka vid again *fans self*

 

[LittleSwitchy]

I get this but mines along the lines of being a hermit for so long I hate crowds now I don't think I could find that level of comfort again

I get that not liking crowds. I found out when I went to a concert. A friend and I were in the pit.
I found out I need my space. Having so many people that close. Yeah not good at all

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Long as its not the side eye either if your gonna look be a man and turn your whole damn head

side eye is always the worst, as it is hard to read. Like I can't be the only chick who has ended up staring in a mirror like, nope top isn't on inside out, lipstick not smeared, eyeliner not running, skirt not tucked into the hose. what the hell was that look for, I don't see what is wrong lol.

 

[SinfuIDreams]

I get that not liking crowds. I found out when I went to a concert. A friend and I were in the pit.
I found out I need my space. Having so many people that close. Yeah not good at all

I never really have been to good with multiple people to close to me. My brain scrambles to the how easy it would be for someone to stab me in the neck or kidney and have nobody even notice until I'm dead. That's kinda my own issue though not something that would happen frequently.

 

[SinfuIDreams]

side eye is always the worst, as it is hard to read. Like I can't be the only chick who has ended up staring in a mirror like, nope top isn't on inside out, lipstick not smeared, eyeliner not running, skirt not tucked into the hose. what the hell was that look for, I don't see what is wrong lol.

This reminds me of going out for drinks with a couple of friends and having this guy side eye me a few times. I ended up marching over to him with my hands on my hips and proceeding to dress him down..
Turns out M had hired him to keep a eye on us girls and I felt like a real piece of shit cause I made the poor fella cry his first night on the job

 

[LittleSwitchy]

side eye is always the worst, as it is hard to read. Like I can't be the only chick who has ended up staring in a mirror like, nope top isn't on inside out, lipstick not smeared, eyeliner not running, skirt not tucked into the hose. what the hell was that look for, I don't see what is wrong lol.

I’ve changed last few years. If someone gives me a look. I’m probably going to say something.
I get enough judgements. People see my goatee. Immediately think … oh he’s not nice.
Had one lady walking past with her bf/ husband. Oooh I don’t like that. It’s ugly. As she’s looking at me.
I turned my head. Said over my shoulder
Maybe you should stFu you judgemental bitch.
Years ago. I’d not have said anything.

 

[SinfuIDreams]

I’ve changed last few years. If someone gives me a look. I’m probably going to say something.
I get enough judgements. People see my goatee. Immediately think … oh he’s not nice.
Had one lady walking past with her bf/ husband. Oooh I don’t like that. It’s ugly. As she’s looking at me.
I turned my head. Said over my shoulder
Maybe you should stFu you judgemental bitch.
Years ago. I’d not have said anything.

People are always going to judge, its human nature. Doesn't mean you have to keep quiet if they are verbally with their judgment my favourite thing to do is give it back to them.
She didn't like your goatee tell her that her hair looks like a wet fish flopping about .

 

[MsNatalie99]

People are always going to judge, its human nature. Doesn't mean you have to keep quiet if they are verbally with their judgment my favourite thing to do is give it back to them.
She didn't like your goatee tell her that her hair looks like a wet fish flopping about .

Tell her she outta see what you did with your pubes. That's right, Cornrows! Appropriation, sorry not sorry

 

[SinfuIDreams]

Tell her she outta see what you did with your pubes. That's right, Cornrows! Appropriation, sorry not sorry

I carry a paper bag in my hand bag. I've been known to offer it up to the partners of catty women along with the line of now you can be seen in public with her and not feel embarrassed

 

[Mika1215]

People are always going to judge, its human nature. Doesn't mean you have to keep quiet if they are verbally with their judgment my favourite thing to do is give it back to them.
She didn't like your goatee tell her that her hair looks like a wet fish flopping about .

Also whatever happened to manners? I mean, everyone judges things, but no one needs to hear your opinion. When did it become ok to say shit to/in front of people?

This is not my favorite iteration of the world.