Maybe tell them.
Red flag riiiiight there
I think this is it, its time to walk away and let them deal without having me as a friend at all.Oh I don’t doubt you’re blunt, Sinthen I suppose you have to ask yourself the question. Are they really your friend? A friend should respect boundaries regardless of their own circumstances. If you’ve had that conversation and they continue to push then I don’t really see them giving you much choice but to end the conversations and walk away.
I did think we could be friends without it, I have other friends who I know think I'm sexy and don't hound me the same way.
These things make me sad
And the weird msgs like why didn't you tell me you posted another pic.Red flag riiiiight there
Absolutely agree, some people see it as a real challenge and think for some reason you’ll change your mind ‘just for them’. No means no!! Maybe by losing your friendship they’ll learn a valuable lesson. It’s not a game, it’s not an ego trip. No means NO.
Yeah it makes me sad to. I love having friends here I can talk about life and experiences with
As do I. Unfortunately, not everyone can.
It's not something that should be realized. If you told me no, my concern shouldn't be on why, rather on respecting your wishes.
Creepy, isn’t it.
Why? If someone is not good for you. Why have them in your life?
When these things happen to me (not on lit) I usually stop talking to the person in private and do all the conversation only in public Chat/forum. Most people won't say these things in public. That way, I can still enjoy the friendship
I agree, a massive red flag.Red flag riiiiight there
I honestly hope so, but I know this person plays the lit field and is probably doing the same thing to a bunch of other people at the same time as me which is another reason it wouldn't have worked.
That's how I feel, if someone I thought was a true friend asked me to tone down my sleazy attitude towards them I would instantly stop.
Very freaking creepy
Not necessarily the point. Still feels bad losing a friend. For me, it doesn't hurt a short time. It hurts a long time. Still, I agree that they're not a healthy friend to have if they don't respect your wishes. A simple decision true, but not always an easy one.
They don't talk in public chats often. But I think for now my only option is to ignore them all together
I might know. My friend got a PTSD from her father dying of ALS. She told me the suffering her father went through was inhumane
It's not a easy one I have known them for years since M was still alive and I first started my AM thread. There is major history there for the both of us. Its why I've still been trying to work it out
I guess I’m wired differently. When I’m done in a relationship friend or otherwise. I’m done.
Damn creepy.
Nothing wrong with that. If I care for someone, that'll continue long after I've chosen the part ways. That doesn't mean that there's any kind of room to rekindle things.
Most probably. I had something similar and was really upfront that I was not interested. But also, like you, I didn’t see him in that way to begin with. I found out a wee while later he was feeding the same lines to at least two other people at the same time as me. At least be honest about it
we no longer talk.
It's similar but Kia ora also means goodbye. Kia ora followed by Morena as a greeting is hello good morning.
awwdarn and no time machine when ya need one
